PLUS The guy already made his move... he gave her a note and did some flirtin... then walked off with his balls between his legs.... (which is better that up your ....) So We have to turn this thread into
" OHHH HumBLE experienced ones give me Some Advice on making my Second Move!!"
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
unlike what ive told you guys before, i never had a girlfriend. did ya really believe me? suckers!
anyway, ive only been talkin to this girl since half way through the school year. she sat at the table next to mine, and came over to ours sometime cuz a friend sat there, and i usually got pulled into there conversations. sometimes when the friend wasnt there, or the friend went to another table, she sat next to me. im not sure what to make of that, im kind of clueless in the area of girls.
when i was younger, say kindergarten through 3rd grade, i used to just like girls because they were "pretty". this girl is beautiful, but thats not what got me interested. weve been talking online since school got out. in school i kind of labeled her as a boy band lovin barbie girl. but since we started talking outside of school, i found out we share a common love for nobuo uematsu and classical music, we both play piano, we both love video games. beyond that, shes intelligent, smart, witty, funny... i could go on. seems compatible to me. we talked for literally 3 or four hours each night since school got out about these things.
we kind of think the same way too. we dont like things because of what they are... its because we enjoy them. we talk about that too... and how every1 at school likes on genre...
i dunno, she makes me happy when i talk to her. but then sometimes she just stops typing... i dunno if shes tired of me, or if shes embarassed cuz she talked too much, which i dont think. i just dont know. i call these kind of things IMsecureties instead of insecureties, get it? haha... heh. anyway...
weve gone to see a couple movies during the summer too, mind you others were there, but still.
if youve seen my pic in the spam section, you know im not that much o look at, so that goes against me i presume.
one more thing, i suspect another guy is interested in her too. neither of us are really that much to look at, but he tries to talk to her alot. also, the last movie we went to, this guy stole my seat next to her, claiming he had to be in the middle cuz he got the popcorn. anyway...
To Satan's Disciple (by the way I dont like that name) Blah blah blah, Sob sob sob... Dude that was the Sappyest, most girlish and retarded, Chick FLick Material Story I've ever read...
Dude get off the internet and Call her... if you really like her that much to right a 5 paragraph essay on MMORPG.com for about a couple thousand to see... I'm sure you can get the courage to call her and talk to her... Internet is cool and everything.. But Internet can be very impersonal sometimes.. Know what I mean? You are basically sending and recieving Second hand discussion... I know you want to know what I meant by that... well.. Take this for example
: A friend told you a joke, and you replied with "LoL", or "ROFL".... Were you REALLY laughing out loud? Were you REALLY Rolling on the nasty floor laughing?.... didn't think so..
So atleast if you call her You can really hear her voice.. and her breath... her corny giggle.... her slight snort... her loud Laugh!!!!... her sigh.... hear her cry...........Get the picture??
cut down internet time with her for only casual... Call her when You're interested...COOL?
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
holy crap that was 5 paragraphs. i guess i did get kind of soppy... sorry .
and i call her alot, usually just to tell her about a movie or something though... not a long discussion. i guess its not the same thing. what do i do though, just call and start a discussion? how do i do that when all they expect is some quick news? maybe she doesnt even talk on the phone much. most of us just talk online, shes one of the few people whose numbers i have.
Ok guys your help has been great (when I say guys I don't mean to offend any chicks ok that includes Murt) Your advice had lead me into asking her on my birthday Wish me luck
.........hmmm Sorry Satan's Disciple you got me stumped there.... Most of the girls i know Love the stupid phone... but I am in a different age group than you...
maybe you should ask another girl what to do bout that... Cuz I really dont think the Internet is very conducive to a relationship.. Internet Most of the time is where you meet friends (UNLess you go to a place strickly for dating) Am I getting off topic? WEll ANyways ask another girl her age .... or sumthing Beats me...
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
Satan... i don't know, if you talk a lot that's a good sign but that can also means that you are just becoming good FRIENDS, i am sorry to say that but i SPEAK to a lot of girls and 90% of them are just friends, i can talk about everything without feeling strange. Strange here means that when you talk to a girl you like you got to feel the tension between you, if there is none then i am afraid she just thinks of you as a good friend. Better friends forever then lovers for some time and then never to speak to eachother again. That's what i think.
