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Be Real With Me Guys, What Would You Do.

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  • unconformedunconformed Member Posts: 700

    Originally posted by Vampir


     
    Originally posted by unconformed


    be real. be a mans man. dont be girly 21century man. if its mutual. be man. get laid. than fart and scratch afterwards, alot.
    you see nowhere in recorded history is that the idealized image of a man.

     

    maybe only at the man show, me i kind of like the image of victorian era gentlemen.

    trust me, im as shy and gentlemanly as the next guy.

    im living vicariously through these forums.

    chips, dips chains & whips.

  • KrAzYBLADEKrAzYBLADE Member UncommonPosts: 70

    I say no....there is something fishy with this story. This girl spending all this money on you and have you spent all of this on her? Sounds like a newspaper story of a krazy child molester trying any way possible to get his victums address...lol...

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  • CactusmanXCactusmanX Member Posts: 2,218

    Originally posted by KrAzYBLADE


    I say no....there is something fishy with this story. This girl spending all this money on you and have you spent all of this on her? Sounds like a newspaper story of a krazy child molester trying any way possible to get his victums address...lol...
    I concure, she sounds a bit stalkery, and by a bit I mean a lot.

    Ever see Fatal Attraction?

    Don't you worry little buddy. You're dealing with a man of honor. However, honor requires a higher percentage of profit

  • cryoracryora Member Posts: 367

    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X
    Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

    So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

  • frodusfrodus Member Posts: 2,396

    Nail it to the wall...make it worth her while..tell her this all have to give her right NOW.

    Be humble,and thankful she has let herself be known..to YOU

    And put a rain coat on.

    Im flat broke.. but I dont care..I just strut right by, with tail in the air...stray cat strut,im a ladys man... feeling casanova..Blab Blah

    And be respectful.

    Trade in material assumptions for spiritual facts and make permanent progress.

  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

    Originally posted by cryora


     
    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X
    Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

     

    So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

    Close. Yeah. Because there is not much females on here I thought to reverse it to a guy getting all the stuff from a girl. To see what yall would do in the same situation. I was wondering with the girl I know if she's going to give it up when he comes down and bring this stuff. In the guy's mind does he want something for all the goodies he got for her.

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  • DraenorDraenor Member UncommonPosts: 7,918
    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X


     
    Originally posted by cryora


     
    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X
    Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

     

    So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

     

    Close. Yeah. Because there is not much females on here I thought to reverse it to a guy getting all the stuff from a girl. To see what yall would do in the same situation. I was wondering with the girl I know if she's going to give it up when he comes down and bring this stuff. In the guy's mind does he want something for all the goodies he got for her.



    Just say no to poorly worded social experimentation.

    Your argument is like a two legged dog with an eating disorder...weak and unbalanced.

  • ZorvanZorvan Member CommonPosts: 8,912
    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X


    Rikimaru don't feel like telling a story right now, so I'm getting to the point. I want to ask you guys this: Say there is a girl online that likes you and you like her (she's a 7.5 out of 10) and you know she buys you a:
    Elite Xbox 360
    Nintendo DS
    Nintendo Wii
    Playstation 3
    and some games
    and will be visiting you with the stuff in a week to see you and give you the gifts and spend time with you....and this is TRULY LEGIT. Would you pull down the boxers/pants/drawers to this girl (if you know what I mean)?

    Pull down the pants? Hell, I'll be stark naked when I open the door. I can make a bundle selling off the Nintendo and Xbox360 crap, and have another PS3, all for the price of a lay. How the hell could anyone top that?

  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

    Originally posted by Draenor

    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X


     
    Originally posted by cryora


     
    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X
    Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

     

    So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

     

    Close. Yeah. Because there is not much females on here I thought to reverse it to a guy getting all the stuff from a girl. To see what yall would do in the same situation. I was wondering with the girl I know if she's going to give it up when he comes down and bring this stuff. In the guy's mind does he want something for all the goodies he got for her.



    Just say no to poorly worded social experimentation.

    My bad man. I should have put, "if you put yourself in her shoes, would you..."

