Sure, depending on the guy, I MAY be attracted to him. But that's bloody rare.
Im more attracted to the female body.
Im not a tomboy. I'm a girly girl. I like to shop, go out to the movies, But I also love to read, draw, paint, read manga, anime, dance ( ddr ftw ) and etc. Im also even on ROTC, and hope to become a Lanquist for the AirFoce as well. But I'd rather be a novel writter and an artist ( I do fantasy and wildlife ) the airforce is like a plan B.
Originally posted by kimosabe Don't listen to him. You wouldn't be attracted to Xexima anyway; from what I've heard, he was Dr. Cohen's therapy back-up plan.
Originally posted by SmurfMagic there is a gay guy at work who is a real flamer, but hes nice. He acts more girly than girls do... why do gay men do this?
Most of them don't. Most you wouldn't even know were gay unless they told you or you saw him with another guy together.
Originally posted by SmurfMagic there is a gay guy at work who is a real flamer, but hes nice. He acts more girly than girls do... why do gay men do this?
Xexima is right. Most of us don't.
I don't know why some gay guys do. Maybe it's because they feel so different that they think they have to act different. If someone is shunned and outcast then it makes different people react differently than others.
Most straight people don't know this, but there is a split in the gay community. At least with the men. The girly acting guys usually hang out with themselves and us "straight" acting guys usually hang together. I am not trying to put down the girly acting gays, but they're just not my type. I don't really like being around them. I'm not saying I'm better than them, just different.
And I most certainly could never date a girly acting man. I like men, who act like men.
But it's true, us "straight" acting gays are the majority. You just don't know us when you pass us on the street, or even when you work with us or are around us a lot. I have had people argue with me when I tell them I am gay. I guess I just burst their stereotype and it freaks them out. Then when they meet my other gay friends it really throws them for a loop.
Originally posted by upallnight Originally posted by SmurfMagic there is a gay guy at work who is a real flamer, but hes nice. He acts more girly than girls do... why do gay men do this?
Xexima is right. Most of us don't.
I don't know why some gay guys do. Maybe it's because they feel so different that they think they have to act different. If someone is shunned and outcast then it makes different people react differently than others.
Most straight people don't know this, but there is a split in the gay community. At least with the men. The girly acting guys usually hang out with themselves and us "straight" acting guys usually hang together. I am not trying to put down the girly acting gays, but they're just not my type. I don't really like being around them. I'm not saying I'm better than them, just different.
And I most certainly could never date a girly acting man. I like men, who act like men.
But it's true, us "straight" acting gays are the majority. You just don't know us when you pass us on the street, or even when you work with us or are around us a lot. I have had people argue with me when I tell them I am gay. I guess I just burst their stereotype and it freaks them out. Then when they meet my other gay friends it really throws them for a loop.
I agree. Being a girl that prefers girls, I act like a girl, and not a man. Im not butch, and Im not a tomboy. And I like other girly girls. I dislike butches and manly woman. They scare the crap out of me anyways.
And 70% of my friends are gay/lesbian/bi/whatever as well at school. Good thing my school doesn't have a major problem with homosexuals, because there's so many of us in it.
But not only that, if you were to go to my school and walk around the halls during passing periods or lunch time. You wouldn't be able to tell at all that there are just as many homosexuals as there are straights.
Besides, most of us prefer kissing and being with our mates where no one can see us. The same can be said for the straight couples at my school.
Personally, Im agaisn't pda. I don't like seeing ANYONE at all, kiss or grope or have sex with their clothing on at school, or even in public at all. I think that should be done in private. It's rude and it's not very fun to look at, at all.
And yet I hear kids bitching about two lesbians kisses ( two of my best friends are lesbians ) or two gay men kissing ( another couple Im friends with ) when they kiss in public. But than those same people who were bitching about it go to their mates and do the same thing. I call this double standard, and it's total bullshit.
Fuckers.
^^
I also have several christian friends. And you know what? They don't have their heads up their asses at all. Oh no, not at all. They got over the fact that just because their religion says it's a sin, doesn't mean everyone else's religion says the same. And I adore them greatly for it. They are open minded and caring after all. I only wish everyone else was similar in this sort of way.
Bah. Im just a hateful girl. And rightly so. It's not fun being made fun of, tormented and and likes almost daily. Even at my school we have haters that have nothing better to do with their time but hate, hate, hate.
And it makes me sad to know that those kind of people are allowed to breed, thus poisening our human species and gene's.
Originally posted by LilithIshtar Originally posted by upallnight Originally posted by SmurfMagic there is a gay guy at work who is a real flamer, but hes nice. He acts more girly than girls do... why do gay men do this?
Xexima is right. Most of us don't.
I don't know why some gay guys do. Maybe it's because they feel so different that they think they have to act different. If someone is shunned and outcast then it makes different people react differently than others.
