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  • JumpedUp2712JumpedUp2712 Member Posts: 2

    Yeah strange Avatar for a 21 year old guy to have too - a fluffy wuffy bunny!

  • gebon524gebon524 Member Posts: 11

    i never really had a girl that came from online games or something like that. but it bothers me to ask, did you really like her in the first place? i mean why is it so easy for you to say to her that you guys should be just friend? what is girlfriend to you anyways.

  • XsnakeyXsnakey Member Posts: 30

    yeah..21 years old ? doubt it

  • CastillleCastillle Member UncommonPosts: 2,679
    It wasnt easy for me but she kept giving me the silent treatment for Over a week because i walked with a friend to the station when i was going home from class (i didnt know it was that bad >_


    srsly... >_< they were going "BUT YOURE A GUY AND ITS WRONG" and im just like -.- srsly? Thats the worst thing they could ever ever say to hurt my feelings -.- and they said it over and over again

    anyways were juzt friends now n still hang out a bit ^_^




    and if you guys missed it, im transitioning to be a girl atm -.-

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  • SyncrosonixSyncrosonix Member Posts: 341

    Originally posted by Samyia

    hehe.. do COKE. the good quality. hehehe so you will be cured and be happy all the way

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  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

    Alright so I just read this and I'm thinking to myself. If the girl don't trust you, the relationship isn't going to work out. If my girl knew I wanted to chill with another girl and it was nothing, I would be sure to let her meet the chick. Then again if I'm in a relationship I sure wouldn't go chillin with another girl anyway.  Your relationship is now over because a girl wanted to go shopping with you. Not sure where the next step would lead, but you got to fix situations like that.

    It's common sence your girl will be mad if your hanging out with another girl. I'm sure you would be the same way if she was with another guy...and trust me if I was that guy and your girl is fine, I mean I set boundries, but she gonna be wanting pretty riki. :P

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  • CastillleCastillle Member UncommonPosts: 2,679

    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

    Alright so I just read this and I'm thinking to myself. If the girl don't trust you, the relationship isn't going to work out. If my girl knew I wanted to chill with another girl and it was nothing, I would be sure to let her meet the chick. Then again if I'm in a relationship I sure wouldn't go chillin with another girl anyway.  Your relationship is now over because a girl wanted to go shopping with you. Not sure where the next step would lead, but you got to fix situations like that.

    It's common sence your girl will be mad if your hanging out with another girl. I'm sure you would be the same way if she was with another guy...and trust me if I was that guy and your girl is fine, I mean I set boundries, but she gonna be wanting pretty riki. :P

    Now now please be honest. 

     

    If you were shopping in the womens section for your clothes, wouldnt you rather have a girl with you to help than going in alone and asking some random person there 'Does that tube top look okay?' ?

     

    I think you missed the point where Im becoming a girl o.o Seriously o.o if you were becoming a girl, wouldnt you want help from...you know...A girl?  Or a gay guy since they tend to know a lot!  But then again you know...Itd be the same thing o.O  Id rather hang out with a girl than a gay guy srsly o.o

     

    Now Ill say it again...I was going shopping with a girl..To buy girly clothes...For me! And probably make up too o.o For me!

    Do you understand? o.o  Now riki...What would you say if one of your guy friends ask you to go with him to the womens section of clothes shops to find a girly dress top then stop over by the make up department and help him find proper make up and to teach him to use it o.o

     

    Also if shes gona be wanting pretty riki then Im out and we can be friends and she can have him o.O  Itll be annoying for a bit but Ill get over it o.O

     

    And you said its over because of shopping? Its over because of her reaction to me asking for her permission o.O If it was a problem couldnt she have just said 'Im not comfortable with that so please dont' but nooooooo I was pretty much scolded and yelled at then I kept getting the 'YOURE A GUY AND YOURE NOT SUPPOSED TO HANG OUT WITH GIRLS' line well ffs Im already growing bewbies what more do you want -.- Id chop off my  pen0r but nooo I need it for a vagina o.Osrsly o.O srsly O.o

     

    Now can we follow the updated post and put up games and tequilla mixes -.- this is starting to get annoying

     

    Your comparison is wrong too...In your case, it should be that you arent allowed to be shopping with your guy friends (i dun know what guy friends do so I have no idea if they shop together or w/e) o.O

     

    Ugh I should update the OP so people get the idea

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  • DekronDekron Member UncommonPosts: 7,359

    Originally posted by Castillle

    I think you missed the point where Im becoming a girl o.o Seriously o.o if you were becoming a girl, wouldnt you want help from...you know...A girl?  Or a gay guy since they tend to know a lot!

