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18 year old male with 15 year old female. Is that weird?

porgieporgie Member Posts: 1,516
Is an 18 year old guy looking at a 15 year old girl and thinking they're hot a little strange?  I'm just asking. 



The reason is because I was watching The Daily Show on Comedy Central and Stewart played a clip of Mitt Romney saying he thought his wife was hot at 15.  That would have made him 18 years old at the time.



I don't know if I think that's weird or not.  I do know that I have a sister who's about 3 years younger than me and she used to have girls spend the night at our house when we were little.  I don't recollect ever thinking that as a senior in high school 15 year old girls were babes.  Maybe my memory is just bad lately, but I just don't recall that.  Personally, I was looking at college girls at the time. 



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  • defenestratedefenestrate Member CommonPosts: 578
    Its something their putting in the water to make girls hotter, younger. I dont remember girls being as hot when I was 15-18
  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384
    It's not as weird as a 20 year old and a 15 year old but a 18 year old with a 15 year old is illegal nonetheless.

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

  • alerumalerum Member Posts: 407
    i think 18 is a strange age for guys because they are only 3 years older than a 15 year old girl but society tells them its wrong
  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182
    No, its not weird at all. I'm turning 18 in August and I have been attracted to girls of age 14 ~ 15
  • n25phillyn25philly Member Posts: 1,317
    As long as she's hot bend her over and tell her to keep her mouth shut.

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  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384
    Originally posted by Gameloading

    No, its not weird at all. I'm turning 18 in August and I have been attracted to girls of age 14 ~ 15

    well, dont do anything stupid because Ive seen several 18 year olds going to jail for their 15 year old girlfriend.  When I was a cop in Florida, I had to arrest so many of them I coudln't even count and they get convicted with a perma sex offender tied to their record...just because he pissed off the girl's parents.

    At 18, you may want to graduate up to the college ladies.

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

  • KorususKorusus Member UncommonPosts: 831
    I don't think looking at a girl that's 15 and thinking they're "hot" is strange, not for an 18 year old.



    Now, if it could be shown that they were dating when she was 15...

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  • DraenorDraenor Member UncommonPosts: 7,918

    I don't think it's that weird...just don't do anything that you're going to get into trouble for.  My parents are FOURTEEN years apart..granted they met when my mom was already in her 20's...but if you think about it...my mom was four when my dad graduated from high school.  It's especially not weird that he's talking about his wife though...it's good that he finds her attractive still. (assuming that in context he was saying that he still finds her attractive even though she's not 15 anymore)

     

    by the way, when I was 19 I was attracted to a 17 year old...that's only one year less difference and still has the same legal implications...so yeah...who am I to judge? 

    ps.  she's 18 now

    Your argument is like a two legged dog with an eating disorder...weak and unbalanced.

  • CochizeCochize Member Posts: 211
    Originally posted by Gameloading

    No, its not weird at all. I'm turning 18 in August and I have been attracted to girls of age 14 ~ 15



    YOU PERVERT!!!!!

    Actually it's not that weird, but if you're 18 I guess you do have to worry about the legal stuff.  It's definately not as weird as what I saw when I was in middle school.  I hope these girls were lying to make themselves seem "cool" (not sure how that made them cool), but they would say that they were dating college age guys and they were 12-13 and sometimes even 11....................ewww......

  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384
    Originally posted by Cochize

    Originally posted by Gameloading

    No, its not weird at all. I'm turning 18 in August and I have been attracted to girls of age 14 ~ 15



    YOU PERVERT!!!!!

    Actually it's not that weird, but if you're 18 I guess you do have to worry about the legal stuff.  It's definately not as weird as what I saw when I was in middle school.  I hope these girls were lying to make themselves seem "cool" (not sure how that made them cool), but they would say that they were dating college age guys and they were 12-13 and sometimes even 11....................ewww......

    you see....they have a show on that stuff.

    It's called "to catch a predator" lol

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

  • HocheteHochete Member CommonPosts: 1,210
    There's a huge difference between finding somebody 'hot' or 'attractive' and actively doing something about it. I think our sense of humanity and morality will usually prevent us from acting upon our instincts, however I think it's untrue to say a girl who is under age in the eyes of the law cannot be attractive to an older man. There are some insanely hot girls out there which may be considered under age by law, but aren't necessarily under age by nature.
  • terrorantulaterrorantula Member Posts: 174
    lol when i was 15 i was going out with a 21 year old woman lol i've always liked older women, younger women just don't do it for me : Too immature.
  • CochizeCochize Member Posts: 211
    Originally posted by terrorantula

    lol when i was 15 i was going out with a 21 year old woman lol i've always liked older women, younger women just don't do it for me : Too immature.
    You are a HUGE liar.  You think a 21 year old woman would go for a younger boy.  Women like older mature men and Men like younger hotter women.  Everything you just said was ridiculous.  I could let you pass on an 18-19 year old when you were 15, but no way would you date a 21 year old woman.
  • Mr.GrinchMr.Grinch Member Posts: 10
    when i was 12 i dated a 16 year old. wierd stuff happens in a school enviroment. Although 21 year old is a bit far

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  • PhoenixsPhoenixs Member Posts: 2,646
    No it's not weird.
  • DraenorDraenor Member UncommonPosts: 7,918
    Originally posted by Cochize

    Originally posted by terrorantula

    lol when i was 15 i was going out with a 21 year old woman lol i've always liked older women, younger women just don't do it for me : Too immature.
    You are a HUGE liar.  You think a 21 year old woman would go for a younger boy.  Women like older mature men and Men like younger hotter women.  Everything you just said was ridiculous.  I could let you pass on an 18-19 year old when you were 15, but no way would you date a 21 year old woman.

