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Life or women?

VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239

hehe recently my girlfriend called and was really pissed at me.

she knows ive been avoiding her because i have a blackeye, a sprained ankles, 2 broken ribs, and one or two odd injuries.

yes i did get my ass kicked, however the fight was more or less even.

she said this life style i have of violence, revenge, "poisons"( i think she means booze), and most of all my "bunch of stupid criminal friends.

so i think i have a choice.

she did say if i wanted to clean up she would help me get a job where "i cant get a bottle of jack for 12 dollars",

and i know she really cares about me otherwise she wouldnt have staid through all my stupid stunts for 9 months.

however finding new friends, not fighting, not drinking would mean i would have basically a whole lifestyle change.

sigh i dont know what to do and since this account is under a false name and every info except  the city i figured it would be fine.

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  • LordMagnusLordMagnus Member CommonPosts: 1,322

    Well, ask yourself this:

    Why would you want to hang out with a bunch of trouble makers? Why would you want to go around getting into fights and getting into trouble?

    IMO, your girlfriend is doing the right thing in telling you to get away from it all. You should listen to her.

  • SavilzSavilz Member UncommonPosts: 53

      Or try this line...

     

      Friends come and go Family will always be there for you...  sound like she really care about you man... think it over ... what do you see yourself doing in about 5 years or so from now ?  If you want to one day have a family of your own the sooner you settle down the better it is.

      Beside that life style sounds like it hurt alot :P  I would go with the gentle touch of a woman over the fighting any day.

  • bhugbhug Member UncommonPosts: 944

    05.12.01

    ... there is no life w/o women...
    They make it their life's mission to remake men in their fabricated idealized self serving image!
    And when that does not work out sue for divorce and alamony (over 65% marriages end in divorce.)

    w/o women you are in control of your life and moreso solely responsible for it's direction.

    but, since most all modern humans are of weak mind no backbone and seriously egotistical, having a lifelong help mate certainly would make your future easier.

    In your case your 'gf' certainly has made up her mind how you should live your life! And has no hesitation in placing herself as the pie to tempt you to fall sway to her dominating influence; if you are still a child, mayby you DO still need a mother, but if you are an adult and a 'man' then you should know how you want to live your life... taking on the obligations of a family (yes chicks come with lotsa obligations and strings attached) or making your own way in a life being satisfied with the things you do because they are what you want to do instead of what someone else wants done so they do not have to do them.

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  • eirekeirek Member Posts: 110



    Originally posted by bhug

    In your case your 'gf' certainly has made up her mind how you should live your life! And has no hesitation in placing herself as the pie to tempt you to fall sway to her dominating influence; if you are still a child, mayby you DO still need a mother, but if you are an adult and a 'man' then you should know how you want to live your life... taking on the obligations of a family (yes chicks come with lotsa obligations and strings attached) or making your own way in a life being satisfied with the things you do because they are what you want to do instead of what someone else wants done so they do not have to do them.



    I think her point in all of this is to help him and to get something she wants.  I Need this, if you don't want to be this then I'll leave.  Nothing wrong with that.  She doesn't want a drunk/cripple/druggie in her life and is telling him as it is(No offense to you of course image lol)
  • mister_GuSmister_GuS Member Posts: 811

    DID U RECORD THE FIGHT!?!?!?!??!?!

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  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239

    no because i was jumped and normally its my rule not to record criminal activities or purposes of not incriminating myself........

    but the thing is i met my gf while i was fighting i know this sounds stupid but i remember this guy owed me 200 dollars, and when i finally found him i found him harassing my gf(he was drunk), so i scared the hell out of him and whispered in his ear "go pay the 200 you owe me to my friend, or ill release the photos of you doing drugs to your family"

    she apparently was on her way back from a volunteer work so i walked her back to her car and she asked for my number.

    so i met her because of my criminality.

    but it did get out of hand after that.

    i do think i need to stop just doing it all at once would be terrible hard.

