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Have you ever cheated on a lover or husband/wife?

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  • Punk999Punk999 Member UncommonPosts: 882

     I never have, and never will.

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  • yilunnyilunn Member Posts: 4

    i never cheat my bf before he cheated me. once, he went out with another girl, telling me that he's with his mum. god knows, i called his mum since his phone's power off. the result is i'm cheated. i really hate him!

  • Rayx0rRayx0r Member, Newbie CommonPosts: 2,902

    eh, well I already spoke my peice about this.

    anyway, try this on for size. A dating site for cheating spouses

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  • woyoojwoyooj Member Posts: 3

    i cant bear being cheated by my love. once cheated, i feel my heart broken and will never get mended again

  • starstar Member Posts: 1,101

    I cheated on my ex with my current boyfriend. The relationship was basicly over in my eyes (and had been for a good two months), but it wasn't official...

    However, I could -never- imagine cheating in my current relationship...

    I'm a horrible person, lol

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  • baffbaff Member Posts: 9,457

    In my late teens early twenties, I was a dancer.

    I had a girlfriend for about a month, gentle, beautiful girl and we were in love. Both of us super fit and athletic. We slept naked together, but never had sex. She'd been raped just before I met her and that was a no no.

    I wasn't even able to have a wank in private. That sort of frustration had me fighting all the time and in retrospect was a generally bad thing. While I was seeing her, I lost my virginity to someone else. I don't feel in anyway guilty about it, but I think it counts as cheating.

    In the end a bloke needs to get some physical relief. Any relationship in which you can't isn't a stable one. The longer you go without the more dangerous and crazy a man becomes.

     

     

    I have the opportunity to cheat. I have it right now today. Mrs Baff isn't speaking to me and is on the otherside of the world. I have no idea if I will see her again. And when I go into town, the best looking girl in every bar wants to talk about sex with me and follows me home.

    I guess I must be encouraging it, or it wouldn't happen so often. Would it even be cheating? Wouldn't it just be breaking up perhaps?

    I don't know. It doesn't matter anyway, I can't do it. I'm in love with her. She's broken up with me every Valentines day since I met her. It's proabably some kind of mad TV tradition that they do on in Sex in the City I expect. She probably thinks it's a clever thing to do.

    We're apart more often than we are together. I wouldn't blame her if she found someone else. I wouldn't know either. I don't think she is the sort, and I don't think I am either. I'd like her to go her whole life without ever having a broken heart. She breaks mine every day.

     

     

    So no, I don't feel that I cheat. But it's on my mind alot. I don't expect to go back to anyone after sleeping with another. I thinking it would be cheating, but also breaking up.

    I'm not up for the duplicity part. Running two wives. OMFG. As if one isn't mad enough. 

  • BroGamingPageBroGamingPage Member UncommonPosts: 492
    Originally posted by Teala


    I have never, ever, ever, personally cheated on my ex's or anyone I was currently envolved with, though I had plenty of opportunities to cheat I never have.     I am not going to say women cheat less than men, because I think it is probably 50/50 in that department.   There was a time when I was married that this one guy...OMG he was gorgeous, I was working at HP at the time and delt with a lot of clients and this one guy had his own company out of San Fran - guy was a millionaire - and we hit it off.   Our first meeting was anything but perfect.    I actually ran smack into him as I was coming around a corner with my arms full of folders and stuff.   I fell to the floor (on my butt) and papers went everywhere!  LOL!  I almost cussed.  Then I looked up from where I was sitting and there was this guy. 
    OMG he was so fraking gorgeous I lost my tongue and my brain!   He quickly moved to help me up and said he was sorry and I was like..."thank you...umm...no it was my fault...I I..."  Seriosuly I was tongued tied.    He was a real gentleman about it and even helped me pick up all the papers.   Then!  Then...we(co-workers and I that were working on a business proposal for his company and ours) were invited to dinner to discuss the propasal.   Wouldn't you know it...he picks us up in a limo and just as I am walking down the steps toward the limo my heel breaks.  Frak...I had to run all the way back up to my office and grab my spare pair of shoes I always kept in a draw.  lol
    Then...at the dinner I knocked my glass of water over and it spilt all over the table.   This only made me feel like a total clumsy idiot and I remember getting up from the table and going to the restroom and balling my eyes out!  LOL!  I ended up havingto take off my make-up and putting it all back on...in a hurry.   Oh god it was sad.    Later I was sitting at the bar in the restuarant  by myself and he came up to me and told me not to worry about all that had happend that day that people have bad days and that he knew I was having one.   I was relieved.  OMG...once he said that I felt like I was talking to someone I had known all my life.   We hit it off.  
    For the next couple of days while he was in town we had lots of chances to talk and hang out and before he left to go back to San Fran he asked if I cared to come to San Fran with him to see his company and meet some of the people we'd be working with.   He said I wouldn't need to worry about a place to stay because I could stay on his yacht.   I was so tempted...but the ring on my finger I swear started burning.   The thing was he knew I was married and even offered to fly my hubby and me both down!  Even then...there is no way  I would have gone unless my company was up for it and even then I do not know if I would have gone because I know the temptation of sleeping with this guy was going to be constantly on my mind.    So I had to turn him down in the end.   Thank god!   That was one time, though I loved my hubby deeply I was seriously tempted to sleep with someone else, simple because this guy was so frakking hawt!!!!!!!!!!!
     