    I'm not meaning this to sound harsh, but you are transforming yourself from male to female. Neither a woman, nor a gay guy, is going to understand that.

    On a side question, is a gay guy still gay if he's involved in a sexual encounter with a post-op trans? Boggles the mind.

    Decaf coffee is still coffee even though it's missing the caffeine.

    Herp, derp. Yeah.

  • JumpedUp2712JumpedUp2712 Member Posts: 2

    Wow Castille, you certainly caused a stir didn't you.

  • SyncrosonixSyncrosonix Member Posts: 341

    Originally posted by Castillle

    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

    Alright so I just read this and I'm thinking to myself. If the girl don't trust you, the relationship isn't going to work out. If my girl knew I wanted to chill with another girl and it was nothing, I would be sure to let her meet the chick. Then again if I'm in a relationship I sure wouldn't go chillin with another girl anyway.  Your relationship is now over because a girl wanted to go shopping with you. Not sure where the next step would lead, but you got to fix situations like that.

    It's common sence your girl will be mad if your hanging out with another girl. I'm sure you would be the same way if she was with another guy...and trust me if I was that guy and your girl is fine, I mean I set boundries, but she gonna be wanting pretty riki. :P

    Now now please be honest. 

     

    If you were shopping in the womens section for your clothes, wouldnt you rather have a girl with you to help than going in alone and asking some random person there 'Does that tube top look okay?' ?

     

    I think you missed the point where Im becoming a girl o.o Seriously o.o if you were becoming a girl, wouldnt you want help from...you know...A girl?  Or a gay guy since they tend to know a lot!  But then again you know...Itd be the same thing o.O  Id rather hang out with a girl than a gay guy srsly o.o

     

    Now Ill say it again...I was going shopping with a girl..To buy girly clothes...For me! And probably make up too o.o For me!

    Do you understand? o.o  Now riki...What would you say if one of your guy friends ask you to go with him to the womens section of clothes shops to find a girly dress top then stop over by the make up department and help him find proper make up and to teach him to use it o.o

     

    Also if shes gona be wanting pretty riki then Im out and we can be friends and she can have him o.O  Itll be annoying for a bit but Ill get over it o.O

     

    And you said its over because of shopping? Its over because of her reaction to me asking for her permission o.O If it was a problem couldnt she have just said 'Im not comfortable with that so please dont' but nooooooo I was pretty much scolded and yelled at then I kept getting the 'YOURE A GUY AND YOURE NOT SUPPOSED TO HANG OUT WITH GIRLS' line well ffs Im already growing bewbies what more do you want -.- Id chop off my  pen0r but nooo I need it for a vagina o.Osrsly o.O srsly O.o

     

    Now can we follow the updated post and put up games and tequilla mixes -.- this is starting to get annoying

     

    Your comparison is wrong too...In your case, it should be that you arent allowed to be shopping with your guy friends (i dun know what guy friends do so I have no idea if they shop together or w/e) o.O

     

    Ugh I should update the OP so people get the idea

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  • CastillleCastillle Member UncommonPosts: 2,679

    Originally posted by Syncrosonix

    Originally posted by Castillle


    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

    Alright so I just read this and I'm thinking to myself. If the girl don't trust you, the relationship isn't going to work out. If my girl knew I wanted to chill with another girl and it was nothing, I would be sure to let her meet the chick. Then again if I'm in a relationship I sure wouldn't go chillin with another girl anyway.  Your relationship is now over because a girl wanted to go shopping with you. Not sure where the next step would lead, but you got to fix situations like that.

    It's common sence your girl will be mad if your hanging out with another girl. I'm sure you would be the same way if she was with another guy...and trust me if I was that guy and your girl is fine, I mean I set boundries, but she gonna be wanting pretty riki. :P

    Now now please be honest. 

     

    If you were shopping in the womens section for your clothes, wouldnt you rather have a girl with you to help than going in alone and asking some random person there 'Does that tube top look okay?' ?

     

    I think you missed the point where Im becoming a girl o.o Seriously o.o if you were becoming a girl, wouldnt you want help from...you know...A girl?  Or a gay guy since they tend to know a lot!  But then again you know...Itd be the same thing o.O  Id rather hang out with a girl than a gay guy srsly o.o

     

    Now Ill say it again...I was going shopping with a girl..To buy girly clothes...For me! And probably make up too o.o For me!

