MMORPG Suggestion Help

I am looking for a MMORPG either current or in development similar to the styles of L2 WoW FFXI, monthly fees dont bother me as long as its a good game. For a better description of what i am looking for please read below. i Dont want a sports or fps MMORPG i want a fantasy Sword and Shield/ Witches and Wizards  based mmorpg. (again   similar to themes of Lineage 2 WoW FFXI)

Ok. I am a huge fan of MMORPG's. I have been in love with this genre since... i think the 7th grade. My first MMORPG was EQ, but i lost my account info and moved to FFXI  which was Ballin'! hehe.  And i still love FFXI and miss it, i have almost bought a new copy and the xpac several times, but i am not sure how the game/community is doing, and not sure if ill just get tired of it again. Anyays.. from ffxi i moved on to CoH and CoV then back to FFXI and now im playing WoW. i loved WoW. i have been playing it religiously for 2 years+. I have 3 60+ 1 70 who is all epiced out and part of a top-progression guild on our server since the xpac. I mean the game is just dragging on. Not to mention the fact that in WoW i have to be on every night 4-5 hours raiding with my guildies to see new game content/get better gear/be a successful player. I mean i dont even get to choose what im going to do with my time when i log on anymore. But it is either Raid hardcore,see new exciting material, get new exciting gear, or sit by and get dominated by the hardcore raiders. and being cleared thru Karaz a bunch and getting my epics i find myself not looking forward to logging on anymore. I havent logged on in a bit more then a week, and i know when i do log on ill be getting chewed out by my Guild Master.. Anyways i am debating selling my WoW account. I know i can get 5-700$ off it and i could always use the money for my GF and dates and other misc. things. My only concern tho is that i like mmorpg's and i cant seem to find another one i like. LineageII looks cool with the graphics but i hear that it is slowly dieing. LoTR is starting to sound kind of lame... I will probably try it though because i am a huge LoTR fan and a mmorpg fan cant resist no matter how bad it might be.

I know i am rambling and am probably failing at my attempt to get my point across because it is past 1 and i have been sick all week. But my point is Im looking for a mmorpg either current or in development. I like the mmorpg feeling of WoW and FFXI so i am looking for something similar to those. I am debating trying guild wars but i am not sure. I went to a diff site where some1 suggest Nightfall which is coming out..god knows when.. but i dont know anything about it. Anyways I am looking for a game similar to L2 EQ

If you can help me please email me at Mnofstl007@aol.com with a game name/reason why u suggest it please and thanks. sry if my writing gives u a headache..whenever i talk in a forum i type how i talk..i dont type formally in posts and people hate me for it =/.