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Something I've always wondered...

thand1thand1 Member Posts: 15
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How is it that the most vile, repulsive, despicable people on the face of the Earth can always manage to find a partner?  And I'm not just talking looks when I mention those negative qualities.  All kinds of criminals--legally and technically/fundamentally/morally--are able to find a significant other...or at least just a love interest.

My neighbor for example.  He has a girlfriend.  I know this because last night I heard what sounded like him hanging pictures...at 2 am.  I work second shift so I normally don't go to bed until 4 in the morning or so.  Well, a while ago I kind of hear the same noise again, only softer (because last night I threw my steel toe shoe at the wall when I heard the sound.)  So I'm thinking, WTF is this guy doing over there.  Naturally I put my ear to the wall.  My living room and his bedroom share the same wall, you see.  Well, come to find out....he's not hanging pictures over there.   Besides, who hangs pictures for two minutes and moans while doing so?  I mean come on, she even gasped a little when he finished his hammer handy-work.  /boggle

If the noise persists tomorrow I might have to leave a colorful note on his car asking him to move his bed away from the wall.

Anyhow, comedy aside.

Seriously, it baffles me how some people are capable of finding relationships.  I mean, it's downright mind-boggling.  And yet, here I sit; a pretty well manered 27-year-old, not a bad guy (though not the next best thing since Jesus, you know?), what I consider to be at the upper end of average looking (approaching good-looking, but you know what they say about the beholder).  Alone.

Granted, it's largely by choice (use your imagination; picture some horror stories, already), but W(here)TF is all this attention from the ladies?  It's like natural selection has been reversed for the human race, or something.

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  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239

    Power is stability, those who are more powerful are more likely to survive and thrive and provide.

    and a lack of morals, criminal tendencies, and overall evil qualities tend to breed power in the individuals who have them.

    so certain women flock to their stability of immorality.

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    98% of the teenage population does or has tried smoking pot. If you''re one of the 2% who hasn''t, copy & paste this in your signature.

  • thand1thand1 Member Posts: 15

    Originally posted by Vergeltung

    Power is stability, those who are more powerful are more likely to survive and thrive and provide.
    and a lack of morals, criminal tendencies, and overall evil qualities tend to breed power in the individuals who have them.
    so certain women flock to their stability of immorality.
    Yeah.  Damned that George W, he must get all the ladies. 
  • VampirVampir Member Posts: 4,239

    Originally posted by thand1

    Originally posted by Vergeltung

    Power is stability, those who are more powerful are more likely to survive and thrive and provide.
    and a lack of morals, criminal tendencies, and overall evil qualities tend to breed power in the individuals who have them.
    so certain women flock to their stability of immorality.
    Yeah.  Damned that George W, he must get all the ladies. 

    are you really sure that man is capable of managing that power without strings attached to his back, and a crew of people on the catwalks above the stage?

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    98% of the teenage population does or has tried smoking pot. If you''re one of the 2% who hasn''t, copy & paste this in your signature.

  • thand1thand1 Member Posts: 15

    Originally posted by Vergeltung

    Originally posted by thand1

    Originally posted by Vergeltung

    Power is stability, those who are more powerful are more likely to survive and thrive and provide.
    and a lack of morals, criminal tendencies, and overall evil qualities tend to breed power in the individuals who have them.
    so certain women flock to their stability of immorality.
    Yeah.  Damned that George W, he must get all the ladies. 

    are you really sure that man is capable of managing that power without strings attached to his back, and a crew of people on the catwalks above the stage?


    Ok, so the people who are really in charge get all the ladies and they pass down the sloppy seconds??  He is, after all, married.

    Doesn't that bake your noodle?

  • grimbojgrimboj Member Posts: 2,102

    Originally posted by thand1
    Ok, so the people who are really in charge get all the ladies and they pass down the sloppy seconds??  He is, after all, married.

    Doesn't that bake your noodle?
    Girls are trouble man You will find a nice ladee but the wrong ones always come with a price so dont be so quick to rush. My uncle is the nicest guy in the world but hes single at 43.

    Try to listen to the other stuff that goes on, the arguing, the parts where she needs more money for shopping and where she asks him to shave his knee cap caus it turns he on

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  • shaeshae Member Posts: 2,509

    So is your neighbor a bad person? Just tryin to find the correlation between him and the vile/repulsive/despicable comment...

    Anyways. By your own admition, it's a conscious choice you are making. What you have to keep in mind is when it comes to dating or finding a significant other males and females go about it completely different.

    If a female is single and looking, she doesn't have to put up a sign that says so, bioligy pretty much dictates that males will show interest in females regardless of whether they are single or not. On the other hand, it's quite different for males. Bioligy will dictatre, more often then not, that a female will go out of her way to not show interest in a male should she be unsure as to the man's status.

    So as you said, if your making a choice of it, then it's not going to happen. Lot of times, the guys your talking about just put themselves out there, it's not always about looks, success and personality, if your not letting yourself be seen as a single male looking for a nice girl, well then naturally nothing is just going to run up to and bite you in the rear.

    As a female, I've noticed this happens quite a bit with those guys that consider themselves to be the "nice guys". Maybe it's a trait of that personality, I know with my BF I literally had to kick him in the leg and tell him I was interested for him to make a move.