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  • doobsterdoobster Member Posts: 736

    How serious could it be?  Serious enough to change who you are for?  I dont think I'd change who i was for my soul mate.  Even though she is right in trying to help you get cleaned up.

  • cloudoffirecloudoffire Member Posts: 271

    Personaly i dont think tis just about your girlfriend its for yourself too i mean do you really like feeling beat up and guilty for doing things?

    Btw hows that quiting smokeing going?

    -Cloudoffire-

  • FlemFlem Member UncommonPosts: 2,870
    Forget about changing for anyone, if your gonna change do it for yourself before u wind up with a bullet in your skull or a knife in your back.  It sounds to me like your heading down a dangerous future path if you continue the way you are going.
  • mister_GuSmister_GuS Member Posts: 811


    Originally posted by Vergeltung
    no because i was jumped and normally its my rule not to record criminal activities or purposes of not incriminating myself........
    but the thing is i met my gf while i was fighting i know this sounds stupid but i remember this guy owed me 200 dollars, and when i finally found him i found him harassing my gf(he was drunk), so i scared the hell out of him and whispered in his ear "go pay the 200 you owe me to my friend, or ill release the photos of you doing drugs to your family"
    she apparently was on her way back from a volunteer work so i walked her back to her car and she asked for my number.
    so i met her because of my criminality.
    but it did get out of hand after that.
    i do think i need to stop just doing it all at once would be terrible hard.


    no im talking about that fight in ur "war at school" posts

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  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239

    we ended up commiting a 2nd degree felony against property and did some "other things"

    so we kind of destroyed the footage in case a real investigation got started........

    now there is no proof of anything anywhere

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  • AldaronAldaron Member Posts: 1,048

    Nice...Admitting to you and your friends being a bunch of senseless reprobatory hoods.image

    Now if you like being the scum of society, ignore everything your girlfriend said to you. Or if you'd like to be someone people associated with you could be proud of, and even look upto, take her nugget of wisdom and shove it inside the wouldbe brains of yours.

    *sigh* This country will never survive the new generation...

    "Fear not death; for the sooner we die, the longer shall we be immortal."

  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239

    i really dont know why but that post struck me as funny.......

    but ill have you know it is morals, decency, and overall conscience that i lack.

    not intellegence i have a 3.7 GPA and am graduating a year early and going to college one year early.

    but ya i am gonna take her up on that offer quit my job that i agree is bad for me, and stop being a dumbass after 2 close close encounters in the past 2 weeks.

    i know i need to change my ways ive already had my fair share of near death experiences.

     

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  • fizzle32fizzle32 Member Posts: 171

    If you are gonna change, change for yourself not for her.

    Bros before hoes.

  • saydursaydur Member UncommonPosts: 185

    You want to clean up? Go for it man. If you're tired of this kind of lifestyle, or just don't want to worry about where it'll land you in five years, she's just giving you a helping hand out of it.

    As most of these guys have said though, don't do it for her. You'll come to resent that. If you want to do it for you, she's just there to make it that much easier. Plus, you're bound to get a lot of happy grateful sex, which makes things all that much better.

  • gargantroogargantroo Member Posts: 1,477


    Originally posted by Aldaron
    *sigh* This country will never survive the new generation...
    Actually, the crime rate has gone down, use of heavier drugs amongst teens has been lowered... I'd say that since the 80s and 90s this generation has cleaned up.
    Vergeltung isnt the representative of our generation.


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  • 8hammer88hammer8 Member Posts: 1,812


    Originally posted by Vergeltung
    hehe recently my girlfriend called and was really pissed at me.
    she knows ive been avoiding her because i have a blackeye, a sprained ankles, 2 broken ribs, and one or two odd injuries.
    yes i did get my ass kicked, however the fight was more or less even.
    she said this life style i have of violence, revenge, "poisons"( i think she means booze), and most of all my "bunch of stupid criminal friends.
    so i think i have a choice.
    she did say if i wanted to clean up she would help me get a job where "i cant get a bottle of jack for 12 dollars",
    and i know she really cares about me otherwise she wouldnt have staid through all my stupid stunts for 9 months.
    however finding new friends, not fighting, not drinking would mean i would have basically a whole lifestyle change.
    sigh i dont know what to do and since this account is under a false name and every info except the city i figured it would be fine.


