My current girlfriend is 24 and i am 31. I dont see a huge problem with up to 10year age difference once the youngest person involved is in their 20's. She is much more mature than me anyway!
Of course her ex is now 40, and they got together when she was 19 which still freaks me out a bit. What a creep lol.
Originally posted by modjoe86 Originally posted by Rikimaru_X Don't let it bother you too much man. It's just a normal thing. Just don't push it and just keep on having friendly conversations with her. Let her get to know you more and show her how much of a nice guy you are.
I'd have to disagree here and say push it. Your window of opportunity with the rebound isn't very large, and if you waste it trying to let her get to know you, she's going to go out of rebound mode and leave you in the dust. Is this about rebound or love?
Originally posted by Rikimaru_X Don't let it bother you too much man. It's just a normal thing. Just don't push it and just keep on having friendly conversations with her. Let her get to know you more and show her how much of a nice guy you are.
I'd have to disagree here and say push it. Your window of opportunity with the rebound isn't very large, and if you waste it trying to let her get to know you, she's going to go out of rebound mode and leave you in the dust.
Is this about rebound or love?
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. If you want an actual relationship that means something, wait and see what happens. Let things develop naturally and with a little time. If you're looking for an 'in and out' (if you catch my drift) relationship then push it, but I personally don't agree with doing that to anyone who's on the immediate rebound of a 5-year relationship of all things. That's just slimy.
The girl isn't some cripple is she? I mean we are all responsible for our own feelings. They are both adults. If she wants to get it on with him FOR ANY REASON then he should go for it.
It isn't his responsibility to worry about her emotional mental state.
I don't see, in this particular situation, how anyone is taking advantage of anyone. He didn't say anything about doping her with roofies. He hasn't said anything about stealing her idenity in order to run up her credit and make loads of cash.
She broke up with her boyfriend. Big deal, it happens all the time. It really isn't that traumatic an event that requires the person to be handled with care.
This irrational concern for peoples 'feelings' is the problem with this country. We are turning into a nation of sissys. I for one won't stand for it.
Originally posted by Dabble I don't see, in this particular situation, how anyone is taking advantage of anyone. He didn't say anything about doping her with roofies. He hasn't said anything about stealing her idenity in order to run up her credit and make loads of cash. She broke up with her boyfriend. Big deal, it happens all the time. It really isn't that traumatic an event that requires the person to be handled with care.
Have you ever met a girl who just broke up with someone after 5 YEARS? That's how long marriages last nowadays, and whether she lets you know it or not, it's going to be on her mind for quite a while.
It's not called irrational concern. It's called paying attention to how the people you give two shits about feel and think. If he wants a serious relationship and it to go somewhere, then he'll take his time. If he wants sex and nothing more, then he'll go your route. It's up to him when it's all said and done.
March beat me too it. Really though some of you really need some morals, it's really going to hurt when that karma gets back at ya. Like March said: If he wants a serious relationship and it to go somewhere, then he'll take his time. If he wants sex and nothing more, then he'll go your route. It's up to him when it's all said and done.
Originally posted by IdesofMarch Originally posted by Dabble I don't see, in this particular situation, how anyone is taking advantage of anyone. He didn't say anything about doping her with roofies. He hasn't said anything about stealing her idenity in order to run up her credit and make loads of cash. She broke up with her boyfriend. Big deal, it happens all the time. It really isn't that traumatic an event that requires the person to be handled with care.
Have you ever met a girl who just broke up with someone after 5 YEARS? That's how long marriages last nowadays, and whether she lets you know it or not, it's going to be on her mind for quite a while.
It's not called irrational concern. It's called paying attention to how the people you give two shits about feel and think. If he wants a serious relationship and it to go somewhere, then he'll take his time. If he wants sex and nothing more, then he'll go your route. It's up to him when it's all said and done.
We all know how emotionally distraught girls are on the rebound. That, I don't think, is what he's arguing. I'm just saying, and I think Dabble would agree on this, is that taking advantage of a favorable situation isn't the same as taking advantage of the girl. When one enters into rebound sexland, both participants are fully aware that the "relationship" is likely not going anywhere, so I don't see how her feelings are being compromised of a guy recognizes an opportunity and capitalizes on it.
