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  • Dis_OrdurDis_Ordur Member Posts: 1,501
    Verg, what are these "markers" you refer to?

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  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239



    Originally posted by Dis_Ordur
    Verg, what are these "markers" you refer to?



    Favors owed for various things and dependent on the marker they can be serious. they are rarely exchanged for cash and most often exchanged for help in a dire situation.

    for example if i bail someone out of jail thats a major marker and they return the favor when i need it.

    but if they just help me fix a flat or give me gas then its a minor marker not worth as much.

    its more or less an honor system.

    but i have 49 minor markers i can call, and 13 major ones.

    i dont use them at all actually i just sort of accumulate them.

    because i dedicate most my time helping the helpless.

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  • TanjinTanjin Member Posts: 87

    I'm sorry but you say helping the helpless.. which sounds selfless.. and dont get me wrong im not saying your not a great guy.. but the whole idea of helping people and being genuine about it you dont even consider them as markers.. its just helping someone out and you should forget about the markers.. the fact you know of every marker as you say.. means you count on them at some time in your life. just do the deed and dont expect anything in return if you do get something in return great. but dont count on it, if it is a selfless act. if your helping someone out because they say they will give you something in return its a job not a selfless act.

    Other then that its great you want to help this girl but consider sometimes helping creates more problems not just for them but for you.. maybe shes better off with no help from the guy... sounds to me the guy is a loser and needs help in other areas.. if you want to help.. get the guy some help so he isnt a druggie and around the child growing up as a druggie.. if you really want to help. thats going to help more then having them still be a druggie and once in awhile giving some money to her when he isnt spending money on drugs.

    sometimes you have to take your lesson learned and walk away. if the guy doesnt want help.. walk away.. dont force him to help it will make things worse. at that point dont waste another breath on the guy and if anything help her in any way you can.

  • modjoe86modjoe86 Member UncommonPosts: 4,050
    If the guy doesn't want help, you shouldn't try to actively screw over his future by ratting him out when he is in possession of drugs. Just ignore the guy, or call one of your 258,764 "major markers" and have them take care of it.
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  • MUHzzxK0MUHzzxK0 Member Posts: 389

    I hate people who think they are a part of everything and has to do something about every problem...

    "One of my cousin's friend's sister's mama's grandad's boyfriend was knocked up by this guy who don't have a last name... lets ruin his life, yes..."

    Let it go...

    btw: Life sucks... don't do anything about it... it won't help...

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  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239



    Originally posted by MUHzzxK0

    I hate people who think they are a part of everything and has to do something about every problem...
    "One of my cousin's friend's sister's mama's grandad's boyfriend was knocked up by this guy who don't have a last name... lets ruin his life, yes..."
    Let it go...
    btw: Life sucks... don't do anything about it... it won't help...



    taking a attitude of not doing anything to make life better is suicidal, and if universally adopted the key to extinction.

    however my methods(the ones im disowning) even though they were legal, are still wrong.

    dont necessarily get involved in a situation like this but those who are apathetic to the world and dont try to make a positive difference are the cause of all evil.

    they are not the seeds but the soil they sow in.

    apathy is death, we must never be boring god only eliminates boring people. 

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  • arvainisarvainis Member Posts: 548
    It takes two to tango...I love how the male is alays at fault. 

    "Government exists to protect us from each other. Where government has gone beyond its limits is in deciding to protect us from ourselves." ~ Ronald Reagan

  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718
    Verg, you do know it's as much the girls falut as it is the guys.

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  • MunkiMunki Member CommonPosts: 2,128


    Originally posted by modjoe86
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    this may be mean, but this has got to be the funniest, more relivant post ive seen so far ::::02::

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  • WordaenWordaen Member Posts: 203



    Originally posted by Vergeltung



    Originally posted by Dis_Ordur
    Verg, what are these "markers" you refer to?


    Favors owed for various things and dependent on the marker they can be serious. they are rarely exchanged for cash and most often exchanged for help in a dire situation.

    for example if i bail someone out of jail thats a major marker and they return the favor when i need it.

    but if they just help me fix a flat or give me gas then its a minor marker not worth as much.

    its more or less an honor system.

    but i have 49 minor markers i can call, and 13 major ones.

    i dont use them at all actually i just sort of accumulate them.

    because i dedicate most my time helping the helpless.


    What are you? A Godfather? "Markers", jesus. I would have to agree with pretty much everyone else here and suggest a couple things. One, get on with your life. Two, these two people need serious professional help, not "professional" help. Three, unless I am quite mistaken, making threats on a board can also be construed as criminal intent. I believe someone recently got busted for admitting to a crime on a blog. What you are suggesting sounds a lot like premeditated harassment and assault to me. Harassment at work, threatening physical violence, stalking, possible solicitation to commit injury against someone with these "markers".

    I mean come on man. I understand you are pissed, I would be too. But by following this course of action, are you not lowering yourself to this person's level? By contemplating and following this thread of thought, you risk putting yourself and others familiar to you into the position of being the bad guy, instead of the person who apparently really is. Then you get the shit end of the stick and they get a walk. I apologize if my initial statement seemed harsh, it was not meant as such. I am a relatively blunt person. But step back and look at the situation a little closer. Do you REALLY want to be like this guy? Getting into trouble, pissing off the ppl around you (and if you follow this course that is a very real probability), getting or increasing a criminal record that WILL follow you?

    Let it go. It's far healthier I would think.

  • NierroNierro Member UncommonPosts: 1,755

    Vergeltung, your story sounds like the premise for Death Wish 6...minus Charles Bronson.

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  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239



    Originally posted by Nierro

    Vergeltung, your story sounds like the premise for Death Wish 6...minus Charles Bronson.



    what the hell are you talking about?

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  • NierroNierro Member UncommonPosts: 1,755

    Ever seen the Death Wish series? You come off as more of a vigilante then a good samaritan.

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  • PuoltryPuoltry Member Posts: 956

    I hate to say it but i will.

    This is petty high school bs.It has happened a million times over and over again.Think it through and you will realize that this is a situation better left alone.

    Let me help ya out.

    1.They are NOT in love.This is high school lust at best.

    2.Both parties involved are much too young to have kids period.Trust me on this ive got a 2 year old and she is a handful.

    3.You can help this girl all you want but it doesnt change the fact that he doesnt have a job and even if he got 1 unskilled labor doesnt pay the bills.The end result is you have 3 kids on govt assistance leeching off the rest of us.

    4.He doesnt love her or he would have stayed.

    5.How are you going to MAKE him own up to his responsibilty?Call the cops every time you see him?Yea the girl would REALLY like ya for that having the "breadwinner" in and out of county lockup.

    6.The best choice both of them could make is to put up the kid for adoption.Sure abortion is an option but by having the baby and MAKING both of them go to birth classes a life lesson is learned.

    I learned a long time ago that friends are fleeting and most people just dont care about anyone but themselves.More than likely the girl has manipulatd you into doing her dirty work for her.They are both a couple of horny stupid high school kids that were too horny to find a condom in the heat of the moment.

    The last thing that should happen is marriage.Ive seen this so many times ive lost count.They get married and end up resenting each other because of 1 night of sex.Neither 1 goes to college and they get divorced 5 years later or less.

    In your lifetime this may be the most drama you have ever experienced.But from my perspective its happened to a million kids over and over again.

    You cant make him do anything and she just learned how easy it is to get pregnant.

    Just drop it.

    Want to ENJOY an mmo?

    Dont start a guild and dont be a leader or volunteer to be coleader or captain.

    Just play the damn game:)

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