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My best friend has passed....

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  • InflictionInfliction Member Posts: 1,115
    Okay... This is going to sound harsh... But... You just registered on this forum like... 2 days ago... And your very first post here is about your dog dying... Not to be the bad guy here, but seriously... What an attention whore. image

    PS: Dogs dying does suck, but its nothing to slit your wrists and write poetry about. I'd sympathise with someone whose made posts here before, but I'm under the assumption that you're making this same post on every forum you can find right now.



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  • PlanoMMPlanoMM Member Posts: 1,267



    Originally posted by Infliction
    Okay... This is going to sound harsh... But... You just registered on this forum like... 2 days ago... And your very first post here is about your dog dying... Not to be the bad guy here, but seriously... What an attention whore. image

    PS: Dogs dying does suck, but its nothing to slit your wrists and write poetry about. I'd sympathise with someone whose made posts here before, but I'm under the assumption that you're making this same post on every forum you can find right now.




    omg!!!!  /slits wrist

    come on, man.  geez, to some people animals are like family.  wow, that was cold and heartless.

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  • InflictionInfliction Member Posts: 1,115

    Originally posted by PlanoMM
    Originally posted by Infliction
    Okay... This is going to sound harsh... But... You just registered on this forum like... 2 days ago... And your very first post here is about your dog dying... Not to be the bad guy here, but seriously... What an attention whore. image

    PS: Dogs dying does suck, but its nothing to slit your wrists and write poetry about. I'd sympathise with someone whose made posts here before, but I'm under the assumption that you're making this same post on every forum you can find right now.


    omg!!!!  /slits wrist

    come on, man.  geez, to some people animals are like family.  wow, that was cold and heartless.


    All I'm saying is if you're going to register on a gaming forum, and have your only posts be about your dog dying... Its just not something you do. There are better places for such posts... Maybe a blog on myspace or somethingthathastodowithemo.comorgnet. Its just not something that you should do, and whether or not other people will post it, I'm sure half the people that have looked at this thread thought the same damn thing. I have no problem playing the bad guy once in awhile.


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  • PlanoMMPlanoMM Member Posts: 1,267
    actually if you read most of the posts in this thread, most people gave their condolences.  thats the humane thing to do.  calling a guy an attention whore for it is kinda cold.  and he posted it in the right place, "Off-Topic Discussion."  thats exactly where stuff like that goes.  this is the "we dont have to talk strictly about gaming" forum.  and again, if you read half of the posts in this thread, you would see that reflected.  now get off your high horse before i shoot it, j/k.

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  • InflictionInfliction Member Posts: 1,115
    You leave my horse out of this! You're ignoring the key point of my post... This was his FIRST post on this forum, and he's no doubt going from forum to forum posting the same thing (cut and paste I'm sure). I've given condolences for such things in the past, but for people that have actually posted here before. Hell this guy hasn't even introduced himself on the board before this...


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  • PlanoMMPlanoMM Member Posts: 1,267
    alright, youre right, threatening your horse is going too far.image

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  • OpticaleyeOpticaleye Member Posts: 498

    Originally posted by Infliction
    Okay... This is going to sound harsh... But... You just registered on this forum like... 2 days ago... And your very first post here is about your dog dying... Not to be the bad guy here, but seriously... What an attention whore. image

    PS: Dogs dying does suck, but its nothing to slit your wrists and write poetry about. I'd sympathise with someone whose made posts here before, but I'm under the assumption that you're making this same post on every forum you can find right now.

    Oh i see you ASSUME this is the 1st time ive EVER posted here.I guess you would also assume that this is my ONLY account?This is my 3rd account on this particular website.TBH in my line of work i simply dont have time to go to every damn website on the internet and post about my dog.

    That being said ive actually been a member of this site for 2 years running.This just happens to be a new account ive started as my old hard drive got wiped and i forgot the passwords and such.It was just easier for me to start a new account.

    Is that explanation enough for you or should i detail for you how i had to pick up my dog from my back deck and carry him to my Jeep?Should i also say while i was carrying him i was sobbing like a 10 year old girl?Would you like to know how my wife handled losing her 1st pet?How about the car ride to the pet crematorium?How about When they came out and got him on the strecher they use?How about crying AGAIN when they wheeled him away for the last time?

    Hey "Infliction" thanx for looking past the fact (everyone else did) that this a new account.I really appreciate your sense of compassion man.

    If you didnt notice let me point out that the above sentence is FULL of sarcasm.Oh yeah sorry if i sounded"harsh".