    -In memory of Laura "Taera" Genender. Passed away on Aug/13/08-
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  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239

    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X


     
    Originally posted by Draenor

    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X


     
    Originally posted by cryora


     
    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X
    Remember that this isn't about me but a situation (that's reversed). Never met the person in real life YET, but in a Week. Knows he's getting the stuff...I don't know if it's stolen. lol

     

    So the real situation is a guy is getting a girl all the stuff the girl wants, but for sex? Or is there some homosexuality involved, cause I don't really get what you mean when you save the situation is reversed.

     

    Close. Yeah. Because there is not much females on here I thought to reverse it to a guy getting all the stuff from a girl. To see what yall would do in the same situation. I was wondering with the girl I know if she's going to give it up when he comes down and bring this stuff. In the guy's mind does he want something for all the goodies he got for her.



    Just say no to poorly worded social experimentation.

     

    My bad man. I should have put, "if you put yourself in her shoes, would you..."


    It depends.

    On how you play it.

    If you give the things to her and make her feel like a hooker , if she is sexually loose she will use you as a sugar daddy, if she is a real girl she will feel cheap and leave you.

    If you make her feel like you gave things to her because you love her then everything will go fine and dandy, she will see you as soul mate and protector.

    But mostlikely(im trying to merge this into one word)  one of the first two options will occur if you try something like this this soon.

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  • rsrestonrsreston Member UncommonPosts: 346

    If you like a 7.5 girl it's ok - just be sure to know that when someone loves another person, looks are secondary.

    Now this sounds weird to me: a person you met online spent some hundreds of dollars to buy a gift for another person she's never met. She might be crazy - at least.

    Now, she's coming over. I'd say she is probably interested in you - very much, because she's spending a lot of money. Which is weird because usually women don't express love materially.

    Now, you have to know that sex is a possible outcome of a date. If she's inclined to do it, she'll let you know. And if you do not comply, you may have broken her heart. She might then leave thinking she was so stupid buying all that stuff for you, and you rejected her.

    Normally, men buy women gifts - not the other way around. Gifts are usually seen as tokens of men's appreciation - but they don't t guarantee sex. Women have the final word on that. What is happening to you is what goes through the mind of some women during their first dates: "If he/she gives me a gift/pays for the dinner, should I reward him with sex?" This is your first date with this woman - are you willing to have sex with her this first time? What will she think of you? That you're too easy? That you're going to have sex with anyone that gives you a pretty gift?

    The nonsense apart, this is why the good guy in the movies sometimes refuses to accept an expensive gift from someone - because they don't want to be in someone's debt. Now the family of this girl might be the owner of, say, Microsoft - and thus buying a PS3 wouldn't be much - just like a normal visiting present (a bottle of wine, for example) should cost. But you have to check that with your life standards.

    I hope this girl reads your post and sees she's going after someone whose first thought is: "Will I [have sex] with this 7.5/10 female after receiving her precious gift?" - oh, I've just realized why women don't give men gifts: the women already have THE GIFT to give to them - they just have to know if they're worth of receiving it.

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  • Ghost12Ghost12 Member Posts: 684

    Id have to agree with the poster above, its really, really odd to have someone that you met online suddenly buy you a bunch of gifts - albeit,  quite expensive (a Wii, Xbox and Ps3? Thats gotta be around 700, at least)  and go over there herself so meet you. Usually its the guy who does it, if anything, but even then the amount of money spent on this sign of affection is a bit absurd. Sounds like she is very desperate if shes really looking for a relationship online. TBH it sounds a bit fishy to me and you better watch your step. Unless you talked to this person on webcam mano a mano, I would be very wary. Sounds like someone has some issues.

  • Kevyne-ShandrisKevyne-Shandris Member UncommonPosts: 2,077


    Originally posted by Vampir

    maybe only at the man show, me i kind of like the image of victorian era gentlemen.


    DAMN! If you were 10 years older......

    :p

  • Kevyne-ShandrisKevyne-Shandris Member UncommonPosts: 2,077


    Originally posted by Ghost12

    Usually its the guy who does it, if anything, but even then the amount of money spent on this sign of affection is a bit absurd. Sounds like she is very desperate if shes really looking for a relationship online.


