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Men playing as females in mmos

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  • ScrogdogScrogdog Member Posts: 380

    In all the games I've played over the years, I can only remember creating a female once. That was in Vampire: Bloodlines and it was only because I chose a stealth build and the animation of moving while crouched seemed rather effeminate to me.

    Other than that, I always create "mini-me" and play as if it were really me in game.

    I can't relate to female toons.

  • IhmoteppIhmotepp Member Posts: 14,495
    Originally posted by GTwander


    It's hard to play fems as a man when playing Bioware games though because of the tailored dialogue and love interests. Sure it means you get to look at it for your time in them game, but you also have to deal with being hit on by the male cast, which I try to avoid. I have made secondary femchars in everything from KotOR to Mass Effect, but it really doesn't work for me like it does in MMOs. (less reminders of the laws of attraction)
    I also canned my femchar in my short time with DOMO because of the gimmick hookup mechanics, can't stand being a target for oblivious dudes' flirtations.

     

    True. You make a fem character in a bioware game because she's more easy on the eyes, but then you have to put up with male NPC's hitting on you, which is distracting.

    Buy it's not that hard to ignore since it's not a HUGE part of the game. You're mostly killin' stuff, and solving puzzles.

    In MMORPGs I tend to make male characters because I want to interact with the other players as a male, and while you CAN do that as a female character, it's much harder. you have to go that extra step, and say, i'm a guy, not a girl. To much trouble for me.

    The exception there was City of Heroes. I don't think any guy playing that game is being honest if they say they didn't make at least a couple of female toons in COH.

    It's like, even though you can't draw, suddenly you are given the power to create a hot comic book style female super hero. How can you resist that?

    Suddenly you give me a magic pencil and I can draw either Superman or Wonder Woman? I'm probably gonna draw Wonder Woman.

     

     

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  • iZakaroNiZakaroN Member UncommonPosts: 719

    The question is if you play "as" or "with"? I always prefer to play with females as playing with main is a bit gayish for me. I really hate to look a man ass all the time! Also it so awesome to have really powerful babe that is only for you :)



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  • nukedudenukedude Member Posts: 101

    The reason I play with females is that I am not able to make my alter ego to look like I want him to... I'm more satified with a decent looking woman to play with, than to play with a way too muscular dude with too much hair up his ass. The option in many MMO's to create my alter ego as I want him to be aren't just there. (for the record, that would be a guy of avarage height, with spikey blond hair, green eyes, and a kind of muscular. ) I don't want to play with anything else, or it's female I play with. The only MMO I started with as a dude was Aion. In Guild Wars, I would be able to make a decent looking ranger, but then again, rangers are quite stupid. Or it would be another melee class, but those dude are all bodybuilders on steroids.... So I play mostly with females. And no gay shit involved :p

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  • GTwanderGTwander Member UncommonPosts: 6,035
    Originally posted by Ihmotepp

    The exception there was City of Heroes. I don't think any guy playing that game is being honest if they say they didn't make at least a couple of female toons in COH.
    It's like, even though you can't draw, suddenly you are given the power to create a hot comic book style female super hero. How can you resist that?
    Suddenly you give me a magic pencil and I can draw either Superman or Wonder Woman? I'm probably gonna draw Wonder Woman.

     
     

     

    *sigh* I really don't think anyone in that game got freudian over as to why they went femchar as much as a test to how far the boob slider will go. Hell, one of my chars was named "Tiggle Biddies", not at all ashamed of that either. ^_^

    Hot WW btw.

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  • MeridionMeridion Member UncommonPosts: 1,495
     

    Originally posted by mutombo55


    If you check pubmed, you will find a few scientific studies have indicated that straight males who play female avatars in online environments have a tendency towards latent homosexuality. In fact the results were very similar to studies about straight males who like Coldplay. However, the early results from some follow on studies are now finding that many of male subjects roll their females toons when listening to Coldplay. It's not yet clear if this is causation or correlation.



     

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  • astrob0yastrob0y Member Posts: 702

    I roll a chick becuse I like it when she tells me that I cant do, like when I try to cast a spell that is on cool down. Reminds me of mom or something. And when I try to make them as hot as possible it really shows how twisted things can get when you dont think before you do things. But I explain that pervo side of myself with a nice role playing twist- the chick is a dude that has done a awsome sex change. With that I go around my obsession with my mother and I can safly sit down with my father hate.

    Oh Freud. You and your love of strange things to inhale.

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  • ProfRedProfRed Member UncommonPosts: 3,495
    Sometimes I roll male chars and they always are a representation of me in the alternate world, and other times I make chars modeled after my wife.  When I make them after my wife I don't flirt or try to get things because it's my wife.  Back off dude.
  • IlvaldyrIlvaldyr Member CommonPosts: 2,142
    Originally posted by astrob0y


    I roll a chick becuse I like it when she tells me that I cant do, like when I try to cast a spell that is on cool down. Reminds me of mom or something. And when I try to make them as hot as possible it really shows how twisted things can get when you dont think before you do things. But I explain that pervo side of myself with a nice role playing twist- the chick is a dude that has done a awsome sex change. With that I go around my obsession with my mother and I can safly sit down with my father hate.
    Oh Freud. You and your love of strange things to inhale.