    So tell me peoples...

     

    No, never. But, I fraking love your story. Reminds me of a movie, should be the beginning of some movie...chick flick of course...lol.



    But ye I don't have any good "almost cheating" stories....so I'm going to leave it at this. Never will, never have, never want to cheat on my girlfriend. =) But temptation will always be there, you just have to be stronger. Glad you where.

  • goneglockingoneglockin Member UncommonPosts: 706

    I cheated on the first girl I ever loved after she got locked up in juvenile hall for like a 10 month stretch that I couldn't wait out with raging teen hormones.  Fessed up to it when she got out.

    Then there was this time where this girl I was dating for 3 months decided to take her smokin' hot vietnamese friend along to the bar.  They decided it would be a good idea to all go to bed together and things started getting raunchy right there in the bar.  So I drive them home and it's straight into bed. 

    For about 10 minutes everything is going well but then the vietnamese girl starts getting aggressive and kinda takes over.  The girl I was dating eventually takes on a secondary roll, then withdraws completely to watch for a few minutes, and finally says she is going to go shower.  I could read her, I knew the booze was wearing off, this was no longer such a great idea and I should stop, but at this point I was like- what the hell.

    You should have heard what the vietnamese girl had to say about her "friend" after she left the room, mixed in with commands to do this or that either harder or faster and other such dirty talk.  I've been in some "group sessions" before but that was a trip.

    P.S.

    I've had two 100% faithful LTRs since then totalling 3 years and a handful of 3 months or less girls where I kept honest.  Getting genital herpes helped to set me on a good path and stop being such a whore.

    Hope you got your things together. Hope you are quite prepared to die. Looks like we're in for nasty weather. ... There's a bad moon on the rise.

  • Archer3Archer3 Member Posts: 5

    im quite ashamed of answering yes.

    I cheated my honey when i'm with another boy. when he called me, i just end our talking very quickly, afraid of being detected.im here to confess my guilt

  • multibelmultibel Member Posts: 2

    once i did, i regretted so much.

    I wont do this anymore, i dont wnna hurt my honey anymore

  • AzusawaAzusawa Member Posts: 1

    I cheated once, when he don't have a time wih me.. I look for someone whom I can talk with..

  • babaoybabaoy Member Posts: 3

    yup, i did cheat my darling. Sometimes, i lied to him only cuz i dont wanna hurt him. unfortunately, i hurt him seriouly in the end.

  • dragontiger0dragontiger0 Member Posts: 2

    lol i dont even got the chance to do this. but i suppose i wont do this. everyone doesn't like to be cheated.

     

  • tvalentinetvalentine Member, Newbie CommonPosts: 4,216

    i bet 100$ that the 5 posters above me are the same person.....

    as for the question, my answer is no i havent and dont plan on cheating.

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  • IlliusIllius Member UncommonPosts: 4,142
    Originally posted by tvalentine


    i bet 100$ that the 5 posters above me are the same person.....
    as for the question, my answer is no i havent and dont plan on cheating.