    Do you understand? o.o  Now riki...What would you say if one of your guy friends ask you to go with him to the womens section of clothes shops to find a girly dress top then stop over by the make up department and help him find proper make up and to teach him to use it o.o

     

    Also if shes gona be wanting pretty riki then Im out and we can be friends and she can have him o.O  Itll be annoying for a bit but Ill get over it o.O

     

    And you said its over because of shopping? Its over because of her reaction to me asking for her permission o.O If it was a problem couldnt she have just said 'Im not comfortable with that so please dont' but nooooooo I was pretty much scolded and yelled at then I kept getting the 'YOURE A GUY AND YOURE NOT SUPPOSED TO HANG OUT WITH GIRLS' line well ffs Im already growing bewbies what more do you want -.- Id chop off my  pen0r but nooo I need it for a vagina o.Osrsly o.O srsly O.o

     

    Now can we follow the updated post and put up games and tequilla mixes -.- this is starting to get annoying

     

    Your comparison is wrong too...In your case, it should be that you arent allowed to be shopping with your guy friends (i dun know what guy friends do so I have no idea if they shop together or w/e) o.O

     

    Ugh I should update the OP so people get the idea

    Lmao even homer facepamed

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  • AtrusVAtrusV Member UncommonPosts: 305

    Originally posted by CastillleEdit 2 :

    Due to all the misunderstandings...

    I am a male who is on the process of becoming female.

    AKA tranny/shemale/w.e

    I was reading this topic but sudenly I read something like this in your last post and when I came back to the original post I found this. Seriously, why do you do it? Just because a girl broke up with you? If that's the case I think that you are not confronting the problem in a mature way. However, if you feel better being a girl..... well, I can't say anything, good luck with your choices.

     

    Tip: If you are becoming a girl, I think you need a good pair of boobs (seriously, non-flat girls have better luck in life)

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  • CastillleCastillle Member UncommonPosts: 2,679
    Originally posted by AtrusV


    Originally posted by CastillleEdit 2 :
    Due to all the misunderstandings...
    I am a male who is on the process of becoming female.
    AKA tranny/shemale/w.e

    I was reading this topic but sudenly I read something like this in your last post and when I came back to the original post I found this. Seriously, why do you do it? Just because a girl broke up with you? If that's the case I think that you are not confronting the problem in a mature way. However, if you feel better being a girl..... well, I can't say anything, good luck with your choices.

     

    Tip: If you are becoming a girl, I think you need a good pair of boobs (seriously, non-flat girls have better luck in life)

     



    ive always wanted to be a girl o.o even my gf knew that i was transitioning o.o im sure she knew that going against that is the quickest way to get me to break up >_<




    on the plus note im going shopping for makeup on wednesday!! (^_^)/ yayy

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  • AtrusVAtrusV Member UncommonPosts: 305

    In theory, I'm okay with gays, lesbians (well, every guy is okay with them XD) and trans, but.... it's better if I don't know what they do. I mean, if they don't do it in front of me. Maybe I'm a bit homophobic but I don't mind if they do it in their home



    Once I had a group of friends, one of them was gay, I suspected it but I didn't mind because I never saw him kissing another guy. Until one day the group and I went out at saturday night, to dinner, to drink and we ended in a gay pub. In short, I didn't was very confortable in that enviroment, I was lucky that there were two girls in my group and I had someone to chat. Anyway, they don't call me to go out. I think it's better that way.

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  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384

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    JESUS H CHRIST

    This thread just made me die a little inside.

     

    OP,

    You really do not sound like a 24 or 21 year old. And you certainly do not act like a transgender girl. Transgender girls don't slap "I'm a tranny and shemale" in their post....omg...i could go on and on.

    But Captain Picard speaks for itself.

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

  • CastillleCastillle Member UncommonPosts: 2,679
    Originally posted by Enigma

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    JESUS H CHRIST
    This thread just made me die a little inside.
     
    OP,
    You really do not sound like a 24 or 21 year old. And you certainly do not act like a transgender girl. Transgender girls don't slap "I'm a tranny and shemale" in their post....omg...i could go on and on.
    But Captain Picard speaks for itself.

