Looking for some PvP/PvE Action

Hey guys, thanks for clicking on my thread! After months of looking through the LFGame threads and discussions for a game of my own I finally made an account and decided to ask more specifically what I am looking for. Let me start off by listing the things I liked about the only MMO I have truly played and enjoyed. Unfortunately this game is, as you probably already guessed, WoW.

First what I liked about WoW was the cartoony graphics. Yes this may come off as odd to a few of you but my computer isn't a new one, that being said it's not old but it can't always handle games as well as other computers would. The cartoony graphics helped a bit with reducing lag and even playing at low settings didn't bother me that much.

The next thing I liked would have to be the Class system. Now let this be said I want a class, not like Fallen Earth. I was a druid as I enjoy healing in almost all of the MMO's and I felt the game really was interesting as there was 4 healing classes, and several more DPS which helped balance out gear a little. I liked the difference in healing styles whether it be the HoTing of the Druid, the Spamming of the Paladin (Okay that seemed a little boring), the AoE healing of the Shaman, or the classic Priest. To me it was what gave me something enjoyable, being able to be different from others. So with that being said I would like a game with respectable healing classes with different styles.

Lastly what I liked was PvP, to a point. I liked the straegizing that they had in Arena's, Destromath's battle group had some thing where a guy organized AV and had a 99% win rate which was amazing, and so much more. But that's where it stops. I HATE Resilence so much and I felt it kinda ruined the game (I'm not here to debate this so please don't try) I also hated the overpowering of classes (I'm looking at you Disc Priests). With that being said I want a game that's PvP has a somewhat balanced class system (I know it's not completely possible but I would like it to be close to balanced). Battlegrounds were fun to me but soon they felt too grindy and a bore to do. I haven't played any other MMO too seriously so I don't know how other PvP works but I would enjoy anything NOT grindy.

Now let me say what I didn't like about WoW (Get ready). I disliked the weekly raid grind completely. IMO ICC Ruined the game because no one else did any other raid and I hated getting on 2 or 3 times a week for the same content. I cannot stand grinding as I'm sure some of you feel the same way. BC I felt was more fun seeing as people run the heroics, several different raids, and was simply fun for me. So if a game has grinding be it for quests or end game please don't suggest it unless you can give it a solid backing.

That seems to be it for what I'm looking for, keep it in mind that I do not mind paying a subscription or if it's Sci-Fi/Fantasy/Whatever (Hell I'm looking into SW:TOR). Thank you for your time~!