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This game nearly ruined my life

I played UO for 3 years.  That is ALL I wanted to do for 3 years.



Because of UO I dropped out of college, lost friends and a girlfriend.  This game was worse than crack.  Playing 5-10 hours a day.



Yet here I am after not playing since that one expansion pack which (thankfully) ruined the game.  Is this game still fun?  How many people stil play since the release UO:R?



The PvP was terrible after that last expansion, basically no risk in it anymore.  All the fun was gone, how is it now?
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  • nakumanakuma Member UncommonPosts: 1,310

    no offense dude, thats no ones fault but your own. If you can't learn time management on when to play and when to do your college home work for your major. then you have no one to blame but yourself. i truly hope your only kidding, if not, i have no sympathy for people who cant balance, budget their time for real life social obligations and playing a few hours whenever they want.

     I play MMO's and FPS's, and RTS games alot, but I still managed to get a 4 year degree, and do freelance and also work for a reputable company in midst of playing WOW, Eq2, whenever i so well choose. its all about balancing ones time and being responsible for ones actions bro, its obvious you didnt know how to do that. I hope this is a valuable lesson learned, learn from it!

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  • LowItalianLowItalian Member Posts: 3
    I wasn't asking for sympathy.  It wasn't entirely UO, but UO played a big part.  I would stay up till the sun came up like 3 nights a week at least.



    Since quitting UO, I've finished school and gotten a decent job.  I avoid MMORPG's like the plauge now, because I couldn't manage my time.



    I was just curious what the game is like now.  It used to be a great game, I wonder if it's on it's last leg, or if it's still thriving.
  • MaeEyeMaeEye Member UncommonPosts: 1,107
    Originally posted by LowItalian

    I wasn't asking for sympathy.  It wasn't entirely UO, but UO played a big part.  I would stay up till the sun came up like 3 nights a week at least.



    Since quitting UO, I've finished school and gotten a decent job.  I avoid MMORPG's like the plauge now, because I couldn't manage my time.



    I was just curious what the game is like now.  It used to be a great game, I wonder if it's on it's last leg, or if it's still thriving.
    I would say it was on it's last leg when they came out with the AoS expansion.  But since the ninja and samurai's, the game has been chopped down by the evil axe EA.  There are no legs left on this game.  It's just crawling around, bleeding out until it dies.  Poor UO.  Check out Tabula Rasa, Richard -the creater of UO- is creating this game.
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  • nakumanakuma Member UncommonPosts: 1,310

    glad to see you recovered italian. good to hear you finished and got a good job. just be careful dude. you can enjoy a MMO and still hold a decent job, school and what not. Just gotta do "time managment" like anything else in life hhaha. put restraints on your time. there is no reason why you shouldnt be able to play a game,  like a MMO and not have time for Real life obligations, just dont OD lol. but I still must commend you for recovering.

    some people dont recover, to some degree from a psychological standpoint it does constitute as an addiction, just like drugs, MMO's or games can offer a "replacement" of something that is missing in your life, give you that rush you end up feeling you need on a daily basis, because nothing else gives you that "freedom or power" to do what you want that you can't in real life. It is only healthy for you to share others your problems so that perhaps they may learn from it and recognize where they stand on their own "problem", seems it is becoming more of a issue and being brought to light to the general public.

    I think people should know that its not a trivial problem, and can really affect your life dramatically. and I do apologize for being a bit too rough with my response. either way, glad your doing good and wish you the best of luck. just remember  you can enjoy a game and still have a responsible, socially fullfilling life, just manage your time. UO is pretty much dead as ive heard. I would recommend Taba Ralusa as well, or Huxley perhaps, or even Age of Conan as they seem to be the few MMO's that offer the ability to play a little or play alot and still get far.

     

    just remember you get ouf life what you put in.

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  • richard22182richard22182 Member Posts: 31
    uos still alive and kicken. but if u consider wow like a 35 year old man, youd consider uo and 80 year old man. The game will continue on for some more years, being eas experimental toy and training dummy for new devs. And uo will continue to lose players slowly over that time. Eventually, Uo will go down to around 10,000 players or left, and only the extremely hardcore will be left. Leet me tell you, ive been watching this thing die all around me and its sad to watch the changes in the last several years.  Its depressing that ive wasted nearly as much time as you every day for last several years, and that the hundreds of thousands of hours are not gonna mean anything when its dead. thats why the hardcore players are still going to play untill it dies. Although, im hoping to get intp darkfall before then. : ( btw the pvps underrated nowadays. its still fun *(tho not as fun) if you no where to go
  • ZitchZitch Member Posts: 129


    Originally posted by LowItalian
    I wasn't asking for sympathy.  It wasn't entirely UO, but UO played a big part.  I would stay up till the sun came up like 3 nights a week at least.Since quitting UO, I've finished school and gotten a decent job.  I avoid MMORPG's like the plauge now, because I couldn't manage my time.I was just curious what the game is like now.  It used to be a great game, I wonder if it's on it's last leg, or if it's still thriving.