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  • ZorvanZorvan Member CommonPosts: 8,912

    I am sorry for your loss. One of my dogs is 19 right now, a little terrier mix and it won't be long. Had her since her birth, so yeah. I hope you and your wife pull through this and maybe someday open up to another dog. They tend to sneak past "pets" and become friends/family really easy::::09::

    Now, since it just wouldn't be me without some smart ass comment: you keep your mother-in-law in the basement? SWEET!!!::::02::

  • Davinci123Davinci123 Member Posts: 62
    My rot=typ of dog was the same dog like yours.
  • OpticaleyeOpticaleye Member Posts: 498

    Originally posted by Zorvan
    I am sorry for your loss. One of my dogs is 19 right now, a little terrier mix and it won't be long. Had her since her birth, so yeah. I hope you and your wife pull through this and maybe someday open up to another dog. They tend to sneak past "pets" and become friends/family really easy::::09::Now, since it just wouldn't be me without some smart ass comment: you keep your mother-in-law in the basement? SWEET!!!::::02::

    LOL....and she LIKES it too!!


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  • WilkoEaWilkoEa Member Posts: 15

    image if u got a new dog it would feal the same

     

     

     

  • OpticaleyeOpticaleye Member Posts: 498
    Well it hasnt gotten any easier.

    Its been almost 3 full days and i miss everything about him.I look over to where he would be sleeping next to me in my office at this moment and it just sucks.The whole feeling of my house has changed.Its more quiet and not in a good way.I had to explain to my 3 year old he had gone to heaven in the middle of the store and i almost broke down.

    My father inlaw died shortly after i was married and he loved dogs.But because of his medical conditions he never really was able to have 1 and become emotionally attached.So now i figure he has the dog he always wanted with him.My wife always told me he would have loved Helmet.

    It has been very difficult for my mother inlaw.He spent a lot of time with her.In his old age they were like best friends.Im now going about finding all of the pictures of him i ever took.Recently i shot quite a few as i knew this day was coming.

    Not that anyone should actually care i just thought id use this forum as an outlet.

    Thanx.



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  • Synyster777Synyster777 Member Posts: 301

    Originally posted by Opticaleye
    Well it hasnt gotten any easier.

    Its been almost 3 full days and i miss everything about him.I look over to where he would be sleeping next to me in my office at this moment and it just sucks.The whole feeling of my house has changed.Its more quiet and not in a good way.I had to explain to my 3 year old he had gone to heaven in the middle of the store and i almost broke down.

    My father inlaw died shortly after i was married and he loved dogs.But because of his medical conditions he never really was able to have 1 and become emotionally attached.So now i figure he has the dog he always wanted with him.My wife always told me he would have loved Helmet.

    It has been very difficult for my mother inlaw.He spent a lot of time with her.In his old age they were like best friends.Im now going about finding all of the pictures of him i ever took.Recently i shot quite a few as i knew this day was coming.

    Not that anyone should actually care i just thought id use this forum as an outlet.

    Thanx.

    Some people in this world care, some people want to be critical even when a complete stranger posts in a forum about a loved one dying, even if it is "just a dog". I hope you feel better soon, try not to dwell on it too much.


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  • AdrealAdreal Member Posts: 2,087

    Wow, man. That sucks. I had a nine year old cat that I got as a kitten and named, myself. I liked fighting with him a lot and I'd always come away with bloody hands that were all scratched up from his back claws. His name was Frisky (for obvious reasons) - Frisk for short. He had had some stomach problems (ulcers I think) and was drooling for a while. Then one day when I was about 18 or so, I came home and everything was alright. I hadn't been paying a lot of attention to him, but he was receiving medicine. I went downstairs where he was staying and my younger bro told me he had run away. A few years ago, my eyes were full of tears just because I had to leave him for a while. When I heard that he had run away and never had come back, I was like, "Wow... O-k... Goodbye, cat." And that was pretty much it. :

    Can't say I liked my cat as much as you liked your dog, but I hope you get over it soon. My advice? You should get a couple of pets maybe - one older than the other. So when one dies the next time, you'll still have that other one left. It'll act like a crutch basically. It's like having one child when you're a parent as opposed to two. If one dies, you still have that one left. And though you can be broken up about it, you won't be left lying in a gutter of emotional waste for several years.

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  • ZorvanZorvan Member CommonPosts: 8,912


    Originally posted by Adreal
    It's like having one child when you're a parent as opposed to two. If one dies, you still have that one left. And though you can be broken up about it, you won't be left lying in a gutter of emotional waste for several years.

    We will agree to disagree.

  • AdrealAdreal Member Posts: 2,087
    Feel free to check your email, Zorvan. image

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  • opeth313xopeth313x Member Posts: 234

    Man that sucks...image

    Death can be a very tragic thing... I'm really sorry to hear about your dog dying. I'm always afraid of my dog dying too... I probably would recover from it quickly, but my sister would be heartbroken.

