do you think it is important to hangout or see friends when most of them are online anyway??? Is face-to-face relationships over-rated? If it is, what about personal relationships?
I have a friend that I only see at school, but we talk for hours every day via AIM....I think whatever floats your boat is healthy as far as human relationships are concerned...there is no standard of what humans NEED as far as ineraction. I don't think it's healthy to be a hermit, but at the same time, human relationships are only good if both people WANT to be in that relationship, whether it's platonic or otherwise.
Your argument is like a two legged dog with an eating disorder...weak and unbalanced.
The face to face, while it is being pushed to the wayside by way of technology, is still important on some sort of primal level to us as humans.
However, human "contact" via the web is, for some, the only contact they get. On the internet, your appearance, financial status, etc. is a moot point. Or for people that, for whatever reason, are unable to get out of their house it provides a way for them to reach out an communicate with other people that normally they would not have. And I truly think they are better for it
Personally, I have way more "friends" online, than I do in real life. I am just not comfortable around people. They... get on my nerves, a lot. But here, I can interact with people from all corners of the globe, from all walks of life, and of all beliefs.
I mean, where else could a Fundamentalist Christian(Draenor), a Bhuddist(Nasica), and myself, whatever the hell I am, not only get along, but have a polite discussion on the joys of Mixed Martial Arts?
do you think it is important to hangout or see friends when most of them are online anyway??? Is face-to-face relationships over-rated? If it is, what about personal relationships?
While I feel a relationship can be supplemented through non-physical communication, I think actual human contact is very necessary for you to really get to know people. Actual social skills are much harder to develop than online interaction.
I'll use myself as an example: When I communicate via text I have no difficulty expressing my thoughts in a confident and coherent manner. When I am placed in the same situation with a complete stranger, I am very introverted and, well, I guess awkward. When I am in a large group of unfamiliar people, I'm pretty much useless when it comes to mingling unless I am thoroughly inebriated. When I am with a group of close friends, I am an extroverted, effective communicator.
What was the point of that ramble? Communicating via text doesn't build social skills that you can use in everyday interactions. You have to practice actually speaking to someone or you'll be a fish out of water in the game of life.
Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life. Open my eyes and blind me with your light and your lies.
Originally posted by frAnner I'll use myself as an example: When I communicate via text I have no difficulty expressing my thoughts in a confident and coherent manner. When I am placed in the same situation with a complete stranger, I am very introverted and, well, I guess awkward. When I am in a large group of unfamiliar people, I'm pretty much useless when it comes to mingling unless I am thoroughly inebriated. When I am with a group of close friends, I am an extroverted, effective communicator.
Hey, that sounds awkwardly familiar. Hmmm, maybe you're me, and I've finally suffered some form of psychotic break, and split off into two divergent, yet similar personalities...
The Clockwork avatar, and the skin of the hottest of Hollywood hotties on the sig, from a movie I'm especially fond of, isn't helping matters.
I'll use myself as an example: When I communicate via text I have no difficulty expressing my thoughts in a confident and coherent manner. When I am placed in the same situation with a complete stranger, I am very introverted and, well, I guess awkward. When I am in a large group of unfamiliar people, I'm pretty much useless when it comes to mingling unless I am thoroughly inebriated. When I am with a group of close friends, I am an extroverted, effective communicator.
Hey, that sounds awkwardly familiar. Hmmm, maybe you're me, and I've finally suffered some form of psychotic break, and split off into two divergent, yet similar personalities...
The Clockwork avatar, and the skin of the hottest of Hollywood hotties on the sig, from a movie I'm especially fond of, isn't helping matters.
According to Seinfeld, we could be bizarro counterparts.
Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life. Open my eyes and blind me with your light and your lies.
i reckon that although technology allows you to be alot less shy u do have to have som kind of face to face disscussion (no not with web-cams) it does help u get to know the real person for all you guys know i could be some 65 year old petifile and not know yet feel entiarly comfort able talking to via msn, text or forum. i am by the way not 65 and not a petifile(lol i can't spell)
take what you can but not what isn't yours. "fight to the end and never give your enemy the satisfaction of victory"
I think that human contact and interaction are an important part of being human. Without we are no more than burdens on the rest of the human race. Although there is nothing wrong with using the internet to interact with other people, you should do in moderation. We as a species need face-to-face contact, thats one of the reasons why sex is such a big deal. It fufils that basic need to be with someone. When that isn't there or there is some sort of defect in that area, thats when problems occur.
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Your argument is like a two legged dog with an eating disorder...weak and unbalanced.
The face to face, while it is being pushed to the wayside by way of technology, is still important on some sort of primal level to us as humans.
However, human "contact" via the web is, for some, the only contact they get. On the internet, your appearance, financial status, etc. is a moot point. Or for people that, for whatever reason, are unable to get out of their house it provides a way for them to reach out an communicate with other people that normally they would not have. And I truly think they are better for it
Personally, I have way more "friends" online, than I do in real life. I am just not comfortable around people. They... get on my nerves, a lot. But here, I can interact with people from all corners of the globe, from all walks of life, and of all beliefs.
I mean, where else could a Fundamentalist Christian(Draenor), a Bhuddist(Nasica), and myself, whatever the hell I am, not only get along, but have a polite discussion on the joys of Mixed Martial Arts?
I'll use myself as an example: When I communicate via text I have no difficulty expressing my thoughts in a confident and coherent manner. When I am placed in the same situation with a complete stranger, I am very introverted and, well, I guess awkward. When I am in a large group of unfamiliar people, I'm pretty much useless when it comes to mingling unless I am thoroughly inebriated. When I am with a group of close friends, I am an extroverted, effective communicator.
What was the point of that ramble? Communicating via text doesn't build social skills that you can use in everyday interactions. You have to practice actually speaking to someone or you'll be a fish out of water in the game of life.
Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life.
Open my eyes and blind me with your light
and your lies.
Hey, that sounds awkwardly familiar. Hmmm, maybe you're me, and I've finally suffered some form of psychotic break, and split off into two divergent, yet similar personalities...
The Clockwork avatar, and the skin of the hottest of Hollywood hotties on the sig, from a movie I'm especially fond of, isn't helping matters.
Hey, that sounds awkwardly familiar. Hmmm, maybe you're me, and I've finally suffered some form of psychotic break, and split off into two divergent, yet similar personalities...
The Clockwork avatar, and the skin of the hottest of Hollywood hotties on the sig, from a movie I'm especially fond of, isn't helping matters.
According to Seinfeld, we could be bizarro counterparts.Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life.
Open my eyes and blind me with your light
and your lies.
i reckon that although technology allows you to be alot less shy u do have to have som kind of face to face disscussion (no not with web-cams) it does help u get to know the real person for all you guys know i could be some 65 year old petifile and not know yet feel entiarly comfort able talking to via msn, text or forum. i am by the way not 65 and not a petifile(lol i can't spell)
take what you can but not what isn't yours. "fight to the end and never give your enemy the satisfaction of victory"