    Yup, I was in the same boat...

    Was'nt school, or a job or GF... but every waking moment, every minute of the day, if I was'nt playing I was thinking about UO. I had to work in order to keep an income so that I could afford to play, so I never scrrewed up my job, although I did come in late more than I should. It's just everything else.... I just let go... and put it all into UO.

    Never have I had so much fun in an MMO as I did from 97-2001.

    I think now I'l be much better if another one (like possibly Darkfall) comes out. I think I learned from UO what an MMO can do to your life. (I'm still recovering).


    But UO now, as has been said, sucks... it started sucking when they trivialised skills progression (locks and arrows), and just swallowed the whole wad soon after that. Now it's just a choking gagging gutter slut of a game. Nothing meaningful about it.

    Sad because at one time it was nearly perfection.

    No more Trivial MMO's, let's get serious "again". Make a world, not a game
    What I listen to :)

  • daarcodaarco Member UncommonPosts: 4,276

    I have followed Darkfall for some time, and the word UO is mentioned almost every time.

     

    Why did i miss such a cool game, im 9 years behind

    When i read about it here its clear it was something special. I want to try it, but it sounds like it had its best days....

  • StellosStellos Member UncommonPosts: 1,491
    Originally posted by nakuma


    no offense dude, thats no ones fault but your own. If you can't learn time management on when to play and when to do your college home work for your major. then you have no one to blame but yourself. i truly hope your only kidding, if not, i have no sympathy for people who cant balance, budget their time for real life social obligations and playing a few hours whenever they want.
     I play MMO's and FPS's, and RTS games alot, but I still managed to get a 4 year degree, and do freelance and also work for a reputable company in midst of playing WOW, Eq2, whenever i so well choose. its all about balancing ones time and being responsible for ones actions bro, its obvious you didnt know how to do that. I hope this is a valuable lesson learned, learn from it!

    He doesn't want your criticism dude.  It didn't appear like he was trying to blame anyone else.

    Anyway, I think the game is messed up at this point.  I'd advise that you wait for DF, that seems to be the only one close to what old UO use to be:)

  • GalupaGalupa Member Posts: 203
    Originally posted by MaeEye

    Originally posted by LowItalian

    I wasn't asking for sympathy.  It wasn't entirely UO, but UO played a big part.  I would stay up till the sun came up like 3 nights a week at least.



    Since quitting UO, I've finished school and gotten a decent job.  I avoid MMORPG's like the plauge now, because I couldn't manage my time.



    I was just curious what the game is like now.  It used to be a great game, I wonder if it's on it's last leg, or if it's still thriving.
    I would say it was on it's last leg when they came out with the AoS expansion.  But since the ninja and samurai's, the game has been chopped down by the evil axe EA.  There are no legs left on this game.  It's just crawling around, bleeding out until it dies.  Poor UO.  Check out Tabula Rasa, Richard -the creater of UO- is creating this game.

    i dont want to hijack this thread, but could you see the same thing happening to WAR? in your personnal opinion.

    "The new age is upon us, yet the past refuses to rest in its shallow grave."

  • ZitchZitch Member Posts: 129


    Originally posted by daarco
    I have followed Darkfall for some time, and the word UO is mentioned almost every time.
     
    Why did i miss such a cool game, im 9 years behind
    When i read about it here its clear it was something special. I want to try it, but it sounds like it had its best days....

    It pretty much went south 2001+ and has'nt looked back... just got worse and worse and worse.

    Same is true for EQ and all the other MMOg's, and nothing has come close to what the original concept of UO was or what made it so special.

    UO was.. a world where you could lose "everything" and be back to square one if you were'nt careful. Broke and flat busted... begging on the streets. The risks in UO were real.
    UO had a skills progression system that made you work, and be very careful in what you did, or you'd make it nearly impossible to reach GM in "anything".
    UO had persistant mounts that you had to feed or you'd lose them, they could also be killed.
    UO magic was not generic magic that we see in MMO's today, you needed reagents, and your spell could fail costing both reagents and mana.
    There were player thieves that could steal from you anywhere or at any time, but only if they were very good... even then they were likely to fail, but not always.

    So much of what UO was, is not what casual players wanted to experience. And yet when they do get what they want, they are bored after a year and move on to another game.

    UO kept players playing for years... and not just playing, but highly addicted.
    I sometimes think or feel that is why another UO has not been made, because they fear what would happen to kids accross the country neglecting their real life for one in a virtual world.

    No more Trivial MMO's, let's get serious "again". Make a world, not a game
    What I listen to :)

  • terrifiedterrified Member Posts: 143
    Originally posted by LowItalian

    I wasn't asking for sympathy.  It wasn't entirely UO, but UO played a big part.  I would stay up till the sun came up like 3 nights a week at least.