    I do love my dog... I just haven't been too emotional about any experiences involving death I have encountered throughout my life. I know that sounds a little heartless... But I do care about them...

    Well, I hope both you and your wife recover from this situation soon. It may take some time, but eventually you'll probably feel a little bit better.

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  • OpticaleyeOpticaleye Member Posts: 498
    Its taking some time.Everything is so different now.

    I work part time and do some other things on the side so today i didnt work.It was a difficult day for me.I tried to stay away from the house most of the day.My wife works at home as well but she was occupied mentally with work.

    I didnt go in the backyard.Im not sure that i really can.

    I really didnt think i would be this affected so im in a bit of shock.The thing is i feel guilty about not thinking about him.I dont know why that is.My wife and i arent really talking about him either.Not a lot anyway.When we do we both start crying.

    It sounds pathetic i know.*shrugs*

    Anyway thanx for the sympathy and compassion.





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  • AshynAshyn Member Posts: 91

    Very very sorry for your loss.  Some people don't understand how a person can feel such a deep loss for a pet (deeper than a person who passes), but its understandable. Pets are here to teach us unconditional love, something we cannot get from each other. Helmet obviousely did what he was sent here to do to leave such a huge hole in your life.  You have to hold on to that and know that he had a purpous, fullfilled it and will meet up with you again (all pets go to the other side and wait for us).

    My cat (and yeah, I know, cats aren't real easy to get attached to sometimes), is burried in a coffin, complete with a satin blanket and pillow (pink) and also has a headstone (it reads her name and "She left paw prints on our hearts"). She's had a better funeral than I want for myself.  And no matter who I say that to, they all look at me like I am a total fruitcake. Only a pet lover would understand.

    My best to you and your wife.

    -Ashyn

  • codyblkmncodyblkmn Member Posts: 5
    I'm sorry to hear that too.  I know how hard it is to lose a pet.  My pets have always been a big part of the family too so I know it's rough when they go.  


  • OpticaleyeOpticaleye Member Posts: 498
    I got the call from the pet crematorium today that his remains are ready to be picked up.Im going tomorrow to do this.

    I cry every half hour or so.

    Its almost been a week since ive seen my pal.Im an emotional mess.

    He was our 1st dog together.More than a dog he was my and my wife's family.I think im going to put him up on a shelf next to his picture.I cant stand the thought of burying him.

    Ive been writing on my computer everything i remember about him.A sort of memoirs and reflections of him.A bit over the top perhaps but i just dont want to forget about him.Im thinking about doing a blog about him as soon as i sort through some pics.

    Again thank you for your compassion and understanding.This has been a difficult time for myself my wife and mother inlaw.



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  • OpticaleyeOpticaleye Member Posts: 498
    Well i went to pick up my pal today.

    I broke  down on the way there when i got there and on the way home.Now he sits on my desk at home.I thought i would be able to bury him but i just cant do it.I got him home and my wife and i had a good cry.

    I hope it gets better soon.I havent cried this much over a HUMAN relative that died.Im truly just drained to the core emotionally.I cant go into the backyard and i havent done so all week.This friday will be 7 days.

    I feel pathetic.



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  • modjoe86modjoe86 Member UncommonPosts: 4,050

    Originally posted by Opticaleye
    Well i went to pick up my pal today.

    I broke  down on the way there when i got there and on the way home.Now he sits on my desk at home.I thought i would be able to bury him but i just cant do it.I got him home and my wife and i had a good cry.

    I hope it gets better soon.I havent cried this much over a HUMAN relative that died.Im truly just drained to the core emotionally.I cant go into the backyard and i havent done so all week.This friday will be 7 days.

    I feel pathetic.

    Jesus man, if you have a kid, you better hope you die before they do. If you're getting this worked up over a dog, I can only imagine what a human's death in your immediate family might do.


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  • OpticaleyeOpticaleye Member Posts: 498

    Originally posted by modjoe86
    Originally posted by Opticaleye
    Well i went to pick up my pal today.

    I broke  down on the way there when i got there and on the way home.Now he sits on my desk at home.I thought i would be able to bury him but i just cant do it.I got him home and my wife and i had a good cry.

    I hope it gets better soon.I havent cried this much over a HUMAN relative that died.Im truly just drained to the core emotionally.I cant go into the backyard and i havent done so all week.This friday will be 7 days.

    I feel pathetic.
    Jesus man, if you have a kid, you better hope you die before they do. If you're getting this worked up over a dog, I can only imagine what a human's death in your immediate family might do.

    Now you know why i feel pathetic.I did have the dog for 13 years though.


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