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General: A Tribute to Gary Gygax 1938 - 2008
Stradden
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On March 4th, we were saddened to learn of the passing of Gary Gygax, the co-creator of Dungeons and Dragons. After the outpouring of responses in our report, we present you with and ask you to aprticipate in this small tribute to a man who touched a number of our lives.
On March 4th, the world lost Gary Gygax. Considered by many to be the father of role playing games, Gygax is credited with the co-creation of Dungeons and Dragons and was co-founder of TSR, the brand that led the world of RPGs until it was purchased by Wizards of the Coast. Gygax was 69 at the time of his death and is survived by his wife and six children.
While inventing a game like Dungeons and Dragons won’t get you household name recognition, Gygax was a legend (and I don’t use that term freely) in the RPG industry and with role players worldwide. So much so that to this day one of my favorite episodes of Futurama features an animated version of Gygax. :“It’s a… *rolls dice, sees result*… pleasure to meet you.”
Read it all here.
Cheers,
Jon Wood
Managing Editor
MMORPG.com
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I have been playing Dungeons and Dragons almost weekly for the last thirteen years. It has become a part of who I am, a release, an escape from the realities of my world. Honestly, I can’t imagine my life without it. I know it’s cliché, but Dungeons and Dragons has helped to make me a better rounded and happier human being.
I know the stereotype for Dungeons and Dragons players. We’re supposed to be pale and withdrawn, either way too skinny or way too fat and huddled in our parents‘ basement. We’re supposed to wear glasses held together with tape in the middle and pocket protectors. We’re supposed to fear the cool kids, hate sports and hope that one day we might even get to see a girl naked. That, my friends, is how many people think that we’re supposed to be. Problem is, that just isn’t the case. You can’t tell a D&D player by how they look or what their hobbies are outside of the game. Sure, my D&D game started in my parents’ basement, but I was also into sports growing up, and never in my life have I owned a pocket protector. I’ve played D&D with football players, entrepreneurs, artists, teachers, hippies, conservatives and even with a girl or two (turns out they do exist). The point I’m trying to make here is that the stereotype is meaningless and that Dungeons and Dragons appeals to a much larger group of people than some might imagine.
I think for me, that’s the appeal. It’s the freedom that the game gives to its players to leave the structure and expectations of the real world behind and focus on something completely apart. In the world of Dungeons and Dragons, I can be who and what ever I want to be. I can be a part of a story, created in partnership with some of my closest friends. I can take a few hours out of my week, put everything else aside and roll some dice.
Thank you Gary Gygax for creating Dungeons and Dragons. Thank you for giving us a universe full of adventure and excitement. Thank you for giving us the voice to create our stories.
Cheers,
Jon Wood
Managing Editor
MMORPG.com
Well said my friend.
I myself put up with a LOT of stigma in high school thanks to D&D - being called a "devil worshipper" because of the games I played and the music I listened to. But looking back on that now, I wouldn't have traded it for the world. I wouldn't exactly call myself well rounded
but gaming definitely helped me expand my imagination. Now I'm quite successful, running my own business and doing really well at it. I've met lots of crazy, mixed up, curious, happy, delightful people, gone to a lot of conventions, and basically had a great time being a 30-something old "kid".
Not to mention the fact that without people like Gygax, most of the games that we know and love would have never came to pass. Even the non-fantasy games owe their props to Gygax because they brought the people together who MADE those games. I seem to remember reading a biography of iD software a few years ago and those guys basically got together and made games because they played RPGs in a house by a lake. Games brought them together, and they, along with many, many, many other people revolutionized and created an industry.
I got to meet Gary last year, at GenCon 2007, when he was outside the convention center talking with a bunch of fans. If you didn't know anything about the industry you would have never known him from any other gamer there that day. He was a normal guy with extraordinary vision and imagination. I only got to mutter a quick "hi" and listen to him for a few seconds, but I'll cherish that moment forever.
So, hats off to Gary Gygax. Roll a die, lift a mug, and realize that the world is a little bit dimmer than it was on March 3rd, 2008, but that his light carries on within all of us and will carry on forever.