    At the first highlight, i was thinking: "heh, that's kinda funny".

    At the second highlight, it just got weird.

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  • spankybusspankybus Member UncommonPosts: 1,367
    Originally posted by dreamscaper


    This topic comes up far, far too often. I really don't understand why it's such a big deal to people.

    As for the given justification...as the saying goes, if you're spending THAT much time looking at your character...you're doing it wrong. :) 



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    lol this is so true.

     

    The only people that worry me are the people that worry if the female toon in front of them is actually a dude or not. who cares! Its an mmo not an online dating service!

     

    Even if it IS a real chick,  her big-breasted, smoking hot avatar probably isn't an accurate representation of the person driving the mouse.

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  • astrob0yastrob0y Member Posts: 702
    Originally posted by Ilvaldyr

    Originally posted by astrob0y


    I roll a chick becuse I like it when she tells me that I cant do, like when I try to cast a spell that is on cool down. Reminds me of mom or something. And when I try to make them as hot as possible it really shows how twisted things can get when you dont think before you do things.....

    At the first highlight, i was thinking: "heh, that's kinda funny".

    At the second highlight, it just got weird.

     

    It is my understanding of Butlers analyzie of Freud with her book "gender trouble", and used in a mmo situation :) 

    Alot of weird stuff in that book that is quite fun to read.

     

    edit: a rather good synpoise of the book. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_Trouble

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  • RobsolfRobsolf Member RarePosts: 4,607

    I play both, but then, it never really occurred to me that that would be offensive, and/or perverse...

    For me, it's just about toon variety, and as others have said, more of a class appropriateness.  If you're a slinking around class like a hunter or rogue, it makes more sense to me to be female, whereas if you're a heavy armor wearing, double bladed axe wielding tank, a male character makes more sense.  Mage type characters I can go either way, though I add more age if possible.

    I guess it never occurred to me that there were people wandering a gaming world trying to pick up chicks.  LOL!  No doubt folks will also be dismayed that I can't turn invisible or shoot 3 arrows in less than a second in real life, either!

  • RodentofdoomRodentofdoom Member Posts: 273
    Originally posted by mutombo55


    a few scientific studies have indicated that straight males who play female avatars in online environments have a tendency towards latent homosexuality.



     

    scientific studies are like statistics

    you can make them say whatever the billpayer wants them to say.

     

     

     

    I do it because I can.

    I do it because female characters look nicer than thier male counterparts.

  • Honeymoon69Honeymoon69 Member Posts: 647

    only noobs are afraid to play female char,.

  • IhmoteppIhmotepp Member Posts: 14,495
    Originally posted by Rodentofdoom

    Originally posted by mutombo55


    a few scientific studies have indicated that straight males who play female avatars in online environments have a tendency towards latent homosexuality.



     

    scientific studies are like statistics

    you can make them say whatever the billpayer wants them to say.

     

     

     

    I do it because I can.

    I do it because female characters look nicer than thier male counterparts.

     

    What does it say about the player that is worried some guy playing a game as a female toon might be gay?

     

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  • astrob0yastrob0y Member Posts: 702
    Originally posted by Ihmotepp

    Originally posted by Rodentofdoom

    Originally posted by mutombo55


    a few scientific studies have indicated that straight males who play female avatars in online environments have a tendency towards latent homosexuality.



     

    scientific studies are like statistics

    you can make them say whatever the billpayer wants them to say.

     

     

     

    I do it because I can.

    I do it because female characters look nicer than thier male counterparts.

     

    What does it say about the player that is worried some guy playing a game as a female toon might be gay?

     

     

    Nothing, becuse you can do what ever you want to do. And science is just something that can be done by anyone.

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  • daarcodaarco Member UncommonPosts: 4,276

    Play a female character......hmm that does not sound bad at all.

    Why have i been looking a at a male character for years when i could have looked a female?? I know all male players sneak peak at female avatars, but to play one for myself....never though about it.

    For some reason i think i will do it in my next MMO (Mortal Online).

  • ArezonArezon Member UncommonPosts: 282


    Originally posted by Stevane
    Yes, I'm a male and I play both female and male avatars.  And oddly enough, in all the games that I have played, all my female characters usually outlevel my male toons.

    This.

    When I got into MMOs with Lineage 2, in Open Beta my first character was a female elf. Come retail release of the game, my main was a Male Human Wizard.

    In WoW, my main was a Female NE Hunter. Though, I did start my hunter as a Male, but soon realized I didn't like how the Males shot their bows so I switched to Female. When I left WoW, I think I had an equal amount of male/female characters.

    In AoC, my main is a Male Cimmerian Barbarian because I wanted to be like Conan, of course. Still, I have male and female alts.