10 years difference is a LOT, unless one is 50+. See, if you're 30 and the other is 20, that mean that 1 person has about double the time to progress than the other, in 10 years it will be a total disaster when the younger has about 2/3 of the time to progress...
I never ask for my sweety half to be a genius or whatever, but...10 years? I rather take a Foreign woman than a girl 10 years younger/older, even if she can't speak with me we would prolly understand each other better than someone 10 years "off" (by foreign I mean a girl that speak neither french nor english)! What are you going to talk/do about with someone 10 years younger/older? I mean, if you are interested in the same topic...there is such a huge rift.
Bah, everyone do what they like, not like my opinion matter. I wish you happiness and all, but 10 years is a LOT. Most couples I see with a huge age rift, 1 of the 2 is hypocrital a LOT in order to keep stuff smooth. Haha, I don't envy someone who bite his lips rather than talk just to maintain some harmony...lol, and this is nearly always the case in the couples with huge age rift. I mean, I found most girl 5 years younger to be such a baby, now, 10, err...LOL, that wouldn't be bearable! While I am deadly shy if the girl is 5 years older, I am afraid I would say or do something wrong, boyscout or whatever...now 10 years and I can almost call her mom! No thanks. But to each their own...if it make you happy and her at the same time...why not, it isn't my life, but YOURS. It doesn't change squat in anyone else life, so do what make you happy, don't care about others. Sometimes, it seems to work...so. Be happy.
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Originally posted by Dabble I don't see, in this particular situation, how anyone is taking advantage of anyone. He didn't say anything about doping her with roofies. He hasn't said anything about stealing her idenity in order to run up her credit and make loads of cash. She broke up with her boyfriend. Big deal, it happens all the time. It really isn't that traumatic an event that requires the person to be handled with care.
Have you ever met a girl who just broke up with someone after 5 YEARS? That's how long marriages last nowadays, and whether she lets you know it or not, it's going to be on her mind for quite a while.
It's not called irrational concern. It's called paying attention to how the people you give two shits about feel and think. If he wants a serious relationship and it to go somewhere, then he'll take his time. If he wants sex and nothing more, then he'll go your route. It's up to him when it's all said and done.
We all know how emotionally distraught girls are on the rebound. That, I don't think, is what he's arguing. I'm just saying, and I think Dabble would agree on this, is that taking advantage of a favorable situation isn't the same as taking advantage of the girl. When one enters into rebound sexland, both participants are fully aware that the "relationship" is likely not going anywhere, so I don't see how her feelings are being compromised of a guy recognizes an opportunity and capitalizes on it.
Precisely, Joe.
I'm not saying you shouldn't consider a persons feelings. I'm saying if that is ALL you do, your own life will be pretty miserable.
Look, this whole thread is stupid because we are talking about a fucking 31 year old guy. If he is so socially retarded that he can't figure this out on his own....
Hello... last time I spoke to her, I casualy asked her if she would consider me... not in those words of course... Tonight, she sort of tried to avoid me... she didnt wait for me and pretended to use her cell phone... but she stopped that nonsense and we talked while walking to the parking lot... This time I thought I would just play cool, ask her how she was and give her basic advice like it takes time and people change and blah blah blah...
At this point, I dont think its going to go anywhere... but if all I get out of this is practice talking to the ladies, then thats fine....
Thank you for your advice btw, its helpfull... I will keep you guys updated as things go on...
Originally posted by SmurfMagic Hello... last time I spoke to her, I casualy asked her if she would consider me... not in those words of course... Tonight, she sort of tried to avoid me... she didnt wait for me and pretended to use her cell phone... but she stopped that nonsense and we talked while walking to the parking lot... This time I thought I would just play cool, ask her how she was and give her basic advice like it takes time and people change and blah blah blah... At this point, I dont think its going to go anywhere... but if all I get out of this is practice talking to the ladies, then thats fine.... Thank you for your advice btw, its helpfull... I will keep you guys updated as things go on...
I don't believe you.
I think this is a big ruse. You are chuckling behind your screen right now, aren't you?
Originally posted by SmurfMagic Hello... last time I spoke to her, I casualy asked her if she would consider me... not in those words of course... Tonight, she sort of tried to avoid me... she didnt wait for me and pretended to use her cell phone... but she stopped that nonsense and we talked while walking to the parking lot... This time I thought I would just play cool, ask her how she was and give her basic advice like it takes time and people change and blah blah blah... At this point, I dont think its going to go anywhere... but if all I get out of this is practice talking to the ladies, then thats fine.... Thank you for your advice btw, its helpfull... I will keep you guys updated as things go on...