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I have roleplayed since the early beginning, and even if I played a lot of different games, AD&D was the game that created Harafnir, the northern barbarian Chaotic Evil Cleric, that I activelly tried to kill from lvl 2 up to lvl 14 when the game master just gave up. I cant recall how many times I heard "Ok, you are dead... you know you are dead. Roll Initiative. Oh you won! Roll attack... critical hit! Not again.... ok damage... *sigh* Yup.. You killed him." My team hated Harafnir, but he solved most things. Entering dungeons with a loud "Mommy, I am hooomeee!!" he did learn a stealth approach to clearing a dungeon in the end. He walk into a room with enemies. Cast silence... then tell the Mage to cast a fireball into the room, right at himself. Silent... but deadly... His team never got a single heal from him, what I can remember, he used them himself.
The memories that Gygax has given people are endless. But I want to thank him especially for Harafnir. Many of my characters has appeared in games as NPCs, since I know a lot of PnP designers, and have played with them or their friends a lot. But Harafnir the insane cleric will always be my number one. And he could not have existed in any other game.
"This is not a game to be tossed aside lightly.
It should be thrown with great force"
I began playing D&D over 30 years ago. At that time I had already developed a very active imagination. D&D was the perfect outlet for my newly discovered personality trait. My friends and I would play for hours on end and we soon realized that a particular residue effect was resulting from our hobby; WE WERE NOT GETTING INTO ADOLESCENT TROUBLE. I also realized that my grades in school were improving; imagine that. Perhaps this was the effect of my endless hours of reading “The Players Handbook”, “Dungeon Masters Guide”, Etc. These books required that I actually look up words like “initiative” and “alignment” I the dictionary and even use the family encyclopedias to research exactly who Zeus and Odin were.
This trend of discovering practical applications for skills the game of D&D helped me tap into continued with my Military career and still today. Do you remember the first time that you actually used deductive reasoning to successfully bypass a particularly nasty section of a dungeon? (Tomb Of Horrors just kind of jumps to mind.) Do you remember that saying to yourself, “ I came up with the solution to get by that trap, not my character”? I know that for me this was a great feeling, knowing that I was actually developing problem solving and team building skills by playing a game that I loved.
Thank you Mr. Gygax
Here is a story of how i learned of D&D
I happened to be born in a communist country. Needles to say , any communication with the west was discouraged. This goes especially for any capitalist trend like "roleplaying games". There was no notion of
D&D in my world. But I loved Tolkien , especially "Hobbit". Crafted wooden swords and bows , and always wanted to play knights and monsters with other kids...
One day i went to cinema to see "E.T."
In one of the opening scenes kids are gathered around kitchen table playing some kind of fantasy game.
What is that !!! I asked myself ?
I got so intrigued with it , that i started reconstructing and reverse engeenering the scene , together with another friend...
We worked over a month on our version of the "mystery game" and came up with a game played with set of hand drawn fantasy cards, 2 six sided dice and board map... We made it ! We reconstructed D&D rules from a 2 minutes movie scene
Well, not really. The game was utterly unplayable , but +5 for effort on our part.
Years passed...
And than one day i stumbled into a back room of some forgotten book store.
There on a dusty shelf - stood a book : D&D Rules Cyclopedia by Gary Gygax
I gave my self a massive smack on the head and yelled out loud:
" SO THIS IS WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN PLAYING !!!! "
And this is how i became D&D geek.
Thank you Sir Gary , you will always be my hero !
Does it make me the queen of nerds that I actually cried when I learn he had died? (rhyming unintentional). And Im crying again... silly I know... but for some reason his death just made me really sad. Maybe its the fact that he was like an "uncle in art" to me... were both artists of a sort.
His death affected me more than anyone elses death thats happened recently.. so I guess that just makes me strange.
>.>
I wonder if nerds are going to go on pilgrimages to his grave now. Hehe... I know I would.
I have been playing on and off since 1988 started with the “red books”. My friend Rudy introduced me to the game before I left El Paso to go 3000 miles across country. I cherished my first character. A Cleric named Oda Lee Rilk (if you are a Mexican and can catch the reference, you will see the funny in it; note, I am Hispanic and the name is NOT an insult to Hispanics). I own two chests FULL of Dungeons and Dragons material (with overflow boxes!) and am currently taking my sons and his friends through the ruins of Myth Drannor. They are realizing that being specific in the use of Wishes is a good idea, and loopholes are a beast…literally.
