Originally posted by modjoe86 Originally posted by Aelfinn The one example of the perfect woman for me is looking over my shoulder right now
We all know you're just saying that because she's watching you type it and you might get a happy ending tonight.
I suppose no male could possibly have another reason to say something nice about a woman?
I'd be a bald faced liar if I said that wouldnt be appreciated, but that was not the goal when I said that.
And no, shes not here this time
No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee. Hemingway
Originally posted by modjoe86 Originally posted by Aelfinn The one example of the perfect woman for me is looking over my shoulder right now
We all know you're just saying that because she's watching you type it and you might get a happy ending tonight.
I suppose no male could possibly have another reason to say something nice about a woman?
Indeed. Clearly.
Troll comments (above) aside - i'd say it's completely impossible to define what I actually look for in a girl. I've spent ages thinking about girls i've gone for before/the current girl i 'want' (for lack of a better word) and there's NOTHING similar on the surface/personality between them. Just lots of weird 'desires' they share. And no, I don't mean anything sexual... Things like they've all wanted to dye part of their hair pink... Just weird little things that have made me think "Sh*t..." The only thing that truely clinches it for me with a person is their face. I somehow attach to faces/smiles a lot. I can't even describe (or work out for myself) what it is for me that makes a face attractive - all my friends say the girls I've liked have looked nothing alike - but it's just something... If I'm happy lay in complete silence with nothing to think about or do except stare at a picture of a girl's face and think about them for hours on end... Then i've got it bad
Uh... Well, really, I've never had a girlfriend, so... Hell, I've never really had any regular friends. Anyway, yeah...
1: Compatible personality. Getting along is probably the most important thing. I mean, I agree with what upallnight said, but, you know... about women, though. If they're a jerk, or maybe in this cas, a bitch, then it's all out the window.
2: Slim. I don't like big boobs, or fat asses. Now, I know some people are going to be like "But I saw your picture! You're no skinny kid yourself!" and, well, I know it's kind of hypocritical, but I'd lose weight if I could. I mean, hell, I've been on an admittedly somewhat loose diet for months now. Now if I could just work in some excercise... Anyway, yeah, slim is best. This doesn't mean that they need to be skinny as a rail, now. It's more of a body shape issue. There are some women who weigh hardly anything, and all of their weight is distributed into their boobs and butt, and I find that look, quite frankly, rather unattractive. No offense meant to anyone, it's simply not my cup o' tea.
3: Independant, but not distant. I want to be involved in their life, and I'd like them involved in mine, but sometimes they need to deal with their own problems. Same goes for me: Sometimes, I've gotta deal with my own problems.
4: No bleach blondes, or fake/lazy tans. Having a tan because you spend your time outside actually doing something, fine. Having a tan because you chose to spend a couple hours lazing about on the beach instead of actually doing something, stupid. Oh, and fake tans are just ugly. If you want a tan, go out and do something, don't just sit on the beach/porch/tanning salon, or whatever.
5: Attractive face. Don't know how to explain this better. Some people have it, some don't.
6: Rule #1 can override some of the other rules, but it takes some time.
I really don't know what I'm looking for. I find myself terribly ugly. Only a few girls have ever considered me "hot", I don't understand why anyone would. Most girls (ones in middle school, at least), claim they only want a guy that would care about them, talk to them, and be understanding. Bullshit. The majority of adolescent girls expect much more, but are too ignorant to admit it.
I guess I want a girl that will make me feel like I'm worth something. I'm not going to feel like I'm worth much if I'm going out with an ugly girl so that won't work... I want a girl that looks at least decent but is nice as well... I almost dated a girl like this until I found she smoked marijuana and claimed to have no regrets about anything.
Originally posted by opeth313x I really don't know what I'm looking for. I find myself terribly ugly. Only a few girls have ever considered me "hot", I don't understand why anyone would. Most girls (ones in middle school, at least), claim they only want a guy that would care about them, talk to them, and be understanding. Bullshit. The majority of adolescent girls expect much more, but are too ignorant to admit it.
I guess I want a girl that will make me feel like I'm worth something. I'm not going to feel like I'm worth much if I'm going out with an ugly girl so that won't work... I want a girl that looks at least decent but is nice as well... I almost dated a girl like this until I found she smoked marijuana and claimed to have no regrets about anything.
I don't know much about women... Or myself.
Well you're 13, so your life hasn't even really started yet so you have plennnty of time to work things out. Girls dig confidence. You know those football movies where the fat guy that plays football is still super popular? It's because the jocks usually have more confidence. I'm not saying "go out and play football because that will make you cool" but a little self-confidence goes a loooong way with the ladies. It took me a while to realize that, but once I did, my odds with girls I thought were out of my league shot way up.
I guess I want a girl that will make me feel like I'm worth something.
No woman will ever do that and if they do, your in big trouble. This has to come from within...
