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vampiress92vampiress92 Member Posts: 266
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My mom passed away about an hour ago.

Just thought I'd let you know during some of the downtime I had.

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  • UmbroodUmbrood Member UncommonPosts: 1,809

    It do give the word "downtime" a whole new meaning, never lost a parent, or sibling, but people close and there are times when you think the pain will never go away, and it wont I will not fool you, it will however diminish.

    "Sorry for your loss" seems very inadeqaute, but still I am.

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  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

    I'm sorry to hear about your lost. Just a few weeks ago my friend's mom passed as well. I just want you to be strong. You mother will always be with you so don't stop too long over her death. You can take a few days or a week, but don't slow down your life, she is still with you. Keep moving, keep your head up and don't fail on us. I have a lot of faith in you vampiress. I just want you to be OK.

     

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  • EggFteggEggFtegg Member Posts: 1,141

    Sorry, Vamp.

  • methane47methane47 Member UncommonPosts: 3,694

    Wow I'm really sorry to hear that. my deepest sympathy for you and your family.

    If you dont mind my asking. What was the cause of her death?

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  • CochizeCochize Member Posts: 211

    Wow, I know it probably doesn't help, but I'm really sorry for your loss.

  • EggFteggEggFtegg Member Posts: 1,141
    Originally posted by methane47
    If you dont mind my asking. What was the cause of her death?

    She told us back here.

  • CochizeCochize Member Posts: 211

    I just read that an I honestly shed a tear, wow I have no idea the pain you must feel.  I hope everything winds up good.  You my blessings

  • methane47methane47 Member UncommonPosts: 3,694

    Originally posted by EggFtegg

    Originally posted by methane47
    If you dont mind my asking. What was the cause of her death?

    She told us back here.

    I missed that thread.. well... About 8 months ago doctors found a malignant tumor in my mom's Pancreas.

    It's since spread to her liver. Doctors said its in-operable, Chemo and radiation didn't work. My mom is ok now in that She is able to work and do what ever .. But me and the rest of my family are praying for a miracle.

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  • ColdmeatColdmeat Member UncommonPosts: 3,409

    condolences.

  • SigneSigne Member, Newbie CommonPosts: 2,524

    I'm sorry for you and your family.  My mother died when I was young, though not quite as young as you.  It was very sudden and unexpected.  It took me ages to even be able to talk about it.  Even now, years later, I sometimes get a bit misty when people bring it up.  I still think about her every day. 

  • XeximaXexima Member UncommonPosts: 2,698

    Wow, I'm really sorry..

    Hope you don't mind me asking, but how old was she?  You're my age, your mom couldn't've been very old.

  • PunkMonkPunkMonk Member Posts: 483

    Like everyone else, I don't really know what to say other than I'm sorry.

     

    My aunt is also in a bad situation. Smoking for 40 years really put her down and out. Hasn't been active, In I'd say, about 5-6 years. I've had quite a few aunts and uncles pass away, but I don't know what to think If I had someone much closer, like a mother, die.

    I'm sorry.

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  • MotorheadMotorhead Member UncommonPosts: 1,193

    I've been there, it sucks.

    I'm sorry for your loss.  

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  • vampiress92vampiress92 Member Posts: 266

    Originally posted by Xexima


    Wow, I'm really sorry..
    Hope you don't mind me asking, but how old was she?  You're my age, your mom couldn't've been very old.
    My mother was in her mid 50's. She was older when she had me, so yeah.

    Thanks everyone. Most of my family has been here all morning, and now the house is empty except for me and my boyfriend. So yeah. Momentary downtime.

    Gonna enjoy this evening, though. My boyfriend's parents are gonna be smothering me with love and attention and "Are you ok?"s. I'm getting kind of sick of it, so yeah

    Oh well. She's up in heaven now 

  • PhoenixsPhoenixs Member Posts: 2,646

    I'm sorry. You have my condolences.

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    Condolences.

     

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  • TechleoTechleo Member Posts: 1,984

           No worries Vampiress, you'll see her again soon enough I don't mean that in a threatening way at all though!!                                        Life is short as it stands but soon enough most of us will be existing later laughing at the situations we face now.

    Given enough time all pains fade and become easier to cope. Just image how transient death will see when you died....

  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384

    If you ever need someone to talk to please dont hesitate to pm me. I lost my father when he was only 49 and tragically, I witnessed the event.

    I am sorry for your loss and if you ever need someone to talk with or scream with, please let me know; I know what it's like to loose a parent you loved.

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  • EnigmaEnigma Member UncommonPosts: 11,384
    Originally posted by vampiress92
    Oh well. She's up in heaven now 

    People who have to create conspiracy and hate threads to further a cause lacks in intellectual comprehension of diversity.

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    Originally posted by vampiress92


    My mom passed away about an hour ago.
    Just thought I'd let you know during some of the downtime I had.
    Sad. Very sad. Good that you were able to see her, talk to her, and be with her. May you cherish the memories forever.

    My heart goes out to you and your family...

  • FlemFlem Member UncommonPosts: 2,870

    Sorry for your loss Vamp, my condolences to you and your family.

  • truenorthbgtruenorthbg Member Posts: 1,453

    I am sorry for your loss.

     

    I will be praying for you and your family.

     

     

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    You have my condolences, even though that won't really do anything to help you through this.



    If I can offer any advice in a time like this, grieve in your own way. If people are smothering you, tell them to stop, to give you space. We all deal with it differently. Keep your lines of communication open to those who love you, but don't feel pressured into doing things you don't really want to do. You're going to feel tired for the next few weeks. I won't lie and tell you it won't hurt, but it does hurt less, in time. Just take it a day at a time for now, and don't be afraid to ask for help from loved ones if you need it.

  • gnomexxxgnomexxx Member Posts: 2,920

    I never know what to say when people lose someone they love.  I lost my grandfather a couple months ago.  I was at the funeral and felt so weird inside that I nearly passed out.  I never felt like that before.

    But I'm not writing that to make this about me.  The reason I wrote it is because I don't know what to say the same way I didn't know what to tell people at my grandfather's funeral.  Everything seems so inadequate.

    I just wish I could give you a hug.  And not say anything.  That's what made me feel better from people. 

     

    This may sound weird too, but after my grandfather died I had a very vivid dream about him where he came to visit me.  It changed things for me completely in one night.  Maybe that will happen for you.  I believe that if you ask your mom she will come see you in your dream and you can say goodbye and see her well again.  I really believe that.   Ask her. 

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  • CochizeCochize Member Posts: 211

    Well vampiress you have tons and tons of support from the MMORPG.com community I hope we can help in some way, even if it's just knowing that people care.

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