LFG: (Looking For Game)

I'm sure something like this is posted probably posted 1000 times a day but i'm getting desparate. I am looking for a new mmo to play, i have played GW,SWG,LOTRO, and some others and  have been playing world of warcraft for past 2 years. I am quite open to games. I am just burnt out on wow and the prospect that i spent a long time grinding "endgame" and than with the expack it was a big reset button and i dont really want to spend much more time grinding "endgame" only to already have another reset button on the horizon.

I do not mind grinding, i like pvp but not a requirement, i just want a game that is interesting and preferbly reasonably solo friendly. I love raiding but i dont HAVE to have raiding. So if anyone has any suggestions of a game to try out feel free to post. I am to the point i would try ALMOST any game...(though i am REALLY not a huge fan of SOE and its MMO death touch ability).