Most straight people don't know this, but there is a split in the gay community. At least with the men. The girly acting guys usually hang out with themselves and us "straight" acting guys usually hang together. I am not trying to put down the girly acting gays, but they're just not my type. I don't really like being around them. I'm not saying I'm better than them, just different.
And I most certainly could never date a girly acting man. I like men, who act like men.
But it's true, us "straight" acting gays are the majority. You just don't know us when you pass us on the street, or even when you work with us or are around us a lot. I have had people argue with me when I tell them I am gay. I guess I just burst their stereotype and it freaks them out. Then when they meet my other gay friends it really throws them for a loop.
I agree. Being a girl that prefers girls, I act like a girl, and not a man. Im not butch, and Im not a tomboy. And I like other girly girls. I dislike butches and manly woman. They scare the crap out of me anyways.
And 70% of my friends are gay/lesbian/bi/whatever as well at school. Good thing my school doesn't have a major problem with homosexuals, because there's so many of us in it.
But not only that, if you were to go to my school and walk around the halls during passing periods or lunch time. You wouldn't be able to tell at all that there are just as many homosexuals as there are straights.
Besides, most of us prefer kissing and being with our mates where no one can see us. The same can be said for the straight couples at my school.
Personally, Im agaisn't pda. I don't like seeing ANYONE at all, kiss or grope or have sex with their clothing on at school, or even in public at all. I think that should be done in private. It's rude and it's not very fun to look at, at all.
And yet I hear kids bitching about two lesbians kisses ( two of my best friends are lesbians ) or two gay men kissing ( another couple Im friends with ) when they kiss in public. But than those same people who were bitching about it go to their mates and do the same thing. I call this double standard, and it's total bullshit.
Fuckers.
^^
I also have several christian friends. And you know what? They don't have their heads up their asses at all. Oh no, not at all. They got over the fact that just because their religion says it's a sin, doesn't mean everyone else's religion says the same. And I adore them greatly for it. They are open minded and caring after all. I only wish everyone else was similar in this sort of way.
Bah. Im just a hateful girl. And rightly so. It's not fun being made fun of, tormented and and likes almost daily. Even at my school we have haters that have nothing better to do with their time but hate, hate, hate.
And it makes me sad to know that those kind of people are allowed to breed, thus poisening our human species and gene's.
Well, to be honest for a long time I was a hater. I felt it was un natural but as time went on i have seen that gays are just people too and they happent to prefer being with someone the same sex. I guess as long as people dont push things into each others faces and just be nice to one another we can all be happy.
Does anyone know a homosexual that has been "healed"? I know my gay friends all have tried to be straight at one time or another, but they all are still gay. And to be quite blunt, show me a gay person who has changed to straight, and I'll show you a bisexual person denying their desire for the same sex.
And I don't think laying in some guys lap or beating something with a tennis racket is going to change anyone. Other than being absolutely hilarious, doing that stuff is pointless.
Originally posted by reavo Does anyone know a homosexual that has been "healed"? I know my gay friends all have tried to be straight at one time or another, but they all are still gay. And to be quite blunt, show me a gay person who has changed to straight, and I'll show you a bisexual person denying their desire for the same sex.
And I don't think laying in some guys lap or beating something with a tennis racket is going to change anyone. Other than being absolutely hilarious, doing that stuff is pointless.
Actually, I wouldn't doubt that there are a lot of bisexuals that deny their desire, so your analogy (is it an analogy?) doesn't really work...
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Je mettrai l'amour sur dos de moi.
(but I'm nowhere near as ugly as kuzzle )
I don't know why some gay guys do. Maybe it's because they feel so different that they think they have to act different. If someone is shunned and outcast then it makes different people react differently than others.
Most straight people don't know this, but there is a split in the gay community. At least with the men. The girly acting guys usually hang out with themselves and us "straight" acting guys usually hang together. I am not trying to put down the girly acting gays, but they're just not my type. I don't really like being around them. I'm not saying I'm better than them, just different.
And I most certainly could never date a girly acting man. I like men, who act like men.
But it's true, us "straight" acting gays are the majority. You just don't know us when you pass us on the street, or even when you work with us or are around us a lot. I have had people argue with me when I tell them I am gay. I guess I just burst their stereotype and it freaks them out. Then when they meet my other gay friends it really throws them for a loop.
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I don't know why some gay guys do. Maybe it's because they feel so different that they think they have to act different. If someone is shunned and outcast then it makes different people react differently than others.
Most straight people don't know this, but there is a split in the gay community. At least with the men. The girly acting guys usually hang out with themselves and us "straight" acting guys usually hang together. I am not trying to put down the girly acting gays, but they're just not my type. I don't really like being around them. I'm not saying I'm better than them, just different.
And I most certainly could never date a girly acting man. I like men, who act like men.
