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methane47methane47 Member UncommonPosts: 3,694
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Ok she calls me we're on the phone for like 30 minutes... and she tells me she doesn't want to be on the phone cuz she's been making calls all day.. I tell her i want to go to sleep before 12 cuz i have a big morning tommorow.... So i comply... we get off the phone (the time is then 10:30) at 11:30 i look down pick my phone off the carpet... apparently it was on silent and she had called me 5 times... and was calling me right then... I answer the phone.... she starts cussin me out for taking so long to answer the phone... She continues the onslaught... i tell her something to the extent that I dont really need to go to bed before 12 that was just a tentative deadline... and she says noooo i want you to go to bed (I should have used the female translating machine and deduced that that last statement was a lie)

I do a couple ring-a-round argumentative tactics and get her under control in minutes we have a great conversation for the next 25 minutes... (it's then 11:55) and I'm getting tired and the convo was slowing a bit... So i tell her i wanted to go to bed... She blows up... Starts using expletives every 3 or so words... and continues on about how All men are liars blah blah... about how she cant trust them... I'm like... (i wish i chose better words) Why is tonite's convo of 20 minutes a problem for you when for the past 2 weeks 5 minutes of your time was all i got before bed...... WOW she blew up in a haze of anger and sadness... Tears flying around like deadly projectiles (note: i was on the phone and I almost got hit)

Anyways we argued for abit... until she said dont call her ever again(Dammit I knew i shoulda kept taht female translation machine).... i said fine.. she hung up... I got ready for bed... 2 minutes later she calls and starts getting angry at the fact that i didn't call her... and I tell her i'm really not up for playing her mind games tonite... And she says that doesn't matter cuz you should have called back... we argued alil bit and she hangs up...  SO i call back and before she says anything I tell her I just dont want to argue anymore... Then she came to and started being nice to me again..... (it is now 12:39) 40 minutes past what i was trying to accomplish...


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  • RufiusRufius Member Posts: 2,031

    Hey look it's that girl I knew couple years ago. lol not really, most girls are cool I talk to and, I'm the psycho. oh wells time for the CHEESE DANCE!!! dada daah dadadada! DAAAH! I say ignore her a little while let her know somethings are a step to far.

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  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718

    You have nice topics but your....topic titles.

    That is one thing I won't understand about females. I wonder if they ever know what they are saying...becuase it seems they can say somthing stupid that will quite possibly end a relationship or somthing. Hummm....I wonder, if there were a female president....OH NOES!

    LAUNCH THE NUKES!!! NOW!!!

    20 MIN LATER

    I'M SORRY...PLEASE DON'T START A WAR WITH US...WITH SUGAR ON TOP...

     (JK....but really though...makes you wonder)

    I think that could be every man's weakness...except for the nasty ones.

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  • DaEm0nDaEm0n Member Posts: 520

    Well, what can you do, dude? If she's on PMS, then you'll just have to wait until she's off it.

    *looks at Rufius who's doing the Cheese Dance*

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  • paranoidpvpparanoidpvp Member Posts: 539

    And they wonder why there are so many anti-femenists around...

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  • paranoidpvpparanoidpvp Member Posts: 539

    And they wonder why there are so many anti-femenists around...

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  • loreofchaosloreofchaos Member Posts: 316

    Originally posted by methane47
    Ok she calls me we're on the phone for like 30 minutes... and she tells me she doesn't want to be on the phone cuz she's been making calls all day.. I tell her i want to go to sleep before 12 cuz i have a big morning tommorow.... So i comply... we get off the phone (the time is then 10:30) at 11:30 i look down pick my phone off the carpet... apparently it was on silent and she had called me 5 times... and was calling me right then... I answer the phone.... she starts cussin me out for taking so long to answer the phone... She continues the onslaught... i tell her something to the extent that I dont really need to go to bed before 12 that was just a tentative deadline... and she says noooo i want you to go to bed (I should have used the female translating machine and deduced that that last statement was a lie)