I don't believe you.
I think this is a big ruse. You are chuckling behind your screen right now, aren't you?
This is a fake thread, I am almost certain.
umm no... its not fake... wouldnt it be much worse if this was fake? what can i say... im not exactly a ladies man.... ive suffered with a terrible sleeping disorder for a long time, im finaly getting help and feel better overall thats why im going back to school and looking for love... im also really shy.
Originally posted by SmurfMagic At this point, I dont think its going to go anywhere... but if all I get out of this is practice talking to the ladies, then thats fine....
This is the route to success. It's a numbers game, the more girls you flirt with, the better you will become at it and the faster you will find a compatable one.
Originally posted by SmurfMagic At this point, I dont think its going to go anywhere... but if all I get out of this is practice talking to the ladies, then thats fine....
This is the route to success. It's a numbers game, the more girls you flirt with, the better you will become at it and the faster you will find a compatable one.
Originally posted by Dabble Originally posted by SmurfMagic I wont give my exact age but... look at it this way, I grew up watching the smurfs... so...
omg....
He grew up watching the smurfs, his tag and avatar are smurfs.....
Maybe it isn't ladies you are really interested in?
Just a thought.
Smurfs are asexual. He's barking up the wrong tree.
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Of course her ex is now 40, and they got together when she was 19 which still freaks me out a bit. What a creep lol.
Is this about rebound or love?
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Is this about rebound or love?
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. If you want an actual relationship that means something, wait and see what happens. Let things develop naturally and with a little time. If you're looking for an 'in and out' (if you catch my drift) relationship then push it, but I personally don't agree with doing that to anyone who's on the immediate rebound of a 5-year relationship of all things. That's just slimy.
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You guys are ridiculos!
The girl isn't some cripple is she? I mean we are all responsible for our own feelings. They are both adults. If she wants to get it on with him FOR ANY REASON then he should go for it.
It isn't his responsibility to worry about her emotional mental state.
IT IS HIS DUTY, TO KNOCK THAT BOOTY!!
that is all, case closed.
Or some of us have morals, and don't take advantage of other people whenever we see fit. That too.
Edit: By other people..... Don't include family.
I don't see, in this particular situation, how anyone is taking advantage of anyone. He didn't say anything about doping her with roofies. He hasn't said anything about stealing her idenity in order to run up her credit and make loads of cash.
She broke up with her boyfriend. Big deal, it happens all the time. It really isn't that traumatic an event that requires the person to be handled with care.
This irrational concern for peoples 'feelings' is the problem with this country. We are turning into a nation of sissys. I for one won't stand for it.
Have you ever met a girl who just broke up with someone after 5 YEARS? That's how long marriages last nowadays, and whether she lets you know it or not, it's going to be on her mind for quite a while.
It's not called irrational concern. It's called paying attention to how the people you give two shits about feel and think. If he wants a serious relationship and it to go somewhere, then he'll take his time. If he wants sex and nothing more, then he'll go your route. It's up to him when it's all said and done.
take his time. If he wants sex and nothing more, then he'll go your
route. It's up to him when it's all said and done.
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Have you ever met a girl who just broke up with someone after 5 YEARS? That's how long marriages last nowadays, and whether she lets you know it or not, it's going to be on her mind for quite a while.
It's not called irrational concern. It's called paying attention to how the people you give two shits about feel and think. If he wants a serious relationship and it to go somewhere, then he'll take his time. If he wants sex and nothing more, then he'll go your route. It's up to him when it's all said and done.
We all know how emotionally distraught girls are on the rebound. That, I don't think, is what he's arguing. I'm just saying, and I think Dabble would agree on this, is that taking advantage of a favorable situation isn't the same as taking advantage of the girl.
When one enters into rebound sexland, both participants are fully aware that the "relationship" is likely not going anywhere, so I don't see how her feelings are being compromised of a guy recognizes an opportunity and capitalizes on it.
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10 years difference is a LOT, unless one is 50+. See, if you're 30 and the other is 20, that mean that 1 person has about double the time to progress than the other, in 10 years it will be a total disaster when the younger has about 2/3 of the time to progress...