Talking to someone is as said before way much better then chatting/trough the phone or something like that. Because in person you can see reactions, read the bodylanguage, that is very important. My first guess is since you are talking a lot that she does like you but i don't know like a friend or boyfriend that is up to you.
Try to ask her on a date or go by her house to pay a visit sometime if you think your relation can handle that because (sorry to be so pessimistic) you can loose your friendship with her if she feekls offended or if your relationship doesn't wok out and it ends in a fight. But not all relationships end in a fight sometimes you just like eachother but don't love eachother no more. It happens a lot.
But that's what i am thinking and never forget i don't live in US so that a small difference of culture and behaviour.
One day all will die, surely you but never I.
"One day all will die, surely you but never I." Wheel of Time
yeah his right!!! asking computer geeks will not be of good help we hang with computers coz, mainly, were not good at that aspects though i'm not saying that all computer geeks are the same right?
Well.. not EVERYONE is a geek.. I am a living person and computers aren't ALWAYS my thing... Im not saying im a social bird... say that im a half geek and half cool person :P
Originally posted by Regus Satan... i don't know, if you talk a lot that's a good sign but that can also means that you are just becoming good FRIENDS, i am sorry to say that but i SPEAK to a lot of girls and 90% of them are just friends, i can talk about everything without feeling strange. Strange here means that when you talk to a girl you like you got to feel the tension between you, if there is none then i am afraid she just thinks of you as a good friend. Better friends forever then lovers for some time and then never to speak to eachother again. That's what i think. Talking to someone is as said before way much better then chatting/trough the phone or something like that. Because in person you can see reactions, read the bodylanguage, that is very important. My first guess is since you are talking a lot that she does like you but i don't know like a friend or boyfriend that is up to you. Try to ask her on a date or go by her house to pay a visit sometime if you think your relation can handle that because (sorry to be so pessimistic) you can loose your friendship with her if she feekls offended or if your relationship doesn't wok out and it ends in a fight. But not all relationships end in a fight sometimes you just like eachother but don't love eachother no more. It happens a lot. But that's what i am thinking and never forget i don't live in US so that a small difference of culture and behaviour.One day all will die, surely you but never I.
ill hopefully talk to her today. were going to a friends birthday party, and she wants to borrow a couple games from me. hopefully that can be a conversation starter anyway. maybe sometime i could ask if i could go over just to play games or something like that.
rellllaxxxxx, ease off on the chick a little. you dont want to be up her ass,girls dont like that. And if at the moment she thinks you guys are just friends you dont want to get all awkward with her. relax and lay back a little, gotta act like you dont really care. come off to eager its just going to blow up in your face. pull back, relax, and chill. make her come to you. you say you talk to her all the time on aim. let her IM you first and if she dosn't then just dont talk to her untill she does.(sign off if you have to) don't make her your center of attention. relax and be confident. in all honesty chicks in highschool like guys that are a$$holes(beleive it or not), take a look at the hottest girl in the school-she's prob around or dating the biggest a$$holes. cause in today's day thats what chicks think is cool(not saying all but i'd say most). i'll prob be flamed for saying that, every nerd and there mother is gonna reply" no way, girls like guys that are nice , sweet, and kiss their a$ses blah blah blah" but its not like that anymore, the age of chivalry is down the $hiitter. you know it i know it. wanna get the girl you got to play the game.
Wu Name is just basically an Adjective and a noun.. It's not REALLY a wu name... But it's kinda like how the fighters in the Wu-Tang Clan named themselves
like for instance... "Terrible Thunder", or "Marvelous Leader".... "Broken Condom" DONT ban me please!!
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name? Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.." <i>ME<i>
Okay heres what you do. Forget what ever one has said on this board, because its all wussy boy talk, woman dont like wussys. Second go to www.doubleyourdating.com, subscribe to their newsletter, or you can buy their e-book, or get it by some other means *cough* *cough*. Read it, learn it, use it. You can thank me later.
"When you understand why you reject all other gods but your own, you will understand why I reject yours."
LOL wussy boy talk. Now that one made me laugh... Yeah go to that site and see how many pop-ups you get for pron sites and other dating sites.