     

    well sooorryy i was just getting annoyed at everyone already -.- my girlfriend knew i was starting to transition soon -.- yet when i just wanted to go shopping with a girl who can pick out stuff for me she goes ballistic on me and start calling me things like ur a guy guys shouldnt do that and when i tried explaining myself to her she basically slapped me in te face by saying repeatedly with her friend well ur not a girl yet so who cares then what was i sposed to do -.- i thought shes been supportive of me
    For almost 2 years but then now she does some crap like that -.- and all ive been asking for was some stupid game to play while drinking it all away for a bit but everyone kept asking more n it was getting annoying geez -.-
    I dont even know whats wrong with shemale or tranny or w/e but fine i took it out -.- prolly some slang or whichever -.-
    Meh forget it i give up -.-

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  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384

    Originally posted by Castillle

     
    well sooorryy i was just getting annoyed at everyone already -.- my girlfriend knew i was starting to transition soon -.- yet when i just wanted to go shopping with a girl who can pick out stuff for me she goes ballistic on me and start calling me things like ur a guy guys shouldnt do that and when i tried explaining myself to her she basically slapped me in te face by saying repeatedly with her friend well ur not a girl yet so who cares then what was i sposed to do -.- i thought shes been supportive of me For almost 2 years but then now she does some crap like that -.- and all ive been asking for was some stupid game to play while drinking it all away for a bit but everyone kept asking more n it was getting annoying geez -.- I dont even know whats wrong with shemale or tranny or w/e but fine i took it out -.- prolly some slang or whichever -.- Meh forget it i give up -.-

     When you get annoyed at someone, you don't put yourself down....that's like when someone is getting annoyed at a gay guy, he puts "I'm a fag" in his post. It only gives them gasoline to their fire.

    1. If she starts arguing with you that you are a guy ad you shoulnd't be doing that, then trust me, you going out shopping with a girl isn't what broke you two up. It's the fact that she wants to date a man. It has nothing to do with you going to a mall with another girl.

    2. I don't think she's been supportive of you if she said you are a guy and you shouldn't be doing it.

    3. You really don't need to go shopping with a girl to buy girl's clothes. Just go and buy them on your own. You don't need to buy girl's clothes with a girl being there. You look at today's fashions and buy whatever you like plus what is sensible to what is considered in good taste. Just look at other girls in your area and see what's up.

    4. If you are transgender and you do not find what is wrong with the word tranny or shemale, then i seriously question your transgender status. The only transgender people who call themselves tranny or shemale are porn stars which brings mw to the fifth point...'

    5. Have you even started to see a therapist about this? That is usually the first step to transitioning into being a girl. When you talk to a therapist, then you will see how destructive the word tranny and shemale really is. Plus therapy is essential to transitioning. I would save your money for a therapist before spending money on makeup and clothes.

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

  • SyncrosonixSyncrosonix Member Posts: 341

    the OP kind of reminds me of shaye saint john. the only difference is shaye makes me laugh. i'm gonna do that HAND THING, make stumpwater salad, and bake funfetti cake.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUxjG4VBTag

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  • AtrusVAtrusV Member UncommonPosts: 305

    Anyway, if you are becoming a girl, the relationship as it was was over (was was? Is it said like that?)

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  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384

    Originally posted by AtrusV

    Anyway, if you are becoming a girl, the relationship as it was was over (was was? Is it said like that?)

     well, if the girlfriend wants a guy it is.

    If the op wants a girlfriend, then the op needs to transition first because she wont get a straightgirl because the straight girl will think she's  a he and she wont get a lesbian because this girl will still see a guy.

    Transitioning first is a must but this whole thread is suspicious anyways

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

  • CastillleCastillle Member UncommonPosts: 2,679
    She knew i wanted to be a girl from the beginning ish >_<



    i see a therapist once a month n i was told to be more open about it irl which is why i wanted to go shopping with a girl so that i can choose something that isnt as uncomfortable or scary for me to wear -.- and i just missed my stop at the train.. Faill


    and the only girl clothes i have are crossplay stuff which would be too awkward to wear when going to class n stuff >_<

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  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384

    well, look at what other girls are wearing and shop accordingly. For example, you wont find girls walking around in Sailor Moon outfits.

    I think its good to have another girl to be with you for emotional support, but you need to find out your own style on your own. As I mentioned, look at what girls your age is wearing and then shop accordingly.

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

  • ErikerEriker Member Posts: 8

    guess you dont like her at all

  • CastillleCastillle Member UncommonPosts: 2,679

    Originally posted by Enigma

    well, look at what other girls are wearing and shop accordingly. For example, you wont find girls walking around in Sailor Moon outfits.

    I think its good to have another girl to be with you for emotional support, but you need to find out your own style on your own. As I mentioned, look at what girls your age is wearing and then shop accordingly.

    Im new to USA >.<  I already know what kind of stuff I want mostly but I just need proper opinions on the outfits >.<  And like where to get them n stuff >.<  Which is also why I dont wear my cosplay clothes o.o

     

    Im also very ~very~ picky >.<  Which is why I need her help picking stuff out

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  • DarKnight19DarKnight19 Member Posts: 31

    Being friends is ok, going out shopping is Not ok

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