I never ask for my sweety half to be a genius or whatever, but...10 years? I rather take a Foreign woman than a girl 10 years younger/older, even if she can't speak with me we would prolly understand each other better than someone 10 years "off" (by foreign I mean a girl that speak neither french nor english)!
What are you going to talk/do about with someone 10 years younger/older? I mean, if you are interested in the same topic...there is such a huge rift.
Bah, everyone do what they like, not like my opinion matter. I wish you happiness and all, but 10 years is a LOT. Most couples I see with a huge age rift, 1 of the 2 is hypocrital a LOT in order to keep stuff smooth. Haha, I don't envy someone who bite his lips rather than talk just to maintain some harmony...lol, and this is nearly always the case in the couples with huge age rift. I mean, I found most girl 5 years younger to be such a baby, now, 10, err...LOL, that wouldn't be bearable! While I am deadly shy if the girl is 5 years older, I am afraid I would say or do something wrong, boyscout or whatever...now 10 years and I can almost call her mom! No thanks.
But to each their own...if it make you happy and her at the same time...why not, it isn't my life, but YOURS. 
It doesn't change squat in anyone else life, so do what make you happy, don't care about others. Sometimes, it seems to work...so. Be happy.
- "If I understand you well, you are telling me until next time. " - Ren
Have you ever met a girl who just broke up with someone after 5 YEARS? That's how long marriages last nowadays, and whether she lets you know it or not, it's going to be on her mind for quite a while.
It's not called irrational concern. It's called paying attention to how the people you give two shits about feel and think. If he wants a serious relationship and it to go somewhere, then he'll take his time. If he wants sex and nothing more, then he'll go your route. It's up to him when it's all said and done.
We all know how emotionally distraught girls are on the rebound. That, I don't think, is what he's arguing. I'm just saying, and I think Dabble would agree on this, is that taking advantage of a favorable situation isn't the same as taking advantage of the girl.
When one enters into rebound sexland, both participants are fully aware that the "relationship" is likely not going anywhere, so I don't see how her feelings are being compromised of a guy recognizes an opportunity and capitalizes on it.
Precisely, Joe.
I'm not saying you shouldn't consider a persons feelings. I'm saying if that is ALL you do, your own life will be pretty miserable.
Look, this whole thread is stupid because we are talking about a fucking 31 year old guy. If he is so socially retarded that he can't figure this out on his own....
Then fuck him!!
Love,
Dabble
Hello... last time I spoke to her, I casualy asked her if she would consider me... not in those words of course... Tonight, she sort of tried to avoid me... she didnt wait for me and pretended to use her cell phone... but she stopped that nonsense and we talked while walking to the parking lot... This time I thought I would just play cool, ask her how she was and give her basic advice like it takes time and people change and blah blah blah...
At this point, I dont think its going to go anywhere... but if all I get out of this is practice talking to the ladies, then thats fine....
Thank you for your advice btw, its helpfull... I will keep you guys updated as things go on...
I don't believe you.
I think this is a big ruse. You are chuckling behind your screen right now, aren't you?
This is a fake thread, I am almost certain.
I don't believe you.
I think this is a big ruse. You are chuckling behind your screen right now, aren't you?
This is a fake thread, I am almost certain.
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I don't believe you.
I think this is a big ruse. You are chuckling behind your screen right now, aren't you?
This is a fake thread, I am almost certain.
umm no... its not fake... wouldnt it be much worse if this was fake? what can i say... im not exactly a ladies man.... ive suffered with a terrible sleeping disorder for a long time, im finaly getting help and feel better overall thats why im going back to school and looking for love... im also really shy.
Wow, ya, the smurf is actualy being for real...
This is the route to success. It's a numbers game, the more girls you flirt with, the better you will become at it and the faster you will find a compatable one.
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if she is 10 then good luck cause thats
This is the route to success. It's a numbers game, the more girls you flirt with, the better you will become at it and the faster you will find a compatable one.
Listen to this man. He speaks the truth.
omg....
He grew up watching the smurfs, his tag and avatar are smurfs.....
Maybe it isn't ladies you are really interested in?
Just a thought.
omg....
He grew up watching the smurfs, his tag and avatar are smurfs.....
Maybe it isn't ladies you are really interested in?
Just a thought.
Smurfs are asexual. He's barking up the wrong tree.
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