Uhm guys... you all do realize the OP is joking around? Look at his profile, he signed up 3 days ago and it says he's 19. Look at how he writes, there is just no way he is married.
"Her dad tricked him into it" lol... good one.
Good story OP
Exactly what I was thinking.
If the poster was truly married I highly doubt he would come here to say he cheated and practically brag about it.
If you really ARE married, which I highly doubt.
Wipe that smug off your face like one of the previous posters said. There is nothing to be proud of for cheating.
This is obviously a bait thread and I wouldn't be surprised if the OP has never been married or even had a serious relationship with anyone.
Ask yourself this, in the end, does it really matter if he had been telling the truth?
He asked for advice on a very serious situation. Whether or not the OP was serious about it, it deserves a serious answer.
Of course its a serious situation and deserves a serious answer.
Thats why he shouldn't joke about. If he wants a serious answer he should act serious.
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I just got back from a night out and cheated on my wife by mistake, sex seemed sooo great at the time but now seeing her and it's like, i feel guilty. I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways but do you reckon it's a good idea to tell her aswel or just leave it in my brain for the rest of my life? I don't brelieve in God so no moral issues lol.
edit: btw srry bout the english, been drinking... guinness ftw.
Reading this post carefully, I noticed it does not say "cheated on wife with another woman". Was the cheating with a dude?
I've been cheated on and had a girl I love leave me.
At the time I really wanted to know why. It kept me awake at night feeling miserable.
But I didn't want her to leave me, so any explanation that she gave that still involved leaving me wasn't something I was prepared to understand.
If she loves you whatever you tell her, truth, lies, half truths...whatever. It will all make her miserable and in the end she will only believe what she wants to believe.
This is a lose lose scenario.
There is no nice way to break up with someone. Whatever you say is going to hurt her. Do yourself and her a favour, don't drag it out. Tell her as much as you have the balls to say and then leave the area and change your phone number.
If she pisses you off and gets spiteful and obsessive, make it up to yourself by shagging all her friends.
People really should try and avoid getting married at 19.
I just got back from a night out and cheated on my wife by mistake, sex seemed sooo great at the time but now seeing her and it's like, i feel guilty. I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways but do you reckon it's a good idea to tell her aswel or just leave it in my brain for the rest of my life? I don't brelieve in God so no moral issues lol.
edit: btw srry bout the english, been drinking... guinness ftw.
Reading this post carefully, I noticed it does not say "cheated on wife with another woman". Was the cheating with a dude?
Guilt is sooooooooo 1990s, its simple tell your friend the more he cheats the less guilt he will feel, and then all will be fine. I do not see anything wrong with getting your cake and eating it too.
Fortunately no one here cares about your opinion.
You forgot to point out that those who get AND eat their cake on too regular a basis run a very huge risk of choking on it.
Absolutely true to a certain degree, for those who are unable to handle their cake its simple, boohooohooohooo life sucks for them. However for those talented few, they get to live a wonderful lasting and very fulfilling life, fulfilling all of there own greedy and selfish desires with an apple pie smile.
Guilt is sooooooooo 1990s, its simple tell your friend the more he cheats the less guilt he will feel, and then all will be fine. I do not see anything wrong with getting your cake and eating it too.
Fortunately no one here cares about your opinion.
Evidently you seem too. However lets not become childish and begin bantering away. It is after all just an opinion and though my opinion may not conform to that of your own we are all entitled to one nevertheless.
I just got back from a night out and cheated on my wife by mistake, sex seemed sooo great at the time but now seeing her and it's like, i feel guilty. I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways but do you reckon it's a good idea to tell her aswel or just leave it in my brain for the rest of my life? I don't brelieve in God so no moral issues lol.
edit: btw srry bout the english, been drinking... guinness ftw.
You should do your wife one more time then break up with her but don't ever tell her.
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Evidently you seem too. However lets not become childish and begin bantering away. It is after all just an opinion and though my opinion may not conform to that of your own we are all entitled to one nevertheless.
So, you advocate conciously betraying someone who has placed trust in you?
I just got back from a night out and cheated on my wife by mistake, sex seemed sooo great at the time but now seeing her and it's like, i feel guilty. I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways but do you reckon it's a good idea to tell her aswel or just leave it in my brain for the rest of my life? I don't brelieve in God so no moral issues lol.
edit: btw srry bout the english, been drinking... guinness ftw.
Reading this post carefully, I noticed it does not say "cheated on wife with another woman". Was the cheating with a dude?
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Tell her now so you don't have to explain to her why she suddenly has a case of herpes. Your not going to be forgiven and if you had planned on breaking up with her anyhow....maybe you should have before you threw in a whole new world of emotional hardship. Maybe she will do us all a favor and cut your nuts off while your asleep. I bet youll be praying to the god you dont believe in that you didnt do it in the first place.
This guy is just looking to seem like a hotshot, don't pay attention to him. This has never happened to him and he probably does not even have a girlfriend and by girlfriend I mean a girl who would socialize with him as a friend.
Pay no attention to this thread and leave it dead.
Be cool to people, and try and stay cool that way you never have to regret making someone feel bad. Don't take what ya got granted because some people never get to feel happy. We get to play these great MMOs and surf a good site. Be thankful for what ya got and next time ya feel down imagine a fat sea otter waddling with a pillow and a night cap. Bam! smiles!
I didn't even wanna marry her I'm only 22 lol, her dad was just really nice and they tricked me into it.
then you my friend are either not very bright a moron some might say or a lemming to be lead around by the nose. im my opinion the best you can do is not tell this poor girl that you cheated oh her to spare her feeling somewhat and just tell her that you want a divorve and make up some reason. i ahve a good one for you. just say "im a dumbass and need to be single"
Don't be terrorized! You're more likely to die of a car accident, drowning, fire, or murder! More people die every year from prescription drugs than terrorism LOL!