If your friend says she likes you just go for it she laughs at you...Beat the crap outta your friend later for lying. Either way you get satisfaction from something. But if you really are as shy as you make yourself then you are screwed, and destined never to have a woman. It's all up to you, your choice choice, your life, your fears.
Just don't debate on it too long cause no one likes to wait...
Good, Evil, I'm the guy with the gun. -Ash, Army of Darkness-
Back in my days of high school, the most popular girls were a-holes also so they did tend to stick to their own kind. I don't see much of that changing now .. I mean hell, I don't see skater chicks dating jocks, or preps dating the intellectually smarter. Nothing really changed ..
Honestly if she's not near your clique, chances are you will be shunned and ignored. So "playing the game" and being something you are not is not always the wise thing, even that could blow up in your face and get you shunned from your normal group of friends.
Also ignoring the girl on Aim or Ym or whatever, really does not work also, So advise like that is something you do not want to take to heart. If she thinks you are friends then be her friend talk and Bs, don't logg off just cause it's "the a-hole" in you. Be a friend, not a punk. Just don't go off being needy, any person hates needy.
Ask her out even if it's as friends just don't crowd her, one day she may get the picture and decide. Never piss her off heh...
Good, Evil, I'm the guy with the gun. -Ash, Army of Darkness-
hmm I know the original thread starter has probably gotten what he needed already. All I can say from another girl's point of view is this:
There is no one kind of girl. If you think you have one way to 'rule them all' (ehehe sorry I couldn't resist) then you are mistaken. Be Confident, Plan ahead, be spontaneous, have a healthy income. Hey all this can apply, or none can apply. The only mistake you can make is doing nothing.
No one has a right to critize you having written a letter, you have done SOMETHING and that's all that counts. We might enjoy an intelligent conversation, but I for one am better won over by action, not talking.
AuroraShine aka Beloved Professional (wu name) uhm yeah
Well I did it...and well...it wasn't good she said no but we are still friends so it wasn't a complete loss... I just hope that maybe later we could be more than friends so until then Im happy with being friends...Thanx anyways for your help
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LOL !! you guys a retarded yo..
PLUS The guy already made his move... he gave her a note and did some flirtin... then walked off with his balls between his legs.... (which is better that up your ....) So We have to turn this thread into
" OHHH HumBLE experienced ones give me Some Advice on making my Second Move!!"
Click Here --->Just one of those days<--- Click Here
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
ok, new girl problem:
unlike what ive told you guys before, i never had a girlfriend. did ya really believe me? suckers!
anyway, ive only been talkin to this girl since half way through the school year. she sat at the table next to mine, and came over to ours sometime cuz a friend sat there, and i usually got pulled into there conversations. sometimes when the friend wasnt there, or the friend went to another table, she sat next to me. im not sure what to make of that, im kind of clueless in the area of girls.
when i was younger, say kindergarten through 3rd grade, i used to just like girls because they were "pretty". this girl is beautiful, but thats not what got me interested. weve been talking online since school got out. in school i kind of labeled her as a boy band lovin barbie girl. but since we started talking outside of school, i found out we share a common love for nobuo uematsu and classical music, we both play piano, we both love video games. beyond that, shes intelligent, smart, witty, funny... i could go on. seems compatible to me. we talked for literally 3 or four hours each night since school got out about these things.
we kind of think the same way too. we dont like things because of what they are... its because we enjoy them. we talk about that too... and how every1 at school likes on genre...
i dunno, she makes me happy when i talk to her. but then sometimes she just stops typing... i dunno if shes tired of me, or if shes embarassed cuz she talked too much, which i dont think. i just dont know. i call these kind of things IMsecureties instead of insecureties, get it? haha... heh. anyway...
weve gone to see a couple movies during the summer too, mind you others were there, but still.
if youve seen my pic in the spam section, you know im not that much o look at, so that goes against me i presume.
one more thing, i suspect another guy is interested in her too. neither of us are really that much to look at, but he tries to talk to her alot. also, the last movie we went to, this guy stole my seat next to her, claiming he had to be in the middle cuz he got the popcorn. anyway...
HELP!!!
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I know... Joking!!!!