The most memorable moment of DMing had to do with a far reaching campaign spanning the Forgotten Realms from the wastes of the Far East to the City of Waterdeep. The group I was running were camping one evening when they heard loud footsteps coming their way and trees being trampled. After waking each other up and preparing for battle, a large two headed Ettin burst through the clearing. Before the lightning bolts could start flying and the barbarians could begin their rage, the Ettin lets out with a large voice, “HI GUYS! WOULD YOU LIKE TO PLAY WITH ME?” (with a “Which way did he go George?” voice). The group stopped and gave me an odd look. The leader immediately said: “yeah! Let’s play hide and seek! You count, and we will go hide, ok!?”. The Ettin jumped up and down, clapped and said “OK!” The leader says, now go stand by the tree, turn around, and count.” “OK!” *whispers*guys, pack, NOW* *Ettin turns around* “1, 2, 3…um guys, what’s after 3?” They all stop in midstream and the leader then says: “HEY! NO peeking!” “Oh, SORRY! “ “ no problem, it’s 4. Now you have to start over!” “Oh darn! 1, 2, 3” After a few moments, the group hears, after they are far off: “HEY! WHERE DID YOU GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO????” What made the group burst out in hideous laughter was the fact that I, as the DM, got up and acted out it all out. The look on their face when they heard “HEY GUYS! I caught up to you!” several times in the campaign was CLASSIC. Good times.
Most insane moment has to do with the Drow Necromancer that followed a merchant into an alley, cast hold person, silence around him, and proceeded to sacrifice him right there.
Scariest moment for me as a player: Given an assignment to help a village who have had numerous killings and people disappear. Went north where it all started, found some ovular looking things in the middle of a clearing. I camped Anastasia, my Elven Archer, in a tree and waited until nightfall. The dwarf barbarian, mage and cleric were camped on the ground. After some time, the DM asks me to do a listen check, passed. “you hear movement coming from the branches next to you, as you look over, you see a large, black, smooth head come into view, saliva oozing from his open maw, it reveals an inner mouth that snaps at you, INITIATIVE”. WTF? Wait…no way, YOU AS*H***!!! Ana is so going to die”. ”fail initiative* “It spits at you, your elven chain starts to smoke” “ANASTASIA FALLS BACKWARDS OUT OF THE TREE SCREAMING LIKE A LITTLE GIRL FOR HER MOMMY!” “You take 2d6 damage from the fall” “OK!” “You see it jumping down at you” “ROLL OUT OF THE WAY!” “It missed, starts to roll over and up” “DOUBLE STAPPLING SHOT NOW!” “Roll, …ok both hit it’s slowed” “HICKS WE ARE LEAVING!” The dwarven barbarian went into a rage, I told the mage, fireball, and let’s go. “What about him??” “He’s dead, look at him, he’s melting, we are out of here”. The dwarven barbarian player wasn’t mad…he knew we were screwed. When we got to town, rest of us told the villagers to keep their gold and move out. Now. “Um, guys, you know, you get no XP for this, right”. “So? We lived, we head west….fast”. We left and never looked back.
Thank you Gary for creating an environment where I could make characters like Anastashia, Oda the cool cleric, and for a crazy Two Headed Ettin that was eventually turned into a crab by a frustrated mage (“I HAD ENOUGH OF HIM!!!!”), and then eaten by the Samurai (“LUNCH!”).
Hasta
I dont have any funny stories.
I dont have any charactors that made a huge statement in my life, other then Rewop... never again would I name a char by spelling something backwards.
I dont have any D&D items in my house, wait im lying, I still have a package of dice from 4 - 20
What I do have is a tear in my eye for one of the people that brought imagination to life.
This site exists because of people like Gary. We gatherered around a table, then we gathererd around a computer and rolled dice there. Someone had a thought and added graphics and buried the rolls into a computer program and MMOs gathered strength and grew.
Take the game you play now and for a minute the next time you are logged in, take a look around and for a just a short time pretend there is no computer. You are around a table with 1000s of other people and Gary is rolling dice and telling you ... "you turn the corner and see a ...."
All i have to say is We MIss you Gary. Lets just say D&D was my "Grass is Greener on the other side"
There is a lot of reason for the Quote but there is noo reason for me to explain what it means .
In a nut shell in trouble times D&D was there for release
My story is not necessarily about D&D (because I never really played with any consistency), but rather how one summer of exposure to it impacted the rest of my life.