    It just depends on what the game is and how I feel best represents the character I'm creating.

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  • theAsnatheAsna Member UncommonPosts: 324

    Isn't it about MMORPGs? So what's the big issue? Even if only a small minority actually tries to roleplay, The basic concept of RPGs is roleplaying, isn't it? That's a rhetoric question. No answer needed.

    In most games the rules don't make a distinction between gender. Statwise, rulewise, there are no advantages or disadvantages tied to it. (To be true, in the past there were games where gender had an impact on physical abilities like strength).

    It's mainly an asthetic choice or preference.

    Another aspect is player perception.

    Depending on gender, people have different expectations of how an

    individual should react. But as with all stereotypes no one will exactly fit into one pigeon hole. The irritation comes when someone doesn't meet "your well made up categories".

    OK, a male can make a female character and try to "roleplay" a bimbo. Would other players take the player serious then? I wouldn't. (Right now an idea for some new in-game achievements came to my mind)

    Well, if you act mature, don't use MMO smack talk, don't go around and beg for gifts and treat other players like human beings. How will other players perceive you? Will the perception be different on the gender of your in-game character?

    Do you expect a dating platform? 

  • IhmoteppIhmotepp Member Posts: 14,495
    Originally posted by Arezon


     

    Originally posted by Stevane

    Yes, I'm a male and I play both female and male avatars.  And oddly enough, in all the games that I have played, all my female characters usually outlevel my male toons.

     

    This.

    When I got into MMOs with Lineage 2, in Open Beta my first character was a female elf. Come retail release of the game, my main was a Male Human Wizard.

    In WoW, my main was a Female NE Hunter. Though, I did start my hunter as a Male, but soon realized I didn't like how the Males shot their bows so I switched to Female. When I left WoW, I think I had an equal amount of male/female characters.

    In AoC, my main is a Male Cimmerian Barbarian because I wanted to be like Conan, of course. Still, I have male and female alts.

    It just depends on what the game is and how I feel best represents the character I'm creating.

     

    I find this very interesting, because there is a group of players that is very sensitive to animations.

    I'm not one of them. I would probably never even notice the difference between the male and female  bow animations.

     

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  • IhmoteppIhmotepp Member Posts: 14,495
    Originally posted by astrob0y

    Originally posted by Ihmotepp

    Originally posted by Rodentofdoom

    Originally posted by mutombo55


    a few scientific studies have indicated that straight males who play female avatars in online environments have a tendency towards latent homosexuality.



     

    scientific studies are like statistics

    you can make them say whatever the billpayer wants them to say.

     

     

     

    I do it because I can.

    I do it because female characters look nicer than thier male counterparts.

     

    What does it say about the player that is worried some guy playing a game as a female toon might be gay?

     

     

    Nothing, becuse you can do what ever you want to do. And science is just something that can be done by anyone.

     

     

    I'm playing the game, and I don't care if you are male, female, old, young, playing a same gender, opposite gender toon, whatever.

    You wanna group and do some quests and you won't act like an asshat? Cool!

    On the other hand there's this player going, Omg! Omg! Omg! that female toon might be played by a guy, and that guy COULd be gay! Omg! Omg!

    I think that says something about you if that's your big fear, some guy playing a female toon in a game, that you will never meet and is maybe not even in the same country as you, MIGHT be gay.

     

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  • JosherJosher Member Posts: 2,818

     If the female toon has better animation and overall looks better for the class I'm playing, I'll choose the chick.  Looks come first, since I'm staring at this character for a couple of hrs at a time.   I don't RP though, so I have little interest in trying to trick some poor nerdling that I'm a girl to get free stuff.  Seems pathetic and sad doing it.

     

  • AeroangelAeroangel Member UncommonPosts: 498

    Just to reiterate I don't have a problem or think it's weird if a guy plays a female toon, but I think the ass excuse is dumb. I'm sure most guys literally mean they don't want to look at a male character and would rather look at a female character, but they should just say that instead :P  

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  • IbluerateIbluerate Member Posts: 256

     I do not, have not, and never will, agree with men playing as females in any MMO let alone RPG.

    I find it wrong, strange, and I find the ass excuse to be rather pathetic.

    I do not have any valid reasoning as to why I hate it, I just do, and it shouldn't be allowed.

    But hey... it's the internet, what can I do about it?

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  • soap46soap46 Member Posts: 169

     I never really do it, (unless I'm playing a game where a class is gender specific) but I don't think there's anything wrong with it.  Well, to a point anyway.  I got really creepy in my WoW days when every auction house was filled to the brim with naked dancing night elves.  That was weird.  It gets even worse when you remember that on the other end of about half those characters there is some creepy 40 year old dude furiously...  uh...  "getting in touch with himself"?  Yeah, that's bad.

    If it's for RP reasons or whatever than I guess it's cool with me.  But WoW is really the only game in which I've ever had a problem with it.

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