Im not a expert at the girl department but i usually talk to girls without any discomfort... im social around them :P but not socially advanced
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To Satan's Disciple (by the way I dont like that name) Blah blah blah, Sob sob sob... Dude that was the Sappyest, most girlish and retarded, Chick FLick Material Story I've ever read...
lol juss joking...............<sigh> Ive read worse.... lol
Dude get off the internet and Call her... if you really like her that much to right a 5 paragraph essay on MMORPG.com for about a couple thousand to see... I'm sure you can get the courage to call her and talk to her... Internet is cool and everything.. But Internet can be very impersonal sometimes.. Know what I mean? You are basically sending and recieving Second hand discussion... I know you want to know what I meant by that... well.. Take this for example
: A friend told you a joke, and you replied with "LoL", or "ROFL".... Were you REALLY laughing out loud? Were you REALLY Rolling on the nasty floor laughing?.... didn't think so..
So atleast if you call her You can really hear her voice.. and her breath... her corny giggle.... her slight snort... her loud Laugh!!!!... her sigh.... hear her cry...........Get the picture??
cut down internet time with her for only casual... Call her when You're interested...COOL?
Click Here --->Just one of those days<--- Click Here
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
holy crap that was 5 paragraphs. i guess i did get kind of soppy... sorry
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and i call her alot, usually just to tell her about a movie or something though... not a long discussion. i guess its not the same thing. what do i do though, just call and start a discussion? how do i do that when all they expect is some quick news? maybe she doesnt even talk on the phone much. most of us just talk online, shes one of the few people whose numbers i have.
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Let The Fear Empower
Let The Fear Empower
.........hmmm Sorry Satan's Disciple you got me stumped there.... Most of the girls i know Love the stupid phone... but I am in a different age group than you...
maybe you should ask another girl what to do bout that... Cuz I really dont think the Internet is very conducive to a relationship.. Internet Most of the time is where you meet friends (UNLess you go to a place strickly for dating) Am I getting off topic? WEll ANyways ask another girl her age .... or sumthing Beats me...
Click Here --->Just one of those days<--- Click Here
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
But she Loves games.. THat makes her a KEEPER... MOS Defnetly
Click Here --->Just one of those days<--- Click Here
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
Satan... i don't know, if you talk a lot that's a good sign but that can also means that you are just becoming good FRIENDS, i am sorry to say that but i SPEAK to a lot of girls and 90% of them are just friends, i can talk about everything without feeling strange. Strange here means that when you talk to a girl you like you got to feel the tension between you, if there is none then i am afraid she just thinks of you as a good friend. Better friends forever then lovers for some time and then never to speak to eachother again. That's what i think.
Talking to someone is as said before way much better then chatting/trough the phone or something like that. Because in person you can see reactions, read the bodylanguage, that is very important. My first guess is since you are talking a lot that she does like you but i don't know like a friend or boyfriend that is up to you.
Try to ask her on a date or go by her house to pay a visit sometime if you think your relation can handle that because (sorry to be so pessimistic) you can loose your friendship with her if she feekls offended or if your relationship doesn't wok out and it ends in a fight. But not all relationships end in a fight sometimes you just like eachother but don't love eachother no more. It happens a lot.
But that's what i am thinking and never forget i don't live in US so that a small difference of culture and behaviour.
One day all will die, surely you but never I.
"One day all will die, surely you but never I." Wheel of Time
Hoy!!! Noypi ako!!!
Gary Singidas!!!
Si Marfe ni
wakekekeke!!
Hoy!!! Noypi ako!!!
Gary Singidas!!!
Si Marfe ni
wakekekeke!!
(o'.')--------oo----('.'o)
(o'.')--------oo----('.'o)
ill hopefully talk to her today. were going to a friends birthday party, and she wants to borrow a couple games from me. hopefully that can be a conversation starter anyway. maybe sometime i could ask if i could go over just to play games or something like that.
