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Castillle
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I just broke up with my girlfriend because she didnt want me being friends with a girl o.o
Umm...Yah! It was getting tiresome because we were having fun then I ask for permission to go shopping with the girl and umm...She kept ignoring me and idk...it was late, I was dead tired and umm....I said we should just be friends o.o
So yah! I care about her a lot and all but it really felt like it was asking too much of me and I could never understand why she would get mad at me asking if I could go shopping with another girl... I asked her to trust me and that nothing will happen but she was really really angry n stuff and said that she wont trust me...>.<</p>
Anyways...I saided we should just be friends instead of being together (we were online partners btw) umm... Yah!
Now Im all sad and mopey and idk what Im supposed to do o.o
PS: Feel free to flame or whatever but if anyone can help me figureout what Im supposed to do pls tell 
so one said play games and another said drink! I can legally get alcohol so im gna drink and play! Anyone know of any fun games while i get drunk? And does anyone know any good mixes with tequila?
Edit 2 :
Due to all the misunderstandings...
I am a male who is on the process of becoming female.
AKA Preop transexual
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Asking for permission? tch tch tch.... there's your first problem. My advice would be to grow some balls and just tell her what your doing so it doesn't seem so sketchy and see what she does after it's said and done, instead of straight up dumping her because she's jealous. If she dumps you then whatever, she wasn't worth it anyway. Trust is basically the foundation of a relationship, without it it's just steady stream of torture.
In my opinion, you fucked it up. You showed that you will just end a relationship for little reason. Now, you can either lose all dignity and try and get her back, or turn away, never look back and find someone you truly want to be with.
Yeah, it's not ok for a guy to hang out with another girl when he's a relationship. Being friends is fine, hanging out is not. Same thing for a girl in a relationship hanging out with a guy. I'm married and I'll be damned if my wife goes and hangs out with other guys, besides the ones who work at her horse stables, which are all in their late 40's early 50's.
Unless he's gay and he doesn't swing that way. Then, it's probably ok.
The fact that you think it's ok shows a pretty low level of maturity.
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Maybe a lame idea, but video games always help me through times, try picking up a new game you might be interested in, or an old one you never got around to trying.
Order some pizza while your at it
1. Internet relationships don't work, especially if you live a long way apart.
2. Don't go running off with another girl. How would you feel if she ran off with another guy? Yeah, not so good.
3. Find other means to see if your honey has insecurities. (like watching women on t.v. or something to see if she gets jealous) And if she does have insecurities then have a thought out conversation with her on why she feels that way and what you two as a couple can do going forward with your relationship.
4. If she continues to show insecurities after awhile, most noteably through casual interaction (such as paying a clerk and saying thank you), then it's time to let her go.
Though remember, there will *always* be jealousy in any situation that you intereact with another female if it's more than just casual. It's human nature.
Because later on down the line when you end up working at a job where you intereact with women daily, then those huge insecurity problems will come back to haunt you. You don't want to be with someone that's so jealous that you can't so much as toss a glance at someone that's the opposite sex. That's borderline crazy my friend. And believe me, there are lots of women out there that are like this.
and well... I broke up because i was getting tired of the scholdings and being way too paranoid that whatever im doing upsets her >_< and umm... If she were to go shopping wif another guy id tell her to have fun n tel me stories about it when she gets back >_ id be jealous a lil but i wont make her feel super bad about it n ignore her for 3 days n stuff T_T
oh and by femenine i mean like borderline crossdressing like those visual kei bands or those really femenine clothes kpop stars wear sometimes o.o so yah... What would you say if your guy friend says 'come with me to go shopping cuz i wanna get stuff from the girls section' and youre both guys? Mhhmm awkwaaarddd~
Edit : idk what games i wanna play lol... I have 3 month sub of dcuo and global agenda but i find them depressing cuz thats what i played wif the girlfriend T_T I seriously dont knoe why she cpuldnt just trust me!!! Ugh -.-
its really annoying that i dun even do nything bad n stuff but shes like giving me the silent treatment -.- she stressed me so bad last week i had to miss 2 days of classes T_T and i even asked for her permission so that if shes uncomfortable she can tell me but nuuu she gets real real angry at me
T_T oh and umm.. Im kinsof in a transition to be a girl if that changes stuff..
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Your profile says you're 24. You act like you're maybe 13. Which one is it?
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You're 21 and you act like you're 13...
i dunno what to make of the OP. i think he/she/it/whatever is yanking the cranks of people who take their topics seriously. really, who in the fuck comes to videogame forum to ask for relationship advice?
i'm with that one person and shoe about their comment on the OP being 21 who acts like they're 13. there is no fucking way the OP is as old as he/she/whatever says.
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Agreed! i thought its only for games, but in your dileama i always go for my good friend alcohol. lol kidding aside just find another there so many out there you'll find yours.
Agreed! i thought its only for games, but in your dileama i always go for my good friend alcohol. lol kidding aside just find another there so many out there you'll find yours.
Ok alcohol isnt a bad idea at all... Im going to get some tequila on the way to class tomorroq if it isnt raining much!! Ummm... Do you guys know any good Mixes for it? Or should i just drink it straight up? LOL srsly though i feel really heavy n disappointed with my girlfriend >_<
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Here is an example, you’re eating your favorite food then you are in the last bite of it then your stomach wants to throw up everything you’ve eaten. Would you like to eat that food you’ve puke? Nope right. In relationship you don’t need to have a second chance because it’s like your trash that need to throw it away it to the trash can. Don’t waste your time in past. Try for look for another one then you will see your happiness.. hahaha
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To wash away your heartbreak, follow these 10 easy steps.
Go to bank
Withdraw $200 - $150 in $1 bills, $30 in $5 bills and one $20 bill
Go to a strip club
Use the $1 bills for for tipping the strippers, use the $20 for a lap dance and the $5 bills for buying beers (tip included).
Take home a stripper
Record hot, dirty sex
Kick out stripper
Invite ex-girlfriend over
Turn on sex tape
Simply say - "No permission needed, bitch. Get the fuck out."
Heartbreak cured.
The part in red is your problem then.
You need to figure out that part first and then go from there.
You might can try to talk to other trans to seek guidance....
*shudders*
Well, I missed that part. I guess my advice above is kind of bunk then.
This is a rather confusing conundrum.
She doesn't want you going out with other girls because she thinks you'll cheat on her. You are transitioning to being a woman. Your girlfri...fuck it, I don't care.
I dont like going to strip clubs! I went there once and the girl giving me a lapdance was so bad I had to give her a lapdance and teach her how to -_- srsly!
ill stick to buying tequila and playing a game drunk... Anyone know any fun games to play while drunk?
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You are supposed to get in touch with that women who still does want to hang out with you.
And then fall in love, get married, make babies.
Chop chop.
You aren't getting younger and better looking.
The best game to play drunk is "convince the barmaid I am in love with her".
hehe.. do COKE. the good quality. hehehe so you will be cured and be happy all the way
i dont really drink carbonated drinks because the fizzle is annoying in the mouth n makes me tear up a lil...
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It might be annoying in the mouth...but anally...that fizzle... Aaah.
Shake the bottle up first.
what if she wanna go out shopping with a guy? you'll be ok with that?
Yes o.o Wait didnt I say this in one of my previous posts?
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Good games while is heroes of newerh, OT the best cure is find another one so you can move on easily simple as that.