And women are dishonest (would'nt go to the extreme you do), but looks is a lot higher up on their lists then 4, 5, 6, and not mentioned.
--When you resubscribe to SWG, an 18 yearold Stripper finds Jesus, gives up stripping, and moves with a rolex reverend to Hawaii. --In MMORPG's l007 is the opiate of the masses. --The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence! --CCP could cut off an Eve player's fun bits, and that player would say that it was good CCP did that.
Someone who's funny, laughs at my jokes, understands how to give someone their space, able to communicate, has goals, spontaneous, energetic, attractive, wild, BDSM, dark hair, soft skin.
I don't mind if they don't cook or clean, I don't mind that. Also someone with a job. That usually works out pretty well too.
Wait, didn't I just describe pretty much what everyone looks for?
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I suppose no male could possibly have another reason to say something nice about a woman?
I'd be a bald faced liar if I said that wouldnt be appreciated, but that was not the goal when I said that.
And no, shes not here this time
No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.
Hemingway
I suppose no male could possibly have another reason to say something nice about a woman?
I'd be a bald faced liar if I said that wouldnt be appreciated, but that was not the goal when I said that.
And no, shes not here this time
I thought it was kinda sweet... Then again that was probably what you were going for.
I suppose no male could possibly have another reason to say something nice about a woman?
Indeed. Clearly.
Troll comments (above) aside - i'd say it's completely impossible to define what I actually look for in a girl. I've spent ages thinking about girls i've gone for before/the current girl i 'want' (for lack of a better word) and there's NOTHING similar on the surface/personality between them. Just lots of weird 'desires' they share. And no, I don't mean anything sexual... Things like they've all wanted to dye part of their hair pink... Just weird little things that have made me think "Sh*t..." The only thing that truely clinches it for me with a person is their face. I somehow attach to faces/smiles a lot. I can't even describe (or work out for myself) what it is for me that makes a face attractive - all my friends say the girls I've liked have looked nothing alike - but it's just something... If I'm happy lay in complete silence with nothing to think about or do except stare at a picture of a girl's face and think about them for hours on end... Then i've got it bad
Uh... Well, really, I've never had a girlfriend, so... Hell, I've never really had any regular friends.
Anyway, yeah...
1: Compatible personality. Getting along is probably the most important thing. I mean, I agree with what upallnight said, but, you know... about women, though. If they're a jerk, or maybe in this cas, a bitch, then it's all out the window.
2: Slim. I don't like big boobs, or fat asses. Now, I know some people are going to be like "But I saw your picture! You're no skinny kid yourself!" and, well, I know it's kind of hypocritical, but I'd lose weight if I could. I mean, hell, I've been on an admittedly somewhat loose diet for months now. Now if I could just work in some excercise... Anyway, yeah, slim is best. This doesn't mean that they need to be skinny as a rail, now. It's more of a body shape issue. There are some women who weigh hardly anything, and all of their weight is distributed into their boobs and butt, and I find that look, quite frankly, rather unattractive. No offense meant to anyone, it's simply not my cup o' tea.
3: Independant, but not distant. I want to be involved in their life, and I'd like them involved in mine, but sometimes they need to deal with their own problems. Same goes for me: Sometimes, I've gotta deal with my own problems.
4: No bleach blondes, or fake/lazy tans. Having a tan because you spend your time outside actually doing something, fine. Having a tan because you chose to spend a couple hours lazing about on the beach instead of actually doing something, stupid. Oh, and fake tans are just ugly. If you want a tan, go out and do something, don't just sit on the beach/porch/tanning salon, or whatever.
5: Attractive face. Don't know how to explain this better. Some people have it, some don't.
6: Rule #1 can override some of the other rules, but it takes some time.
Ok, well, I tried...
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I guess I want a girl that will make me feel like I'm worth something. I'm not going to feel like I'm worth much if I'm going out with an ugly girl so that won't work... I want a girl that looks at least decent but is nice as well... I almost dated a girl like this until I found she smoked marijuana and claimed to have no regrets about anything.
I don't know much about women... Or myself.
And women are dishonest (would'nt go to the extreme you do), but looks is a lot higher up on their lists then 4, 5, 6, and not mentioned.
--When you resubscribe to SWG, an 18 yearold Stripper finds Jesus, gives up stripping, and moves with a rolex reverend to Hawaii.
--In MMORPG's l007 is the opiate of the masses.
--The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence!
--CCP could cut off an Eve player's fun bits, and that player would say that it was good CCP did that.
Someone who's funny, laughs at my jokes, understands how to give someone their space, able to communicate, has goals, spontaneous, energetic, attractive, wild, BDSM, dark hair, soft skin.
I don't mind if they don't cook or clean, I don't mind that. Also someone with a job. That usually works out pretty well too.
Wait, didn't I just describe pretty much what everyone looks for?