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yo satan,
rellllaxxxxx, ease off on the chick a little. you dont want to be up her ass,girls dont like that. And if at the moment she thinks you guys are just friends you dont want to get all awkward with her. relax and lay back a little, gotta act like you dont really care. come off to eager its just going to blow up in your face. pull back, relax, and chill. make her come to you. you say you talk to her all the time on aim. let her IM you first and if she dosn't then just dont talk to her untill she does.(sign off if you have to) don't make her your center of attention. relax and be confident. in all honesty chicks in highschool like guys that are a$$holes(beleive it or not), take a look at the hottest girl in the school-she's prob around or dating the biggest a$$holes. cause in today's day thats what chicks think is cool(not saying all but i'd say most). i'll prob be flamed for saying that, every nerd and there mother is gonna reply" no way, girls like guys that are nice , sweet, and kiss their a$ses blah blah blah" but its not like that anymore, the age of chivalry is down the $hiitter. you know it i know it. wanna get the girl you got to play the game.
Hoy!!! Noypi ako!!!
Gary Singidas!!!
Si Marfe ni
wakekekeke!!
Hoy!!! Noypi ako!!!
Gary Singidas!!!
Si Marfe ni
wakekekeke!!
ehm...gamer chick???
niiice
http://www.facebook.com/murtb
just curious, is she blonde
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'Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in his shoes. That way if he gets angry, he'll be a mile away and barefoot.'-sayings of the wise
sup guys, its the sk8er again and im wondering..............wat the snot is a wu name?!
Wu Name is just basically an Adjective and a noun.. It's not REALLY a wu name... But it's kinda like how the fighters in the Wu-Tang Clan named themselves
like for instance... "Terrible Thunder", or "Marvelous Leader".... "Broken Condom" DONT ban me please!!
Just click on the yellow "Wu Name" below
Click Here --->Just one of those days<--- Click Here
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
What's your Wu Name?
Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
"Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
<i>ME<i>
Okay heres what you do. Forget what ever one has said on this board, because its all wussy boy talk, woman dont like wussys. Second go to www.doubleyourdating.com, subscribe to their newsletter, or you can buy their e-book, or get it by some other means *cough* *cough*. Read it, learn it, use it. You can thank me later.
"When you understand why you reject all other gods but your own, you will understand why I reject yours."
LOL wussy boy talk. Now that one made me laugh... Yeah go to that site and see how many pop-ups you get for pron sites and other dating sites.
If your friend says she likes you just go for it she laughs at you...Beat the crap outta your friend later for lying. Either way you get satisfaction from something. But if you really are as shy as you make yourself then you are screwed, and destined never to have a woman. It's all up to you, your choice choice, your life, your fears.
Just don't debate on it too long cause no one likes to wait...
Good, Evil, I'm the guy with the gun. -Ash, Army of Darkness-
Back in my days of high school, the most popular girls were a-holes also so they did tend to stick to their own kind. I don't see much of that changing now .. I mean hell, I don't see skater chicks dating jocks, or preps dating the intellectually smarter. Nothing really changed ..
Honestly if she's not near your clique, chances are you will be shunned and ignored. So "playing the game" and being something you are not is not always the wise thing, even that could blow up in your face and get you shunned from your normal group of friends.
Also ignoring the girl on Aim or Ym or whatever, really does not work also, So advise like that is something you do not want to take to heart. If she thinks you are friends then be her friend talk and Bs, don't logg off just cause it's "the a-hole" in you. Be a friend, not a punk. Just don't go off being needy, any person hates needy.
Ask her out even if it's as friends just don't crowd her, one day she may get the picture and decide. Never piss her off heh...
Good, Evil, I'm the guy with the gun. -Ash, Army of Darkness-
Something fun to do than just type advise the whole time heh...
Good, Evil, I'm the guy with the gun. -Ash, Army of Darkness-
hmm I know the original thread starter has probably gotten what he needed already. All I can say from another girl's point of view is this:
There is no one kind of girl. If you think you have one way to 'rule them all' (ehehe sorry I couldn't resist) then you are mistaken. Be Confident, Plan ahead, be spontaneous, have a healthy income. Hey all this can apply, or none can apply. The only mistake you can make is doing nothing.
No one has a right to critize you having written a letter, you have done SOMETHING and that's all that counts. We might enjoy an intelligent conversation, but I for one am better won over by action, not talking.
AuroraShine aka Beloved Professional (wu name) uhm yeah
And always...
Let The Fear Empower
Let The Fear Empower