    You know....just the fact that she gave you the option of staying with her after all the *stuff* you have admitted to pulling....I think says a lot how she feels for you. A lot of people after only nine months would have dropped you like a bad habit (ironically enough). From how you have stated things, it sounds like she has given you options and solutions, not just a blanket ultimatum saying "clean up."

    I agree with everyone who says you have to change because you want to and not just because of her (maybe not in the Bro's befor Ho's type of way), but it is a hell of a lot easier if you have someone there for you when you *stuff* does hit the fan. Even if she is just someone you can vent with, then she is helping you. The more crap you keep inside, the worst off things will get (I know this from personal experience).

    Your buddies, rightfully, will not want to lose you...sounds like you have all had eachothers backs in one way or another. They will try to convince you not to change....just like that smoker that innocently enough offers you a cigarette not knowing you just quit. If college is a goal of yours...make sure you set your eyes and actions in that direction. Set small attainable goals, envolve your girl in them if you so choose...hold yourself accountable.

    I hope you seriously are heading in the direction you want bro... you are the only one that knows. I wish you all the luck ::::28::

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  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

    Yo man the woman really dosent matter, If you did straighen up your life, you did it. Plain and simple and you can use all your maddness on self defence.

    Straighten up man your others are going to turn your back on you in the future.

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  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239



    Originally posted by gargantroo




    Originally posted by Aldaron
    *sigh* This country will never survive the new generation...

    Actually, the crime rate has gone down, use of heavier drugs amongst teens has been lowered... I'd say that since the 80s and 90s this generation has cleaned up.
    Vergeltung isnt the representative of our generation.


    i feel like im being used as am example of the worst parts of our generation in this paragraph......

    when indeed i dont just to random vandalism and "stuff" i actually work to change the world to my will even though it may not always be what would be considered moral or right. It is a change most of my generation is ready to sit back and do nothing and watch other people control their life i am not like that.

    and anyways back on topic i told her im gonna quit my job and change, actually most my reason for changing is probably because its getting harder and harder to compete, top myself, and be original with all these new punks around. not only that but i dont want to cross over the lines of risking innocents, causing any harm to innocents property, and most importantly not going too far.

    so it has become hard to do what i do and i dont want to become something awful that is why i want to change but i know she can help me.

    i have gone cold turkey a week for her but this is do for me, however i will involve her.

    but not i have to quit my job surprisingly she had another one lined up for me with better pay is what i found out.

    but the trick is not getting with the friends cus i know theyll get me into trouble.

    i dont know how this will work.....

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  • modjoe86modjoe86 Member UncommonPosts: 4,050

    Illegal activities that change the world to your will don't justify those activities. Using that logic, if I don't like someone, I should burn their house down.

    It sounds to me liek you're proud of the stuff you do. You may deny it, but if you weren't proud of your injuries in some way you wouldn't have listed them needlessly at the beginning of your original post.

    My advice to you is to unskew your vision of what's right and wrong. Vandalism is wrong, regardless of what flawed logic you use to justify your stupidity.

    My other bit of advice is to get some friends who aren't low-lifes. I ran with that kind of group when I was a teenager, but then I realized they didn't give a damn about succeeding in life. They are all either drug addicts or in prison now.

    We have a legal system in place to prevent people from "controlling" our lives...actually I really have no idea what you mean by other people controlling our lives...want to explain what that means?

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  • RufiusRufius Member Posts: 2,031

    Yet again a cry for special moral attention. I'm getting a touch bored of these threads. *Avoids this thread any further*

    Professor Hubert Farnsworth - That question is less stupid but, you asked it in a profoundly stupid way.

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