    Which brings me to my next point. I thoroughly believe that for every personatliy type, there's an equal yet different "type" that correlates well with it. Just because you don't have women throwing themselves at you doesn't mean your not a great catch, it just means that sub-consciously your waiting for that certain type of female to catch your eye or be caught by.

    When it's important enough, you'll know and you'll go after it.

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  • viadiviadi Member Posts: 816

    While at school I never dated and lost all self confidence. After leaving school I started to go out and found that not just girls but ladies (21+ I was 17) really wanted to date me. Anyway I have 4-5 relationships before meeting my partner and moving away. Recently I went back to my home town on a night out while there I bumped into a group of girls I knew at school while drunk I told them I had a crush on 2 of them while I was at school only to find out I was the most fancied kid in school but everyone thought I was not interested (well they actually said gay) because I never dated anyone LoL talk about ironic

    Anyway I think they are 2 types of people when it come to dating the players they want everyone and the watcher they want only the right person for them be it for that time, or for life. you seem to be in the latter group

    Tin Foil hats dont work.. its all a conspiracy

  • britocabritoca Member Posts: 1,484
    love is blind?

    -virtual tourist
    want your game back?
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  • porgieporgie Member Posts: 1,516
    I got all the ugliness out of my siblings.  My sisters are so pretty, and they have me to thank for it, because my parents rung all the ugliness out of the sponge on me before they were born.

    But I don't have a girlfriend. 

    I don't have much self-esteem either.  I go out with my friends and stuff, but if someone talks to me I get really shy and feel like I'm going to throw up (it could be I drink too much though).  My friends try to set me up with girls sometimes, but I think my defense mechanisms kick in and I put up a wall.  I start making excuses in my head about why they won't like me for long and then decide to go the other way.

    Maybe I need a makeover.  There is a gorgeous guy inside.  He's just encapsulated by monster flesh. 

    But your theory doesn't hold out on me, vileness doesn't equal women in my case.


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  • thand1thand1 Member Posts: 15

    Originally posted by shae

    So is your neighbor a bad person? Just tryin to find the correlation between him and the vile/repulsive/despicable comment...
    Anyways. By your own admition, it's a conscious choice you are making. What you have to keep in mind is when it comes to dating or finding a significant other males and females go about it completely different.
    If a female is single and looking, she doesn't have to put up a sign that says so, bioligy pretty much dictates that males will show interest in females regardless of whether they are single or not. On the other hand, it's quite different for males. Bioligy will dictatre, more often then not, that a female will go out of her way to not show interest in a male should she be unsure as to the man's status.
    So as you said, if your making a choice of it, then it's not going to happen. Lot of times, the guys your talking about just put themselves out there, it's not always about looks, success and personality, if your not letting yourself be seen as a single male looking for a nice girl, well then naturally nothing is just going to run up to and bite you in the rear.
    As a female, I've noticed this happens quite a bit with those guys that consider themselves to be the "nice guys". Maybe it's a trait of that personality, I know with my BF I literally had to kick him in the leg and tell him I was interested for him to make a move.
    Which brings me to my next point. I thoroughly believe that for every personatliy type, there's an equal yet different "type" that correlates well with it. Just because you don't have women throwing themselves at you doesn't mean your not a great catch, it just means that sub-consciously your waiting for that certain type of female to catch your eye or be caught by.
    When it's important enough, you'll know and you'll go after it.



    I've always been the sort that needs a sign of epic proportions to usually notice that a lady likes me.  Baseball bat to the head, type epic.  Though I'm beginning to believe that I don't really need that sign.  If it's not obvious, it's not really meant to be, after all.  The last "relationship" (and I use that very feciciously) I had I couldn't tell if she liked me or not, not even after I asked her out and she said yes.  It wasn't exactly a good relationship; and I have my theory as to why it turned out so...craptacular, but I digress.

    A few months later I started talking to another girl and we both obviously liked each other, no doubt about it.  I think she would have been a really fun girlfriend...if only she had been a year older--nevermind the 8 year age gap.  I'm too pretty to go to prison, though, so...

    So I've made the decision that if a girl doesn't show noticeable signs that she genuinely likes me (and I like her as well, mind you), then she can F off.  For you 80s/90s kids out there "Bad Company" said it well.  How does it go?  "You can't have a flame without a fire.  But I won't play your games."  I probably butchered that, but I share the perspective.

    I've always been a quality over quantity sort of guy, anyhow.  If only I could get a boost in the quality department.  XD  Seems the older I get, the less likely I am to find the person I need.

    A "mental person" I used to know firmly belived that men weren't worth anything until their thirties.  A little less than 2.5 years to go.  Come on already.

    I admit though, I'm not advertising myself...at all.  But then again, I also enjoy my peace of mind.  I don't have the time or patience anymore for the idiocy of "quantity dating."  It's the same thing as sening out a resume to countless employers in the hopes one will bite.  One will bite eventually, sure.  But at that point you're desperate for a job and they're probably not the best company.

    Anyhow, as to my neighbor:  Lets just say I form opinions of people rapidly (which are usually right) and it's difficult to make concessions to change said opinion.  Though when I do, it's becuase they truly deserve it.  But, I look at him and wonder how in the hell anyone could be attracted to that guy.  He's one of those nerdy looking 30-somethings (balding and all) who tries to dress like the kids today and fit in with a crowd not his own.  You know, one of the fake people.  :P

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