    Sounds more like a guy looking for a chickenhawk (gay talk for an underaged boy, i.e., twink).

    If a woman does it she's looking to exploit, especially someone she's never met before.

    I'd drop it, until I know the person in RL. Too much weird stuff online.
     

  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

    Pretty much on the same path as the above poster.

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  • jeffpenneyjeffpenney Member Posts: 16

    im rather surprised at such a post, i didint know 10,000 could turn out to be a vent my life type forum.

  • wikiewikie Member Posts: 209

    if im a man i wouldn't do such things.. anyways i wont accept her gifts i dont want to use her weakness.

  • oakthornnoakthornn Member UncommonPosts: 863

    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X


    Rikimaru don't feel like telling a story right now, so I'm getting to the point. I want to ask you guys this: Say there is a girl online that likes you and you like her (she's a 7.5 out of 10) and you know she buys you a:
    Elite Xbox 360
    Nintendo DS
    Nintendo Wii
    Playstation 3
    and some games
    and will be visiting you with the stuff in a week to see you and give you the gifts and spend time with you....and this is TRULY LEGIT. Would you pull down the boxers/pants/drawers to this girl (if you know what I mean)?

     

    Absolutely,,,but thats because I love sex . Also, I love recieving gifts from women, especially those who have feelings for me. Normally I'm the one who spoils my women, but on occasion I get a nice surprise. When this happens, I feel it's only right that I give her a nice reward for being so cute and generous. First I'll give her a nice soothing, erotic, full body massage, followed by whatever she wants next until we get to the  fun turbo thrusting part, lol.   :P

    Actually, come to think of it, a friend of mine just recently bought me Devil May Cry 4 for the PS3 just for doing her a favor. Well, that surprised the hell outta me. So I took her out to dinner that night and ended up having sex with her after we got home,,,just to u know,,, show her my appreciation for surprising me like that.. :)

    Keep in mind, a year ago we had the perfection "friends with benefits" relationship where we'd get intimate every now and then..  So I'm not entirely a man whore, hahaha!

    Rallithon Oakthornn
    (Retired Heirophant of the 60th season)

  • oakthornnoakthornn Member UncommonPosts: 863

    Originally posted by wikie


    if im a man i wouldn't do such things.. anyways i wont accept her gifts i dont want to use her weakness.

     

    ALL LIES!!! lol jk :P

    HYPOTHETICALLY SPEAKING...Lets reverse the scenerio real quick. Lets say I bought u all these nice gifts out of the kindness of my heart cause I'm jsut a good guy.. And lets just say u had a secret crush on me but I never knew about it. Then after I bought u these gifts I revealed I had some mixed feeling for you.. Out of sheer excitement and utter joy you wouldn't have sex with me right then and there?? LOL.. Hmmmmm    :P

    Rallithon Oakthornn
    (Retired Heirophant of the 60th season)

  • RajaiRajai Member UncommonPosts: 331

    Assuming you met her in a game

    and she's hot

    is she older?

    is she rich?

    I'd be careful about meeting people online, you could end up chained in their basement

    and not in a kinky way



    if she doesn't have psychotic episodes, is not a man, I'd say hit it

    Trump 2016

  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

     

    I seen some good comments in here. Too much to reply on right now.

    Originally posted by jeffpenney


    im rather surprised at such a post, i didint know 10,000 could turn out to be a vent my life type forum.

     

    Nothing to do with the post count. I been making similar life choice topics since before 1k. This isn't my life or your life though. It's most likely your opinions.

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  • n25phillyn25philly Member Posts: 1,317

    As long as there isn't a penis there when she takes her clothes off I say screw as much as you can while she's there.