    I do a couple ring-a-round argumentative tactics and get her under control in minutes we have a great conversation for the next 25 minutes... (it's then 11:55) and I'm getting tired and the convo was slowing a bit... So i tell her i wanted to go to bed... She blows up... Starts using expletives every 3 or so words... and continues on about how All men are liars blah blah... about how she cant trust them... I'm like... (i wish i chose better words) Why is tonite's convo of 20 minutes a problem for you when for the past 2 weeks 5 minutes of your time was all i got before bed...... WOW she blew up in a haze of anger and sadness... Tears flying around like deadly projectiles (note: i was on the phone and I almost got hit)

    Anyways we argued for abit... until she said dont call her ever again(Dammit I knew i shoulda kept taht female translation machine).... i said fine.. she hung up... I got ready for bed... 2 minutes later she calls and starts getting angry at the fact that i didn't call her... and I tell her i'm really not up for playing her mind games tonite... And she says that doesn't matter cuz you should have called back... we argued alil bit and she hangs up...  SO i call back and before she says anything I tell her I just dont want to argue anymore... Then she came to and started being nice to me again..... (it is now 12:39) 40 minutes past what i was trying to accomplish...

    You are just having the kind of trouble I have... Of course I don't cuss at her much...I just let her tell me what she has to say and I say "Ok I am sorry...can I sleep now?". Trust me wemon get complicated you just have to know how to handle it. I have had scar's left on me..(My girlfriend get's extremely voilent so your girlfriend's pms is baby food compared to mine). Yea sometimes they will get rough. You just got to be nice to them. And sometime's you really need to hear them out. Even if they call before the deadline of your bed time. That's just the way it is, you have to treat wemon nice. Trust me it can be a bitch. Speaking of which I am going to call mine.

    Take a deep drink of your demon Lad, tonight we tangle with the fire in the gut.

  • NeptusNeptus Member UncommonPosts: 988

    My gf just broke up with me, out of no where he calls me and says that she doesn't want to start a relationship (which we've been dating for 5 months, I dunno what's wrong with her)
    It was like 10 p.m. and I was asleep when she called.
    All I could say was "Ok....., good night."
    I hang up the phone.
    Two minutes later the phone rings again, after letting it ring eight times I pick it up.

    Her-"Is that all you can say is Ok?!"
    Me-"Yeah, because I didn't do anything wrong, so you probably found a good guy with herpies so enjoy I'm going back asleep."

    That was a little bit ago......

    She was awesome before that happened...., She went to her sisters in California for a couple of weeks. I guess she did something...

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  • MajorBiggsMajorBiggs Member UncommonPosts: 709
    ugh..i know what you mean.

    having a relationship = complicates the shit out of everything until you can cut the tension with a KNIFE

    i had the same probs as you..luckily she grew out of being a bitch.

  • //\//\oo//\//\oo Member, Newbie CommonPosts: 2,767

    Originally posted by methane47


                   
              

                  I am not one for phone conversations, but you should have left it on silent after you had seen the "5 times" that she had called; you could have told her that you had gone to sleep and set the phone on silent, since you didn't want to be disturbed.

              She could have called you reckless at best.  You've got to learn how to lie better.

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  • ViolentYViolentY Member Posts: 1,458
    I hate women. I wish I was gay, it'd make things so much easier.

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    Io ardo, e l'arsion mia non par di fore."
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  • HocheteHochete Member CommonPosts: 1,210

    tbh tihs is exactly why i say women shouldnt be allowed into politics. or the work place.

    or outside.

  • cumbomcumbom Member CommonPosts: 544

    Dump her.  They key to happy relationships is the willingness to end the bad ones.

    Always be prepared to end the relationship, don't be trapped by the "oh but..." and the "its not that bad...".



    SWG RIP
    moctodumegws
    Can't WAIT!

  • HocheteHochete Member CommonPosts: 1,210

    Originally posted by cumbom
    Dump her.  They key to happy relationships is the willingness to end the bad ones.