    Since quitting UO, I've finished school and gotten a decent job.  I avoid MMORPG's like the plauge now, because I couldn't manage my time.



    I was just curious what the game is like now.  It used to be a great game, I wonder if it's on it's last leg, or if it's still thriving.
    judging from your original post and this post i clearly see that your just and average idiot who cant see what has happened being your own fault UO played ABSOLUTELY NO role in ruining your life the way  you claimed it is YOU who decided to play so much that you had to drop out IT is you who caused your friends to leave you and its  a good thing they did. So quit your whining and take responsibility instead of trying to shift it unto a game. How pathetic :P
  • 7Fold7Fold Member Posts: 318
    hehe I could see where it could ruin your life especially since it was the first and last of its kind. Anyways I quit pretty much after UOR, I tried to come back after AOS was released, then I realized they really screwed the game up. Its not the game it once was, Im not sure whos running it now, but im pretty sure the original team is gone because it doesnt feel anything like the game richard garriot made back in 1997.
  • vengeful85vengeful85 Member Posts: 65
    Originally posted by terrified

    Originally posted by LowItalian

    I wasn't asking for sympathy.  It wasn't entirely UO, but UO played a big part.  I would stay up till the sun came up like 3 nights a week at least.



    Since quitting UO, I've finished school and gotten a decent job.  I avoid MMORPG's like the plauge now, because I couldn't manage my time.



    I was just curious what the game is like now.  It used to be a great game, I wonder if it's on it's last leg, or if it's still thriving.
    judging from your original post and this post i clearly see that your just and average idiot who cant see what has happened being your own fault UO played ABSOLUTELY NO role in ruining your life the way  you claimed it is YOU who decided to play so much that you had to drop out IT is you who caused your friends to leave you and its  a good thing they did. So quit your whining and take responsibility instead of trying to shift it unto a game. How pathetic :P

     Well said Terrified, this is just the kind of low brain-cell count idiot that blames his car for running out of gas!  
  • ZitchZitch Member Posts: 129


    Originally posted by vengeful85
     Well said Terrified, this is just the kind of low brain-cell count idiot that blames his car for running out of gas!   image

    Yeah you two are correct, no one to blame but yourself I agree...

    Still, as an escape from what was for me a hellish commute, and idiots to work for, UO was my salvation. So much so that it made managing my life difficult, as it did with the OP. Luckily both my commute has improved and I outlasted the idiots I was working for (demoted, fired or transfered) and UO itself was dumbed down (or i'd still be playing it).

    I think what the OP meant, which you obviously are not capable of understanding, is that UO was such a good game for it's time, and that as it was... could still compete with the likes of WoW even as a 2D game! (had it not changed) I'd play it, that much I know.

    So yeah that's the easy answer... "it's all your fault". Just like any addict is to blame for the euphoria and then the need that comes later. UO did pull you in and took hold of your life. It was another life to live, and for most... one is all they can handle.

    An MMO that is that good, that you obsess and immerse to the point of real life neglect is dangerous if you are not prepared. UO was that good...

    No more Trivial MMO's, let's get serious "again". Make a world, not a game
    What I listen to :)

  • DemonZealotDemonZealot Member Posts: 173
    Originally posted by LowItalian



    Because of UO I dropped out of college, lost friends and a girlfriend.  This game was worse than crack.  Playing 5-10 hours a day.



    Tell me i'm not the only one who read that....someone tell me. Your decline into MMO addiction was 5-10 hours a day?! Way to blame an ancient MMO for "ruining" your life from playing it FIVE TO TEN HOURS A DAY. If you want some sympathy you came to the wrong place. And if you don't want sympathy (which you say you don't) why the f*ck would you tell us about your so called MMO addiction.  Atleast make it sound convincing next time....

     

    5 hours....lol....

  • RonnyRulzRonnyRulz Member Posts: 479

    The internet is full of heartless jerks who are so ignorant they barely fit what scientists call human intelligence or what normal people call a compassionate human being.

    Yeesh, what is wrong with you people. Heartless and ignorant.

    If you knew anything about addictions, or were addicted yourselves, you would be A LOT more sympathetic and A LOT less ignorant.



    But it's just like the internet people to give their self-righteous criticisms to people they'll never see past a computer screen.



    You self-righteous critics are all just a bunch of ignorant heartless cowards. If this was real life you wouldn't have the balls to say anything, mainly because you'd know it would be wrong to have such an attitude.

    Self-righteousn jerks, the internet is full of them!

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  • vengeful85vengeful85 Member Posts: 65
    Originally posted by RonnyRulz


    The internet is full of heartless jerks who are so ignorant they barely fit what scientists call human intelligence or what normal people call a compassionate human being.
    Yeesh, what is wrong with you people. Heartless and ignorant.
    If you knew anything about addictions, or were addicted yourselves, you would be A LOT more sympathetic and A LOT less ignorant.



