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I neeed u guys to help me help my dad.......
MisterGuS
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Ok..... lets start off by saying that my dad's problem has been getting worst and worst as the years have gone on..... And im tooo afraid to talk to him about it..... When ever i do he fuicken freaks out...
my dad wont accept he has anger problems..... neorosis i think is the medical term.....
well yeah.... does anyone kno any like anger managment hotline or some shit like that..... any government programs. for angry people........ Cuz wow he is becoming alcoholic due to his problem.... its really getttting out of hand.....
so any one kno where to get help???
cuz i looked and i just cant find it.
my dad wont accept he has anger problems..... neorosis i think is the medical term.....
well yeah.... does anyone kno any like anger managment hotline or some shit like that..... any government programs. for angry people........ Cuz wow he is becoming alcoholic due to his problem.... its really getttting out of hand.....
so any one kno where to get help???
cuz i looked and i just cant find it.
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good luck,
Lath
Dude, wtf.
It might however help you to confront him with other family members. At the very least you would probably feel more safe about approaching him. Hopefully with enough support you might be able to convince him to take a good look at himself and how he's acting and treating you compared to what he was like in the years before. That is if he still listens to reason as I know how hard it can be at times.
Perhaps someone else can help you out on this more as I don't really have any personal experience.
That sounds like good advice. Just make sure he knows you're doing it because you love him. Make that absolutely evident. Say it a hundred times if you have to. And having someone there with you would be a good idea. But make sure it's someone also with a personal interest in the situation. Not someone that will juts embarrass him.
Are your parents divorced or still together? Maybe if you moved in with your other parent for a while things could settle down between you guys. And he could have some time to think things over in his head. The thing is nobody changes until they want to change. You can try to coerce him into wanting to change by using love, guilt, or whatever it takes, but sometimes those things don't even work.
Put Ecstasy in his tea.
Ecstasy ended football violence nationwide in under a year.
Come on, this is an obvious BS post- The OP is in his 20's and it took me 30 seconds to find anger managment in the yellow pages and online localy. Using a forum like this is analogous to hiking into the forest and shooting yourself in the leg- then calling for help. Maybe someone will come by and hear you... Maybe that person wont help you. Moral of the story? Dont go into the forest and shoot yourself in the foot/.
Lath
I hope your dad can get that under control man. That's no good. I had a friend who had serious anger problems. He would blow up at anything. It ruined his life. He ruined his life. His wife divorced him, he got introuble for threatening a co-worker of hers who was a government employee, he got a DUI, and just generally made a mess of things. No matter what we as his friends did to help him, he just didn't take it to heart. His alcohol use made it worse. He had a pretty messed up childhood... divorced parents and his mom was mentally abusive. I really do feel bad for him, but at the same time he is reaping what he has sown plus some. Your dad needs to find a way to get it under control before it gets out of hand too. Good luck.
And, as far as the Desert Eagle link... sweet gun... but definitely not the way to go.
i'm not sure the guy is actualy 24 cuz i thought in his other screenname it said 15(correct me if i'm wrong)....though i like your logic on this one, but this guy is probably looking for a more supportive community than an actual correctional center(again correct me if i'm wrong)
I hope some day we can all put aside our racisms and prejudices and just laugh at people
Ok, well, me and my dad had some serious anger problems. I always hated when people took away my rights, and as a kid, people did that often. My dad, on the hand, was just stupid and angry about it. Ok, that's not a nice way to put it, but I've said it to him before, so whatever... Anyway, I say you should confront him. I'm as tall as my dad now, and years ago he used to scream his lungs out at me all the time for "back talking", but anymore... Not so much.
Though, my dad was actually more high strung before he started drinking. He's not a drunk, though... Anyway, my point is, you've just got to tell him who's boss. My dad always used to freak out, then my parents got a divorse, and I told him he needs to stop being such a whiney bitch and deal with it. Actually, I do believe I used that phrase... Anyway, the point is, sure, he still yells every now and then, but he's a push over. He's as whiney as my brother, but less intelligent,(He's called my twice to ask how to spell "guess"...) and when people don't understand something, they get frusterated.
Now, I'm calling bullshit on anyone who thinks depression/rage just happen. There's a reason for it. Sure, his body chemistry may be all fucked up, but the point is, there's still a reason for it. Oh, and anyone who drinks and gets all pissy, needs to fucking grow up. If I had a friend, and he was drinking and being a whiney little bitch, I'd tell him strait up that he needs to get his shit together.
Oh, and Lath: Hilarious.
not enought information to give good advice.
if he hits you call the police. make sure he knows
you're did it because you love him and don't want to be abused.
best of luck to you
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Originally posted by MisterGuS
Ok..... lets start off by saying that my dad's problem has been getting worst and worst as the years have gone on..... And im tooo afraid to talk to him about it..... When ever i do he fuicken freaks out...my dad wont accept he has anger problems..... neorosis i think is the medical term.....well yeah.... does anyone kno any like anger managment hotline or some shit like that..... any government programs. for angry people........ Cuz wow he is becoming alcoholic due to his problem.... its really getttting out of hand.....so any one kno where to get help???cuz i looked and i just cant find it.
just a question
u will be old dad too
will be u happy if ur motherfrigging sun will ask some aholes in mmorpg forum?
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Or, you could buy some soap on a rope.
Dead serious, one of my friend got some for his birthday, can't remember where it came from.
Edit: Damn spelling errors.
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i mean dont do bs to someone
if you dont like to have the same bs later
karma
LOL, OMG thats great.
Seriously tho- I guess its better here (on this forum) than in some exp group- Ive had "those" people before in my groups who wana tell you all their troubles...and your like "yea, oh that's horrible, I wish you the best!" but really your thinking to yourself: god I hate people like this- i just wana level plz.
Lath
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