    member of imminst.org

  • xpowderxxpowderx Member UncommonPosts: 2,078

    Originally posted by rsreston


    If you like a 7.5 girl it's ok - just be sure to know that when someone loves another person, looks are secondary.
    Now this sounds weird to me: a person you met online spent some hundreds of dollars to buy a gift for another person she's never met. She might be crazy - at least.
    Now, she's coming over. I'd say she is probably interested in you - very much, because she's spending a lot of money. Which is weird because usually women don't express love materially.
    Now, you have to know that sex is a possible outcome of a date. If she's inclined to do it, she'll let you know. And if you do not comply, you may have broken her heart. She might then leave thinking she was so stupid buying all that stuff for you, and you rejected her.
    Normally, men buy women gifts - not the other way around. Gifts are usually seen as tokens of men's appreciation - but they don't t guarantee sex. Women have the final word on that. What is happening to you is what goes through the mind of some women during their first dates: "If he/she gives me a gift/pays for the dinner, should I reward him with sex?" This is your first date with this woman - are you willing to have sex with her this first time? What will she think of you? That you're too easy? That you're going to have sex with anyone that gives you a pretty gift?
    The nonsense apart, this is why the good guy in the movies sometimes refuses to accept an expensive gift from someone - because they don't want to be in someone's debt. Now the family of this girl might be the owner of, say, Microsoft - and thus buying a PS3 wouldn't be much - just like a normal visiting present (a bottle of wine, for example) should cost. But you have to check that with your life standards.
    I hope this girl reads your post and sees she's going after someone whose first thought is: "Will I [have sex] with this 7.5/10 female after receiving her precious gift?" - oh, I've just realized why women don't give men gifts: the women already have THE GIFT to give to them - they just have to know if they're worth of receiving it.
    Do not believe any of this post. Looks do play a part. Looks are a part of love. If a man or woman are not physically attracted to each other love cannot happen. I cherish my wife. She is intelligent,good looking(ex-captain of her high school cheerleading squad),strong,and weak at the right moments. I have been with her for almost 20 years now. She is just as beautiful now as she was then. In some aspects even more so. The idea that love exists without looks is just a good philosophical moral thought. The truth of it is quite different. To truly love someone you have to love the whole entirety, not just some parts and leave others out. Leaving out eventually  will catch up to you and you will then be looking to divorce.

    You do not sacrifice one part of your ideal to get a little of another. Often one will say"Well shes/he is  very nice. Not that good looking but I still can make it happen. I can change her/him. This is a classic case of having expectations that will rarely ever be met. This is not just looks in this case. Often we over exert some things in hopes others will get better. The best way to look at it is; If its a apple its a apple, if its a orange its a orange. The apple is not a orange no matter what you do.

  • rsrestonrsreston Member UncommonPosts: 346

    Originally posted by xpowderx


     
    Do not believe any of this post. Looks do play a part. Looks are a part of love. If a man or woman are not physically attracted to each other love cannot happen. I cherish my wife. She is intelligent,good looking(ex-captain of her high school cheerleading squad),strong,and weak at the right moments. I have been with her for almost 20 years now. She is just as beautiful now as she was then. In some aspects even more so. The idea that love exists without looks is just a good philosophical moral thought. The truth of it is quite different. To truly love someone you have to love the whole entirety, not just some parts and leave others out. Leaving out eventually  will catch up to you and you will then be looking to divorce.
     
    You do not sacrifice one part of your ideal to get a little of another. Often one will say"Well shes/he is  very nice. Not that good looking but I still can make it happen. I can change her/him. This is a classic case of having expectations that will rarely ever be met. This is not just looks in this case. Often we over exert some things in hopes others will get better. The best way to look at it is; If its a apple its a apple, if its a orange its a orange. The apple is not a orange no matter what you do.
    True love? Does that ring any bell?

    There surely are many people like you, xpowderx.  And there are surely many people like me - the first love of my life, I remember thinking "Hey, this girl has an ugly nose". Months later, her nose was on of her most beautiful details. You might have found love in someone beautiful early in your life - didn't take the time to experience love with other women that might not have been all that beautiful, just to wake up someday wishing she were there, without a gram of makeup, wonderful in her simplicity.

    Now, back to the topic: do be careful with the "tied in the basement in not a kinky fashion" scenario - lots of crazy people out there... At least, take her to an expensive restaurant and YOU pay the bill...

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  • frodusfrodus Member Posts: 2,396

    Its quite normal for locals at Myrtle Beach to recive gifts.They tore the pavilion down..WTF

    Trade in material assumptions for spiritual facts and make permanent progress.

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