    Always be prepared to end the relationship, don't be trapped by the "oh but..." and the "its not that bad...".

    in strict fairness, if you use that logic you'll never -ever- stay in a relationship for more than a week.. ALL women are the same, it's just nature. unfortunately we just have to learn to put up with it.
  • HocheteHochete Member CommonPosts: 1,210
    oopsey daisy double postz0rs
  • cumbomcumbom Member CommonPosts: 544

    Originally posted by Hohbein

    Originally posted by cumbom
    Dump her.  They key to happy relationships is the willingness to end the bad ones.

    Always be prepared to end the relationship, don't be trapped by the "oh but..." and the "its not that bad...".

    in strict fairness, if you use that logic you'll never -ever- stay in a relationship for more than a week.. ALL women are the same, it's just nature. unfortunately we just have to learn to put up with it.
    I am not saying that you should always just END a relationship, just always leave that option open.

    Women, like most people in relationships, will do to you what you allow them to.  If you allow a woman to walk all over you she will.  Same goes for women, if they allow a man to walk all over them, they will.

    If your GF can't handle her hormones once a month, tell her that for that period of time you don't want to see her.

    If your girlfriend treats you badly, break up with her.

    I have had some really crazy relationships, with women I would swear on my life must be clinically insane, and I stayed in them and just took it.  That was my mistake.  Now I am going on three years with my girlfriend and she isn't crazy, and neither am I.


    SWG RIP
    moctodumegws
    Can't WAIT!

  • ShadusShadus Member UncommonPosts: 669

    Originally posted by methane47
    Ok she calls me we're ...<SNIP>... what i was trying to accomplish...

    Most grow out of it eventually (usually by mid 20s), and those that don't aren't worth pissing with.

    Edit: for those who have recent left bad relationships... enjoy!

    (PG-13ish)

    Shadus

  • shaeshae Member Posts: 2,509

    Meth, honestly, tell her to grow the f%^k up!

    Yes, PMS sucks and for sure the first few days of "that time" is an irritation that I really don't think any guy could ever really understand but really, there's no reason for anything that crazy to happen. Your a crazy boyfriend for taking it on the chin like that and all but no one should just take random abuse because she happens to be in a pissy mood.

    Although, she could be one of those girls that has a severe medical hormonal imbalance during her cycle, in which case, tell to see a freaking doctor and take it easy on you.

    Now, if it has nothing to do with PMS or her cycle, Meth... you've got a drama queen on your hands. In that case run little friend.... run!

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  • abbabaabbaba Member Posts: 1,143

    Originally posted by methane47
    Ok she calls me we're on the phone for like 30 minutes... and she tells me she doesn't want to be on the phone cuz she's been making calls all day.. I tell her i want to go to sleep before 12 cuz i have a big morning tommorow.... So i comply... we get off the phone (the time is then 10:30) at 11:30 i look down pick my phone off the carpet... apparently it was on silent and she had called me 5 times... and was calling me right then... I answer the phone.... she starts cussin me out for taking so long to answer the phone... She continues the onslaught... i tell her something to the extent that I dont really need to go to bed before 12 that was just a tentative deadline... and she says noooo i want you to go to bed (I should have used the female translating machine and deduced that that last statement was a lie)

    I do a couple ring-a-round argumentative tactics and get her under control in minutes we have a great conversation for the next 25 minutes... (it's then 11:55) and I'm getting tired and the convo was slowing a bit... So i tell her i wanted to go to bed... She blows up... Starts using expletives every 3 or so words... and continues on about how All men are liars blah blah... about how she cant trust them... I'm like... (i wish i chose better words) Why is tonite's convo of 20 minutes a problem for you when for the past 2 weeks 5 minutes of your time was all i got before bed...... WOW she blew up in a haze of anger and sadness... Tears flying around like deadly projectiles (note: i was on the phone and I almost got hit)

    Anyways we argued for abit... until she said dont call her ever again(Dammit I knew i shoulda kept taht female translation machine).... i said fine.. she hung up... I got ready for bed... 2 minutes later she calls and starts getting angry at the fact that i didn't call her... and I tell her i'm really not up for playing her mind games tonite... And she says that doesn't matter cuz you should have called back... we argued alil bit and she hangs up...  SO i call back and before she says anything I tell her I just dont want to argue anymore... Then she came to and started being nice to me again..... (it is now 12:39) 40 minutes past what i was trying to accomplish...