I just got back from a night out and cheated on my wife by mistake, sex seemed sooo great at the time but now seeing her and it's like, i feel guilty. I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways but do you reckon it's a good idea to tell her aswel or just leave it in my brain for the rest of my life? I don't brelieve in God so no moral issues lol.
edit: btw srry bout the english, been drinking... guinness ftw.
1. Are you serious?
2. You are 19 years old and
sub a. You are married?
sub b. You are thinking about leaving her? How long have you guys been married? 6 weeks?
3. You don't have any moral issues because you don't believe in God? Soooo.....like....you feel like you have no obligation to the person you said you'll spend the rest of your life with just because you don't believe in a god? That's a lame ass excuse if I ever heard of one.
4. You should submit this to the Jerry Springer show. Who nows....Mr Springer may help pay for your legal fees after she sues the hell out of you (provided you have kids......O Lord, I certainly hope not).
5. You make the movie "Idiocracy" seem to be more of a realistic forshadow of things to come versus a simple comedic movie.
6. ....
People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.
I didn't even wanna marry her I'm only 22 lol, her dad was just really nice and they tricked me into it.
ok. You are either BSing us or you or a complete and utter [explanation deleted due to my personal pet peeve of trolling someone despite the IQ of that said poster]
People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.
First off, I think the OP is full of shit. Secondly, if indeed the scenario was true:
A) You need to tell your wife and own up for what you did. You can't get "tricked" into marriage. (Unless you're on an episode of "Firefly", which I don't think you are. C) Cheating on your wife is a release of being unhappy with her. You need to talk to her and let her know what you expect of the marriage. If you all can't come to terms with that, then go your separate ways.
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If the poster was truly married I highly doubt he would come here to say he cheated and practically brag about it.
If you really ARE married, which I highly doubt.
Wipe that smug off your face like one of the previous posters said. There is nothing to be proud of for cheating.
This is obviously a bait thread and I wouldn't be surprised if the OP has never been married or even had a serious relationship with anyone.
Ask yourself this, in the end, does it really matter if he had been telling the truth?
He asked for advice on a very serious situation. Whether or not the OP was serious about it, it deserves a serious answer.
Of course its a serious situation and deserves a serious answer.Thats why he shouldn't joke about. If he wants a serious answer he should act serious.
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Reading this post carefully, I noticed it does not say "cheated on wife with another woman". Was the cheating with a dude?
I've been cheated on and had a girl I love leave me.
At the time I really wanted to know why. It kept me awake at night feeling miserable.
But I didn't want her to leave me, so any explanation that she gave that still involved leaving me wasn't something I was prepared to understand.
If she loves you whatever you tell her, truth, lies, half truths...whatever. It will all make her miserable and in the end she will only believe what she wants to believe.
This is a lose lose scenario.
There is no nice way to break up with someone. Whatever you say is going to hurt her. Do yourself and her a favour, don't drag it out. Tell her as much as you have the balls to say and then leave the area and change your phone number.
If she pisses you off and gets spiteful and obsessive, make it up to yourself by shagging all her friends.
People really should try and avoid getting married at 19.
Reading this post carefully, I noticed it does not say "cheated on wife with another woman". Was the cheating with a dude?
You forgot to point out that those who get AND eat their cake on too regular a basis run a very huge risk of choking on it.
Absolutely true to a certain degree, for those who are unable to handle their cake its simple, boohooohooohooo life sucks for them. However for those talented few, they get to live a wonderful lasting and very fulfilling life, fulfilling all of there own greedy and selfish desires with an apple pie smile.
Evidently you seem too. However lets not become childish and begin bantering away. It is after all just an opinion and though my opinion may not conform to that of your own we are all entitled to one nevertheless.
In America I have bad teeth. If I lived in England my teeth would be perfect.
Reading this post carefully, I noticed it does not say "cheated on wife with another woman". Was the cheating with a dude?
LOL! Good one!
Riki: Lol, yeah I know what you mean.
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Pay no attention to this thread and leave it dead.
Be cool to people, and try and stay cool that way you never have to regret making someone feel bad. Don't take what ya got granted because some people never get to feel happy. We get to play these great MMOs and surf a good site. Be thankful for what ya got and next time ya feel down imagine a fat sea otter waddling with a pillow and a night cap. Bam! smiles!
Don't be terrorized! You're more likely to die of a car accident, drowning, fire, or murder! More people die every year from prescription drugs than terrorism LOL!
Kinda sad if you were tricked into being married.
I say...do em both.
put the threesome offer on the table.
just toss about 5 more girls in there while your at it
goodluck to ya (girls are evil by the way)
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1. Are you serious?
2. You are 19 years old and
sub a. You are married?
sub b. You are thinking about leaving her? How long have you guys been married? 6 weeks?
3. You don't have any moral issues because you don't believe in God? Soooo.....like....you feel like you have no obligation to the person you said you'll spend the rest of your life with just because you don't believe in a god? That's a lame ass excuse if I ever heard of one.
4. You should submit this to the Jerry Springer show. Who nows....Mr Springer may help pay for your legal fees after she sues the hell out of you (provided you have kids......O Lord, I certainly hope not).
5. You make the movie "Idiocracy" seem to be more of a realistic forshadow of things to come versus a simple comedic movie.
6. ....
People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.
People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.
First off, I think the OP is full of shit. Secondly, if indeed the scenario was true:
A) You need to tell your wife and own up for what you did.
You can't get "tricked" into marriage. (Unless you're on an episode of "Firefly", which I don't think you are.
C) Cheating on your wife is a release of being unhappy with her. You need to talk to her and let her know what you expect of the marriage. If you all can't come to terms with that, then go your separate ways.