My cousin got me into D&D when I was staying with them for the summer. I was 12 at the time and it made a huge impression on me. My cousin took the rules as guidelines and used them to create an epic world that, while following the D&D precepts and "guidelines", was unique and rich and immersive. It was my first experience with alternate fantasy realms, and it has permeated all aspects of my life since.
It was at that same time that I was exploring computers. My mom (single mom) had been given an IBM 386 by the Army and told to figure it out in order to automate their admin functions. So her and I say in front of it reading the books, learning DOS together, etc. Then I found a copy of Ultima in my school library. That game allowed me to immerse myself in a fantasy world when I was unable to game with my cousin. I took it home and instantly had a real reason to figure out how to work the computer. How to make boot disks, save disk, reallocate memory, batch files, etc. I crashed that computer so many times trying to "make the game work...". That became a mantra for my learning over the following years. Everything I did with computers was to "make the game work".
From there I found the computer user groups and realized that most people were using them to game. At age 14 I then started my own user group when we were transitioned to a new base. I created a BBS in my home to explore "door" games (early online games) with other people. I found early modding communities (Flight Sim 4 and Secret Weapons of Luftwaffe). I gave classes on modem technology and how to navigate online comminities.
Anyway, fast forward to today....
Everything I did to "make the game work", lead to me to a successful career in computer networking. As a result of the interaction of other gamers and my early user group experiences, I have went through life with a fairly easy ability to communicate and lead people, which has helped me succeed in moving into executive management within the corporate world. I still game (mostly MMORPGs) and continue to learn new things as a result of my gaming.
So while this wasn't necessarily about D&D, when I heard about Gary's passing the other day, I sat at my desk for a bit and remembered that first exposure and the sequence of events that followed. I realized that, in my opinion, I owe a substantial amount of my success to this man I never met, whose game I barely played, yet that brief contact helped shape the rest of my life and help me become the man I am today.
Thank you Gary. Rest in Peace.
I never meet the man.
Now I will have to find a new answer to the question: Which guy would you like to meet in RL.
I am still younger than what he was when he created D&D, still, I feel like I just aged a lot. There are about a dozen of tributes which make more or less sense on youtube already, and dozens which doesn't make any form of sense yet, display that he was in a soft spots for many.
- "If I understand you well, you are telling me until next time. " - Ren
I have never had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Gygax, but I have been playing D&D since the old Red Box days, and can remember before then all the D7D minatures and books before I had the ability to play them. He has truly brought joy to many many people young and old through out the years, and if it wasn't for him and his many systems I probably wouldnt be the RPG/CRPG/MMO junkie I am today.
30 years ago a guy in Junior college that wanted to impress me asked me over to a friend's house for a game of D&D. He didn't get to first base but we became a solid D&D group for about 18 months until jobs became too time consuming. That D&D group though, led to a large group of friends. Since then I've left Florida, Traveled al over the US and then returned just 8 years ago to Florida again. I've picked up with two of the people from the original group (the rest have moved out of state) and I now hold role-playing games in my home every Saturday night. They aren't D&D games anymore but there's no doubt in my mind that without D&D we wouldn't have the role-playing games we play. We also wouldn't have the same type of MMORPGs we have. If anything, they would be more military and science fiction oriented (created by people who played war miniatures) and everyone would be longing for a fantasy game.
Millions of people around the world owe Gary Gygax more than they will ever know. His life changed the world.
The box where the level cap was 3.
But the book give a few level 3 spells to the DM for NPCs and dragons...such as fireball, fly, dispel magic, bless(cleric)...NPC only spells for now.
Elves where all fighter-wizards hybrids. :P
The next (deep blue) box bring the levels 4-14 and a level cap on non-humans, 8 for halfling, 10 for elves and 12 for dwarves. :P On a side note, stats where working very closely to how they work in the most recent version of D&D. :P
The initial game balancing for dragons was made with the fact players where level 3 or less...and it will have impact all the way to this day, with the exception of the Draconomicon. See, dragons with between 6-11 HD when the level cap was 3, it was working...later on they will "fix" this with dragon age...but they will never be as formidable compared to high level players (which is fine, that way you feel heroic...and killing a 6 hd dragon in the old system could be done quite fast with a few lucky rolls, and even if you don't kill the dragon, you reduce it damage output a lot (breath damage = hps left)).
- "If I understand you well, you are telling me until next time. " - Ren
Gary
May you find peace in the same degree as the joy and livelyhood your art has brought me.