But it's true, us "straight" acting gays are the majority. You just don't know us when you pass us on the street, or even when you work with us or are around us a lot. I have had people argue with me when I tell them I am gay. I guess I just burst their stereotype and it freaks them out. Then when they meet my other gay friends it really throws them for a loop.
I agree. Being a girl that prefers girls, I act like a girl, and not a man. Im not butch, and Im not a tomboy.
And I like other girly girls. I dislike butches and manly woman. They scare the crap out of me anyways.
And 70% of my friends are gay/lesbian/bi/whatever as well at school. Good thing my school doesn't have a major problem with homosexuals, because there's so many of us in it.
But not only that, if you were to go to my school and walk around the halls during passing periods or lunch time. You wouldn't be able to tell at all that there are just as many homosexuals as there are straights.
Besides, most of us prefer kissing and being with our mates where no one can see us. The same can be said for the straight couples at my school.
Personally, Im agaisn't pda. I don't like seeing ANYONE at all, kiss or grope or have sex with their clothing on at school, or even in public at all. I think that should be done in private. It's rude and it's not very fun to look at, at all.
And yet I hear kids bitching about two lesbians kisses ( two of my best friends are lesbians ) or two gay men kissing ( another couple Im friends with ) when they kiss in public. But than those same people who were bitching about it go to their mates and do the same thing. I call this double standard, and it's total bullshit.
Fuckers.
^^
I also have several christian friends. And you know what? They don't have their heads up their asses at all. Oh no, not at all. They got over the fact that just because their religion says it's a sin, doesn't mean everyone else's religion says the same. And I adore them greatly for it. They are open minded and caring after all. I only wish everyone else was similar in this sort of way.
Bah. Im just a hateful girl. And rightly so. It's not fun being made fun of, tormented and and likes almost daily. Even at my school we have haters that have nothing better to do with their time but hate, hate, hate.
And it makes me sad to know that those kind of people are allowed to breed, thus poisening our human species and gene's.
Independant, Shinto, Lesbian, and Proud!
I don't know why some gay guys do. Maybe it's because they feel so different that they think they have to act different. If someone is shunned and outcast then it makes different people react differently than others.
Most straight people don't know this, but there is a split in the gay community. At least with the men. The girly acting guys usually hang out with themselves and us "straight" acting guys usually hang together. I am not trying to put down the girly acting gays, but they're just not my type. I don't really like being around them. I'm not saying I'm better than them, just different.
And I most certainly could never date a girly acting man. I like men, who act like men.
But it's true, us "straight" acting gays are the majority. You just don't know us when you pass us on the street, or even when you work with us or are around us a lot. I have had people argue with me when I tell them I am gay. I guess I just burst their stereotype and it freaks them out. Then when they meet my other gay friends it really throws them for a loop.
I agree. Being a girl that prefers girls, I act like a girl, and not a man. Im not butch, and Im not a tomboy.
And I like other girly girls. I dislike butches and manly woman. They scare the crap out of me anyways.
And 70% of my friends are gay/lesbian/bi/whatever as well at school. Good thing my school doesn't have a major problem with homosexuals, because there's so many of us in it.
But not only that, if you were to go to my school and walk around the halls during passing periods or lunch time. You wouldn't be able to tell at all that there are just as many homosexuals as there are straights.
Besides, most of us prefer kissing and being with our mates where no one can see us. The same can be said for the straight couples at my school.
Personally, Im agaisn't pda. I don't like seeing ANYONE at all, kiss or grope or have sex with their clothing on at school, or even in public at all. I think that should be done in private. It's rude and it's not very fun to look at, at all.
And yet I hear kids bitching about two lesbians kisses ( two of my best friends are lesbians ) or two gay men kissing ( another couple Im friends with ) when they kiss in public. But than those same people who were bitching about it go to their mates and do the same thing. I call this double standard, and it's total bullshit.
Fuckers.
^^
I also have several christian friends. And you know what? They don't have their heads up their asses at all. Oh no, not at all. They got over the fact that just because their religion says it's a sin, doesn't mean everyone else's religion says the same. And I adore them greatly for it. They are open minded and caring after all. I only wish everyone else was similar in this sort of way.
Bah. Im just a hateful girl. And rightly so. It's not fun being made fun of, tormented and and likes almost daily. Even at my school we have haters that have nothing better to do with their time but hate, hate, hate.
And it makes me sad to know that those kind of people are allowed to breed, thus poisening our human species and gene's.
Well, to be honest for a long time I was a hater. I felt it was un natural but as time went on i have seen that gays are just people too and they happent to prefer being with someone the same sex. I guess as long as people dont push things into each others faces and just be nice to one another we can all be happy.
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Je mettrai l'amour sur dos de moi.
And I don't think laying in some guys lap or beating something with a tennis racket is going to change anyone. Other than being absolutely hilarious, doing that stuff is pointless.
Gays don't just turn straight.