    But it's just like the internet people to give their self-righteous criticisms to people they'll never see past a computer screen.



    You self-righteous critics are all just a bunch of ignorant heartless cowards. If this was real life you wouldn't have the balls to say anything, mainly because you'd know it would be wrong to have such an attitude.
    Self-righteousn jerks, the internet is full of them!
     *He says as he stares into a mirror*
  • RollotamasiRollotamasi Member, Newbie CommonPosts: 898
    UO didn't ruin your life, YOU  ruined your life. 

    -Currently looking forward to FFXIV

    -Currently playing EvE and Global Agenda

  • daarcodaarco Member UncommonPosts: 4,276

    Atleast LowItalian wrote a post about his former problems, so its not much to argue about really And it was 6 years ago...

     

    But  I got alot more interest  about UO from this post

  • ZitchZitch Member Posts: 129


    Originally posted by daarco
    But  I got alot more interest  about UO from this post

    Yeah I took the OP's comment as a testimony on the quality of UO in it's early days.

    It's obvious that today, no game can have that type of impact on a life. That's both good and bad. Good for obvious reasons, but bad because the games today are dull by comparison.

    I was there, I know... and a lot of others share this knowledge.
    Darkfall may come close to what UO was, and many former UO players look forward to it. that's where many of us are now, waiting...

    No more Trivial MMO's, let's get serious "again". Make a world, not a game
    What I listen to :)

  • nerfmenownerfmenow Member Posts: 20
    UO did in fact affect my life quite adversely.  Due to excessive amounts of gameplay and lack of self control, I lost a year of high school.  Luckily I was able to recover.  Since then I've been caught up in several MMOs.  World of Warcraft, Shadowbane, and a few other MMOs here and there.  Anyways lately I've been playing Corum Online and I've found it to be the only true casual MMO.  :  At least it's free, lol.  But yeah, Iol, end rant, UO killed my dog.
  • sempiternalsempiternal Member UncommonPosts: 1,082

    There's no denying, that the original UO game was one of the most immersive, challenging, community driven MMOGs to date.

    It was captivating enough that many stayed up playing until the server went down, even on weekdays!

    And then came Anthony Castoro AKA Sunsword and then Trammel...

  • ZenthiasZenthias Member Posts: 36
    Originally posted by sempiternal


    There's no denying, that the original UO game was one of the most immersive, challenging, community driven MMOGs to date.
    It was captivating enough that many stayed up playing until the server went down, even on weekdays!
    And then came Anthony Castoro AKA Sunsword and then Trammel...



    Damn! Does anyone else get sick of reading this guys posts?! It doesn't matter what he's replying to he has to mention UO being ruined. I understand where your coming from man. You had an uber char and they sent a patch your way and it screwed all you had been working for. But honestly, we have heard enough of it. (atleast I have)

    "the original UO game was one of the most immersive, challenging, community driven MMOGs to date"

    IT STILL IS!!! Well, maybe not as community driven as it used to be, but it is still the best MMO I've ever played. I resubbed about 2 weeks ago and I'm absolutly loving it.

    Sure no one likes the split shards. No one likes all the "epic" mounts.(and i dont even touch WoW) Back when I played you had two mounts; horses and nightmares. Now everyone is riding beetles and such. But is it really that big of a deal? With new lands comes new monsters/animals/mounts. I don't like that med and eval are automatic now. I liked having to work for it.

    The only thing that I can not stand is the armor/weapon system they have in place. I don't like armor having attributes, but many games are like this now. And its really not that bad. Back in the day, someone wearing plate had a better armor rating then someone wearing leather. Made sense. If someone killed you, you could simply go to the blacksmith and buy more. (remember when GM made armor/weapons were the shit?)

    There are several things that changed that I do not like, but that doesn't stop me from having just as much fun as I did 7 years ago. And I have bearly scratched the surface. Don't let posts like the one above discourage you from trying this game out, or jumping back in.

    -Zen

  • ZitchZitch Member Posts: 129

    no way man...

    UO sucks now. They fixed a game that was'nt broke, and they did that long before the addition of trammel. With trammel they just continued to muck up the game.

    No more Trivial MMO's, let's get serious "again". Make a world, not a game
    What I listen to :)

  • vengeful85vengeful85 Member Posts: 65
     This is indeed one of the best most immersive MMO's on the market still. Nothing will bring back the days  we long for  but on the other hand nothing out there comes close to matching what it still is.  UO will garner some steam from the new client soon to be released as well as the upcoming expansion, so i'm sure we will be reading Semp's and the other troll's hate  posts about UO for a long time to come. Love it or hate it though UO isn't going away anytime soon!!
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