Jabber client for windows 7

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I am looking for a jabber client with some specific functions.
I have spent 1½ day looking for one and it is getting tiresome.

Clients that I have been using, that have what I need, but I am not interesting for a reason in are: 

* Pidgin, does not show complete messages in their popups.
* Miranda IM, I have a constant disconnect issue that does not seem to be resolved in my case.

What I need are:

**Popups**
 

• A popup that shows broadcasts to users.
• A popup that show when my username is typed in a conference chat.
• I need to be able to view the full message in the popup. No configuration of a theme to make this enabled, or if there is a working theme for it already.
• Preferable placement is on the top right of the screen.
• Able to 'popup' when running full screen applications, much like games.

**Conferences**

• - Easy access to bookmarked conferences. I do not want to go through sub menus to rejoin a disconnected or closed conference. 
• If I close the conference window I want to be connected to the conference until I exit the client.
• Tabbed interface.

**Configuration**

• Sober configurations, options are great but there is a limit and the above needs to be availablein the options in a understandable manner.

What I wish for:

**MSN**

• Not needed! If it is available then it is a big plus.

**Facebook**

• Not needed! If it is available then it is a big plus.

**Conferences/chats**

• Not needed! Eye candy is always nice.