    If that were 100% true then you wouldn't have teachers sleeping with male students.  Some women just like to feel like they are in complete control over a relationship, dating someone much younger does that for them.

    Your argument is like a two legged dog with an eating disorder...weak and unbalanced.

  • You can date that way if the parents are okay with it. Be aware that at any point, if they get pissed, you can go to jail. It happens all the time, and you get that glorious sex offender sticker on your name which destroys your life for years to come.



    The problem here is that you do alot of growing up from 15-21. A fourty year old dating a thirty year old is really no big deal, but even a difference of a few years around that age can be huge. This is not even taking into account the legal situation.



    I don't think it's a good idea at all for an 18 year old to date a 15 year old. You might think this is a hard line to take, but it comes from seeing people screw up their lives or get into stupid situations. The difference between a person from year to year can be incredible, and it should be, because this is crazy hormone body/mental change time.



    My friend keeps her daughter practically with a chastity belt on, and it's a good plan. If I had a 15 year old daughter and found out she was dating an 18 year old, I'd say hell no to that. Generally say hell no to any kind of 'serious' dating until she was at least 18, preferably 21.



    Now if her parents have the same mentality, that's trouble for mr. 18 year old.

  • BrianshoBriansho Member UncommonPosts: 3,586
    3 words, 6 syllables



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  • Thanatosx33Thanatosx33 Member Posts: 183

    Don't feel bad at all dude. My girl is 14 and I am 17. As long as your not just out to get some you should be fine. The first time I saw my girl I thought she was at least  16, she was realy hot (at least I thought so). Alas, I am going out with her and things are fine. Just remember if you do get into a relationship with her...keep in mind the maturity difference and most of all don't push anything on her. I warn you though, she may not be able to please you physically or mentally like you would wish. Then again, she may. My girl is definitly not what I expected, but I am still content. As long as you can be content with what you get you should be fine man.

  • gnomexxxgnomexxx Member Posts: 2,920
    Originally posted by Draenor


    I don't think it's that weird...just don't do anything that you're going to get into trouble for.  My parents are FOURTEEN years apart..granted they met when my mom was already in her 20's...but if you think about it...my mom was four when my dad graduated from high school.  It's especially not weird that he's talking about his wife though...it's good that he finds her attractive still. (assuming that in context he was saying that he still finds her attractive even though she's not 15 anymore)
     
    by the way, when I was 19 I was attracted to a 17 year old...that's only one year less difference and still has the same legal implications...so yeah...who am I to judge? 
    ps.  she's 18 now
    Yeah, but there is a great variance in the age differences of teenagers.  Once you hit adult hood you change a little as you get older, but you've pretty much gone through your development and maturity (at least some people have).



    You look at kids who are in the 6th grade and they are a lot different than kids who are in the 9th grade.  And 12th graders are a lot different than 9th graders.  People are going through drastic changes during those periods.

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  • gnomexxxgnomexxx Member Posts: 2,920
    Originally posted by Draenor

    Originally posted by Cochize

    Originally posted by terrorantula

    lol when i was 15 i was going out with a 21 year old woman lol i've always liked older women, younger women just don't do it for me : Too immature.
    You are a HUGE liar.  You think a 21 year old woman would go for a younger boy.  Women like older mature men and Men like younger hotter women.  Everything you just said was ridiculous.  I could let you pass on an 18-19 year old when you were 15, but no way would you date a 21 year old woman.

    If that were 100% true then you wouldn't have teachers sleeping with male students.  Some women just like to feel like they are in complete control over a relationship, dating someone much younger does that for them. /agree



    Just because the sex changes, it doesn't mean that some women don't want to be in the drivers seat.  Especially since the male/female roles in today's society aren't as strict as they used to be.

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  • gnomexxxgnomexxx Member Posts: 2,920
    Originally posted by Thanatosx33


    Don't feel bad at all dude. My girl is 14 and I am 17. As long as your not just out to get some you should be fine. The first time I saw my girl I thought she was at least  16, she was realy hot (at least I thought so). Alas, I am going out with her and things are fine. Just remember if you do get into a relationship with her...keep in mind the maturity difference and most of all don't push anything on her. I warn you though, she may not be able to please you physically or mentally like you would wish. Then again, she may. My girl is definitly not what I expected, but I am still content. As long as you can be content with what you get you should be fine man.
    Wait until you're 19 and she's 16.  Or you're 20 and she's 17.  You gonna go pick her up at high school every day? 

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  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718
    If the girl was 16, then no it wouldn't be weird at all to me. 15 would seem illegal here though, but hey I'm not gonna be dippin in other people's business unless they are friends or kin of mine.

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  • SpathotanSpathotan Member Posts: 3,928
    Im 21, my wife is 31, we met when I was 17. If you go back in time and think, yea its kind of odd, but i wouldnt call it wierd.

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  • UploadUpload Member Posts: 679
    Originally posted by Gameloading

    No, its not weird at all. I'm turning 18 in August and I have been attracted to girls of age 14 ~ 15
    This it the proof it IS weird..
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