RPG is not just a state of mind.......It's a lifestyle. Art to partake of deeply and savor across time.
My best wishes to your family and friends.
Lord Darklite
Dwarven Wizard
Gary Gygax made a huge difference in my life over the years. I began playing P&P "Melee" with a group of guys when I was 34. I was the only girl in the group, and we were obsessed with it for over a year, meeting every weekend to play until the wee hours, inventing naughty rules of behavior for our characters as well as developing maps and strategies. It was the greatest source of enjoyment I had during that period in my life, when I had lost my job, and was otherwise struggling for a hold in real life. Then I found the newer videogames on PS2 and PC, played Neverwinter Nights for 2 1/2 years and LOVED it, and found Everquest 2, which I've been playing for over 3 years now. Still not too many women in the games, but more of us all the time! At this point in my life, as a single woman unlikely to marry again, it's a tremendous source for social interaction, and I've made friends around the world. I've been to wedding in Norrath, and will be going to one this summer in real life that started in Norrath, Everquest 2. I'd be very lonely without all the friends I've made in D&D play over the years. Gary Gygax made all this possible for me, and I was truly grieved at his passing.... thunderstruck by it! He was a pioneer, and a courageous one at that! When he started the role playing game, he reaped MUCH criticism and cultural bally-hoo at the start. The papers made him out to be a mad man! There was uproar in the press about the possible social effects of such play! Little did they know he would move people to create alternate worlds of incredible beauty, and make a new frontier that thousands of frustrated pioneers would flock to for relief from the pressures of real life. Human beings NEED new frontiers! Our sanity depends upon it. We are an adventuring species! Gary deserves all the bravos we can muster for having made those frontiers possible for the rest of us, saving our sanity!
I wasn't born in the era where it had became popular. My memory of D&D is when I found one of the first copies of the game in a house and kepted it in my room. My mother didn't like D&D (demons, blah blah) so she threw it under a seat in my dad's car. My dad sold the car 1-2 days later. You can't imagine how pissed I was. I think that was worth some money and she let it all away because of whatever history she had of it. It still urks me to this day, so it kinda urks me not to touch D&D. No disrespect to any one of you. May Mr. Gygax rest in peace.
-In memory of Laura "Taera" Genender. Passed away on Aug/13/08-
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The next dragon's for you Gary. You will be missed.
My story is of having a half-orc that did not have any blunt damage weapons. We come up to an area where all these skeletons pop out. I had a 19 Str (2nd Edition) and made a grapple roll to grab a skeletons legs. I then proceeded to use the skeleton as a club till it broke down as well. My groups always did some outside the box things that I sometimes did not care for and would sit back and just participate but we were also given the ability to use our imaginations without penalty. That leads to a 2nd story with me and my best friend starting with a formed group that were playing Ravenloft. I was playing my first pure mage character. The bad guy had an orb he was using to great effect when I got to within range and cast grease on the object. It failed its saving throw then the bad guy kept doing the same. Everyone was praising me for saving the day when I was just hoping to be a little irritating.
I missed my directorial debut due to the fact that I was playing AD&D with some college friends of mine in another city. Never again did the managing teacher of the department give me any chance to redeem myself by directing another play. And yet, I still feel like I won the bargain in the end; because Dungeons and Dragons opened my mind to a world of fantasy and heroic sword and sorcery that I never knew had existed.
My best moment with my first character (a rather humorless fellow named Skuld, an 8th level priest) was when we were in the high outcrop of rock leading to another chamber. We tried going to the right side and the rock crumbled. We tried going to the left side and the rock crumbled. A rickety bridge that looked like it was falling apart was in the center. Skuld said, "Have faith my sons" and walked across that bridge. It sagged and groaned, but it held. At this moment a fellow player said "Yo Skuld, Renegade Priest on wheels"
My funniest moment with this same character is when three ogres were rushing us. Skuld whipped out his command spell and went "Woogede, woogede, woogede, Command Spell. One word, three syllables- COP-U-LATE!" Then one of the orges tried to do something very silly to one of his comerades; and everyone in the room burst out in laughter.
I wouldn't have such wonderful memories like this if it hadn't been for Gary Gygax and the TSR team. My friends and I had a lot of fun with the system he invented. So I have had a wonderful theatre of the mind,instead of an empty stage. As they say in the theatre, "Good Show, Gary! Good Show!"