    I'm not taking that bet because I'd lose.  There's definitely something up with those 5.

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  • soosoresoosore Member Posts: 3

    Yup, i did so. After cheating him, i feel myself guilty .

  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182

    I cheated once when my girlfriend and I played poker, does that count?

  • juhuiyjuhuiy Member Posts: 2
    Originally posted by Gameloading


    I cheated once when my girlfriend and I played poker, does that count?



     

    it counts, however this could be forgived

  • pianohkpianohk Member Posts: 3

    Not yet

    But i always cheat my parents when  i need to go out with my lover

  • calvin80calvin80 Member Posts: 20

    No I never did.

  • UmbroodUmbrood Member UncommonPosts: 1,809

    Not going to answer this question in a public forum, but.

     

    Your story was great, and had I been "that" guy I would probably been coming on to you as well.

    Stuff like that sticks in ones memory.

    And what are we really, but a collection of memories?

     

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  • gameadiksgameadiks Member Posts: 120
    Originally posted by Teala


    I have never, ever, ever, personally cheated on my ex's or anyone I was currently envolved with, though I had plenty of opportunities to cheat I never have.     I am not going to say women cheat less than men, because I think it is probably 50/50 in that department.   There was a time when I was married that this one guy...OMG he was gorgeous, I was working at HP at the time and delt with a lot of clients and this one guy had his own company out of San Fran - guy was a millionaire - and we hit it off.   Our first meeting was anything but perfect.    I actually ran smack into him as I was coming around a corner with my arms full of folders and stuff.   I fell to the floor (on my butt) and papers went everywhere!  LOL!  I almost cussed.  Then I looked up from where I was sitting and there was this guy. 
    OMG he was so fraking gorgeous I lost my tongue and my brain!   He quickly moved to help me up and said he was sorry and I was like..."thank you...umm...no it was my fault...I I..."  Seriosuly I was tongued tied.    He was a real gentleman about it and even helped me pick up all the papers.   Then!  Then...we(co-workers and I that were working on a business proposal for his company and ours) were invited to dinner to discuss the propasal.   Wouldn't you know it...he picks us up in a limo and just as I am walking down the steps toward the limo my heel breaks.  Frak...I had to run all the way back up to my office and grab my spare pair of shoes I always kept in a draw.  lol
    Then...at the dinner I knocked my glass of water over and it spilt all over the table.   This only made me feel like a total clumsy idiot and I remember getting up from the table and going to the restroom and balling my eyes out!  LOL!  I ended up havingto take off my make-up and putting it all back on...in a hurry.   Oh god it was sad.    Later I was sitting at the bar in the restuarant  by myself and he came up to me and told me not to worry about all that had happend that day that people have bad days and that he knew I was having one.   I was relieved.  OMG...once he said that I felt like I was talking to someone I had known all my life.   We hit it off.  
    For the next couple of days while he was in town we had lots of chances to talk and hang out and before he left to go back to San Fran he asked if I cared to come to San Fran with him to see his company and meet some of the people we'd be working with.   He said I wouldn't need to worry about a place to stay because I could stay on his yacht.   I was so tempted...but the ring on my finger I swear started burning.   The thing was he knew I was married and even offered to fly my hubby and me both down!  Even then...there is no way  I would have gone unless my company was up for it and even then I do not know if I would have gone because I know the temptation of sleeping with this guy was going to be constantly on my mind.    So I had to turn him down in the end.   Thank god!   That was one time, though I loved my hubby deeply I was seriously tempted to sleep with someone else, simple because this guy was so frakking hawt!!!!!!!!!!!
     
    So tell me peoples...

    no, i don't cheat on my girlfriend.. hahaha.. but sometimes when i think about it its not cheating.. hahahaha...

  • papachicopapachico Member Posts: 3

    cheating is just a part of life but we should know and understand the consequences of doing it. anyway, i f you always tend to cheat i suggest you to not love anyone... cliche!

  • dubistblaudubistblau Member, Newbie CommonPosts: 274

    I never cheated but there were lots of temptations ^_^

  • ZANGFEIZANGFEI Member Posts: 439
    Originally posted by Gameloading


    I cheated once when my girlfriend and I played poker, does that count?



     

    ROFL to funny

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