    Turn your phone off. Problem solved.
  • methane47methane47 Member UncommonPosts: 3,694

    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X

    You have nice topics but your....topic titles.
    That is one thing I won't understand about females. I wonder if they ever know what they are saying...becuase it seems they can say somthing stupid that will quite possibly end a relationship or somthing. Hummm....I wonder, if there were a female president....OH NOES!

    As for the title ... LOL sorry man.. seems like i can't get that right... I thought my title was pretty descriptive.. :D

    As for females in power... I think another guy in another thread said it right. He said something along the lines of "I'm Declaring War on you and your whole country.... (five hours later)... I'm sorry i didn't really mean that poopiekins ... you forgive me?" lol..

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    Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
    Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
    "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
    <i>ME<i>

  • methane47methane47 Member UncommonPosts: 3,694

    Originally posted by shae

    Meth, honestly, tell her to grow the f%^k up!
    Yes, PMS sucks and for sure the first few days of "that time" is an irritation that I really don't think any guy could ever really understand but really, there's no reason for anything that crazy to happen. Your a crazy boyfriend for taking it on the chin like that and all but no one should just take random abuse because she happens to be in a pissy mood.
    Although, she could be one of those girls that has a severe medical hormonal imbalance during her cycle, in which case, tell to see a freaking doctor and take it easy on you.
    Now, if it has nothing to do with PMS or her cycle, Meth... you've got a drama queen on your hands. In that case run little friend.... run!
    I have to admit my Gf IS alittle bit of a drama queen. I usually dont take it... I usually get angry at her for getting angry at me for stupid crap... but last night I figured it'd be best I just raise the flag.... Cuz usually i'm really stubborn ESPECIALLYYY WHEN i know i'm right... It took alot but i just decided i should end the argument or else i would get to sleep at 4 cuz she's really stubborn too.

    It isn't all her fault though... I tried to tell the whole story but i'm sure I still biased it more my way... (I really didn't do anything wrong... just a couple misplaced comments) ... One part of the conversation that I almost cracked up on when she was pissed... was she told me "AnD YOurrr the Sane one how can you treat me like this?!!"... LOL

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    What's your Wu Name?
    Donovan --> Wu Name = Violent Knight
    Methane47 --> Wu Name = Thunderous Leader
    "Some people call me the walking plank, 'cuz any where you go... Death is right behind you.."
    <i>ME<i>

  • TechleoTechleo Member Posts: 1,984
        Shae is totaly right. Allowing women to use anything as a excuse, especially just because shes female, is suicide. Dont get me wrong, even the best relationships teeter on the edge of insanity from time to time. The main thing to remember is NOT to expect it! Ive always told my wife that I want to work on a stable and healthy relationship and when she has a issue to work it out with or without me. Tends to work out thru the years. Drama is a disease. You dont live with it, you treat it

  • Link4009Link4009 Member Posts: 74

    Originally posted by Techleo
        Shae is totaly right. Allowing women to use anything as a excuse, especially just because shes female, is suicide. Dont get me wrong, even the best relationships teeter on the edge of insanity from time to time. The main thing to remember is NOT to expect it! Ive always told my wife that I want to work on a stable and healthy relationship and when she has a issue to work it out with or without me. Tends to work out thru the years. Drama is a disease. You dont live with it, you treat it


    Important advice!!!


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  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718
    Do girls get stronger during Pmsing becuase my last girl almost punched me in the nose for no reason...

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  • britocabritoca Member Posts: 1,484
    to the OP:  this is how u gain XP

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  • XeximaXexima Member UncommonPosts: 2,698

    Originally posted by britoca
    to the OP:  this is how u gain XP


    Yay, grinding girl friends.
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