My Grandmother Died today

pantheron

Hello Everyone, My grandmother died today, at around midnight.  before I start typing, I don't want to get trolled, I don't really have  anywhere else to post this stuff where people will see it, so please don't troll me. if anything it'll be gone from the feed in  a  few minutes anyway. 

 

I'm going to miss my Grandma a lot. In fact, i've mised my grandma for a long time. I haven't really talked to her very much lately, because she can't get out of the house (couldn't get out of the house), and I've been away at college. I loved talking to her when I ws younger. hearing about when she was a kid, and when she was a teenager, and how she loved to play the piano. she accepted  my hobbies and would always listen to me rant about games and anime, when my parents were really dismissive. she never questioned my judgement about what I did with my free time, or my money, and made me feel like an adult, or as much an adult as I wanted to be at  the time. 

 

We started drifting apart when my grandpa died. he died about 8 years ago, when I was 12 or so. She didn't really change, she was very much in love with him, but knew he was in a better place. no, I changed. After he died, I was a  very very cold person; it was the first few years of middle school and I wasn't making many friends, so I changed a lot about me to try and fit in, and I didn't really like who I had become, so I pushed her away. My grandma was a very very religous person, and a bit judgemental, but she loved me and she didn't try to force me to spend time with her, she just hoped that I would get over it and we could go back to how we were I guess. Sadly because Im an idiot that didn't happen. Now she's gone and I wont ever get the chance to be close to her again. 

 

Im sorry for interrupting the MMORPGs here with this, but I had to say something somewhere where people might read it. Have a nice day everyone, sorry to bring you down. 

Zindaihas

My condolences.  I lost my last grandmother about 5 years ago.  When I was young I had a total of 6 grandmothers (this includes great-grandmothers and even a great-great-grandmother) that I have at least some memory of.  And now I have none.

silkroadgame

So sorry to hear that,my grandma had dead for decades when I was a child.It's really a bad time.

Pynda

I've thought about this one for a couple of days, and would just like to say that I don't think you should get too down on yourself. Generations go their own way. That is the nature of things. It always has been. And I'm sure your grandmother realized this and understood.

slygamer1979

Sorry to hear that i lost both my grand parents years ago one went then afew years after the other it was terrible.

but look at it this way no more pain or anything for your grand mother and she's visiting the other family members in heaven :-)

 

TheScavenger

Well, not that this happened with your Grandma. Or maybe it did. Though the time that went by is rather long. But, it is proven that when your significant other dies and you have been with him or her, for so long. The typical time for the other person to die (old couples) is only 1-3 years. This is true with other animals that have long-term commitments as well. Like if a bird gets killed on the road, its mate will sit for up to a year on the side of the road staring at the dead bird (and I've seen this, sadly)...and then just die. Well, I think it was a family of squirrels in this case, but true for a lot of animals. Once the mate dies, the other soon goes after.

 

My Grandparents died a few years ago. My Grandpa got bone cancer, and died a year later. Soon after, my Grandma got bone cancer and died only a year after my Grandpa did. It definitely won't be the same without them.

Otasu

 

My condolences , this is the first day of me checking the forums and i was shock about your post. Anyway again my condolences to your family.

Barbarbar

Your grandma lived in a time where people had respect for each other and good people stuck together. The internet has ruined all that, and I don't know why you post here.

But may she rest in peace, I am sure she did alot good just by being there for you.

I remember when my grandmother was dying, we visited her at the hospital. She had got out of bed and we were sitting round a table, my parents and me and her. I was young and said something foolish. She looked me in the eyes and responded: I am going to die.

And there it was, a child and a grandmother, bonding like only the 2 of them ever could.

 

Elikal

My condolences.

 

I envy you that you have so much memory of your Grandmother. My Grandparents all died when I was very young, so alas I remember little of them. But you will always have the memory.

Stay well.

Precusor

Sorry to hear that.