GW Completed Prophecies, Completed Factions
"In individuals, insanity is rare; but in groups, parties, nations, and epochs it is the rule." Neitzsche
My first contact with DnD was at acard & comic store. My brothers and I rode our bikes to buy some baseball cards (yes, they still had bubble gum in the pack). We were attracted to the dragon and wizard figurines and paged through the monster compendium. We were hooked and wanted to try the game out. A few weeks later after a few yards of raking and mowing, we purcased the books and spent the summer playing. My first character was a Cleric: Hersaint! lol Anyways thanks for the freedom to imagine and innovate, Mr. Gygax.
I am going to inject a personal statement on the passing of Gary Gygax.
Hope no one minds. I imagine that there are people here who have had similar experiences and may or may not have the words for them.
Like most people who played D&D as well as all of the offshoot games; including all of the MMORPG's that have come along since, I never met Gary Gygax. I remember in High School (late 1970's), when I started playing D&D, I never knew who had created the game. I just knew that it was a fun diversion.
Through all of the times that boneheads from the fanatical religious nuts claiming that it was "devil worship" and through the times that people kept claiming that it was a dangerous game that drove people to dangerous delusional behavior, I knew that all of those claims were just a load of garbage; that people who claimed that would find something to blame rather than owning up to their own responsibilities.
It's was game. Nothing more and nothing less.
I continued playing while I was in the military, finding people at every base that enjoyed the game on the weekends.
Even after I got my discharge, I still managed to find people that played the game; as well as other games of other genres that were based on the "role play" idea.
A few years ago I got into playing computer-based RPG's through games like Diablo, which my wife (then girlfriend) introduced me to, and then we discovered Everquest and began playing that. Soon another game came along, and another, and another.
We now play a few different MMORPG's and enjoy them all for different reasons.
All thanks to a man, who's name I never knew until I heard the news of his passing.
As I look at what has happened since the first D&D game was released, I realise how much impact that it has had on all of us, all over the world; some of it bad, but most of it very good in a subtle, but real, way. Like a pebble dropped in a pond: The ripples got bigger and bigger as they moved out.
I still have my dice as well as many of the books from Both D&D as well as from one of the other games that I have played, Traveller.
Should I come across anyone that still plays those games, I will dust them off, and if not, they are there to hand down to my grandchildren to play.
Thank you Gary Gygax for creating a legacy that spans generations and for helping people to learn again how to entertain themselves without having to watch TV.
Thank you Gary Gygax for creating a world that lead to the creation of hundreds of other worlds that have given so many people so much joy; which have also allowed people from all over the world to befriend fellow enthusiasts and opened lines of communications that have spanned the boundaries of not just the games, but also the boundaries of socio-economic class, race, religion, gender, state and nation.
You will be sorely missed.
It isn't the preacher that gives you freedom of religion, it is the soldiers that gave some or all to protect that freedom.
I remember playing Basic set and first edition Advanced DnD when they first came out. I was 11 years old.
The game introduced me to a way to open my mind and imagine. Anything was possible. The inspiration I gleamed then transformed me into a visual artist interested in the primal cause of the worlds, the myths of Gods that inhabit our souls and the desire to express those visions.
Thank You Gary Gygax. Thank you!!
Like so many others i had never met Gary Gygax but still hearing about his death it was like hearing a family member or a close friend had passed. There are a few stories about D&D i could share but i'll stay with three things that will always be with me. I had always had a love of fantasy but had never actually played dungeons and dragons untill Junior High, Still to this day i remember my first charaters name class race and his first and last small adventures.
The second memory stems from reading an AD&D book back when TSR owned it, The book was about Gnomes and Halflings i stumbled across a name Kepli, which i had used a few times then i started playing Everquest and that name was taken so i switched the vowls and Kiple was born and i've used that name ever since in everything from D&D to WoW for atleast six years now
The Final memory ironically is similar to the Episode of futurama mentioned before, I was in study hall my friends and I planned to play 3rd edition for the first time. i was bored and messing with my dice, without realizing it i was making enough noise to be noticed by the teacher. I hear "MR. Simmons! Put the Dice away or i'll take them away" coming from the end of the table, although i was embarresed at the time i laugh even harder at that line in the episode.
I wish i could have said this in person but Thank you Gary, you helped fill my life with creation, laughter, and help me decided that i wanted to go to school so i could work on games like D&D, you will be missed