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Gay and Heroes? Homosexual guild recruiting for GnH.

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  • dinkdink Member Posts: 438

    jimmyman99

    Re: Homosexuality being "Natural" -  As Lumster has said, homosexuality occurs in nearly every species.  Most creatures (including humans raised in cultures that are not homophobic) are innately bisexual but with greater drives towards heterosexual sex. 

    In some cultures, bisexuality has been considered the norm and you would be ostracized from the commuity for being heterosexual or homosexual.  The people would say that your heterosexuality was "unnatural".

    If you don't believe me, take a sociology class or do research on hedonistic cultures (though not all bisexual cultures were hedonists - sex being a principal pleasure - most of them are).

    Re: Your theory of changing genders as needed. . .   

    Well, those frogs adapted to their environment.  If humans lived in an environment where the entire population could be snuffed out or close to snuffed out repeatedly for hundreds of thousands of years, we might simply die out or we might adapt to laying eggs and having some males that can produce eggs as well as sperm. . .  more likely given our mammalian aspects - we would evolve into hemaphrodites.

    In any case, a common theory regarding sexuality is that it exists genetically as a combination of genes much the same way that people can be left or right-handed without seeming to follow a genetic pattern. 

    Also, these are very subtle changes to the brain that occur in early childhood and studies of twins have found that neural pathways can be wildly different based on the environment of babies and very small children. . .  but to know all of what a child is stimulated by during the early formation process and then to follow them into adulthood. . .   well that is difficult, and if there are studies that have followed it this long (particularly with an emphasis on studying possible causes of sexuality) - I have not read it.

    So we don't really know exactly what causes homosexuality, but we can say that it is natural and not one of our race's genetic designs to keep the race fit and well - though there is an argument for homosexuality (bisexuality really) being much more healthy for small closed communities as it would allow for people not to feel alone even if the male:femal ratios were off.

  • jimmyman99jimmyman99 Member UncommonPosts: 3,221
    Nah, I believe you that homosexuality occurs in animal world. I am not as informed as many (or most) people are so Ill take your word for it. Still, I dont think this is natural for a different reason - homosexual animals cannot reproduce, and reproduction is obviously a very important (if not THE most important) part of nature. I gave an example of hydra because hydras do not need to be hetero to reproduce (i dont even know if they have 2 genders). Maybe many animals can be homosexual, but they cant reproduce that way. So i conside that a sort of "accident" of nature, or an unintended sideffect of evolution.
    So im shifting my theory from "this doesnt happen in the animal/nature world" to "most of the time homosexual relationship cannot reproduce".


    I am the type of player where I like to do everything and anything from time to time.
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  • stormphoenixstormphoenix Member Posts: 13
    I say good for them. I was in a guild on wow and finally got teamspeak and what did I hear when i turned it on? Nword this and Nword that and it was nasty and evil. Why would I want to be part of that? Whow wants to be in a guild like that?

    I left and went to another guild. Got on teamspeak and it was gay this and gay that and fa* and fa* that and thats just evil. Who wants to be in a guild filled with hatemongers?

    I say good for them to make their own guild where they can play without being harassed by other players.


  • NitrockNitrock Member UncommonPosts: 86


    Originally posted by Lumster

    There are no human races.
    "They will maintain that for humans the concept of “race” is meaningless: that there are no biologically significant human group differences, hence no human races."
    http://newcriterion.com/archives/22/04/race-nosuchthing-gross/

    Homesexuality can't be cured because there is nothing to cure. Homesexuality has a lot to do with hormons and yes you can be born that way. It develops over time, that is however biological proven. Whoever says something different is either a christian or ignorant.


    That was just an ignorant comment by the way, you don't see animals with males, because they're not polluted by the world.
  • NitrockNitrock Member UncommonPosts: 86


    Originally posted by dink




    Originally posted by nightmare237
    You call yourself a Christian and yet you ignore both the old and new testaments concerning homosexuality. I guess to you the bible is just something you can pick and choose what you like or don't like to make your own religion. How convenient for you. Are you going to call it Dink-ism?



    Yes, I do.  It is not for me to judge others.

    You should look up what Jesus says about Pharisees.   Jesus would forgive and embrace a homosexual but would exhibit anger towards people who would express hate or judgment towards God's children - including those who sin, and not just those who have sex outside of marriage, but liars, theives, gambelers, people who curse others or take the lord's name in vain.  If you read the Bible, the times when Jesus expresses the most anger and scorn are when people use God and religion as a tool for hate or persecution.  These people who have studied the word of God should know better, and they are liars in their own hearts.


    Yes, this is true, but it still says it's "WRONG".
  • HarafnirHarafnir Member UncommonPosts: 1,350

    Whoooooo!! Can I become honorary gay?! Sounds like fun...

    Good luck, people. Have fun :D

    "This is not a game to be tossed aside lightly.
    It should be thrown with great force"

  • IIRLIIRL Member Posts: 876
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  • Lumus243Lumus243 Member Posts: 38

    @Nitrock

    O rly?

    "Male penguin couples have been documented to mate for life, build nests together, and to use a stone as a surrogate egg in nesting and brooding. In 2004, the Central Park Zoo in the United States replaced one male couple's stone with a fertile egg, which the couple then raised as their own offspring.[10] German and Japanese zoos have also reported homosexuality among their penguins. This phenomenon has also been reported at Kelly Tarlton's Aquarium in Auckland, New Zealand."

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexual


    Now how do you explain that???

    Christians are funny ::::02::

  • CaedesAstrumCaedesAstrum Member Posts: 83
    you use examples of penguins in captivity though, not that i disagree with your point, but animals in captivity display much different behaviors than their counterparts in the wild
  • dinkdink Member Posts: 438


    Originally posted by CaedesAstrum
    you use examples of penguins in captivity though, not that i disagree with your point, but animals in captivity display much different behaviors than their counterparts in the wild


    Animals in the wild have exhibited bisexuality in nearly every species. . .  most especially mammals (like us).  Also, our history shows that early polytheistic cultures that did not have a disapproving religion were often bisexual. 

    We are creatures of the culture we live in and ironically the fact that most of us are heterosexual instead of bisexual is not "natural" by any scientific or historical use of the term.  However, what people are saying when they say that homosexuality is not natural is that they disapprove of it because our culture encourages disapproval.

    This is changing though.  Increasingly, people who behave like bigots toward homosexuals are being treated like people who are bigots about any other group. . .  they are ostracized and disliked by all people who do not share their hateful views.

  • Lumus243Lumus243 Member Posts: 38


    @CaedesAstrum

    Homosexuality also appears among apes/monkey.
    And keep in mind that only 1% of our dna makes us different from monkeys.

  • CaedesAstrumCaedesAstrum Member Posts: 83
    lol, im not disagreeing with either of you dink and lumus, i was just pointing out that since yall are arguing your point from a scientific stance that you should probably not use such a weak point is all, personally what a person chooses to do with their life is their choice in my opinion, as long as they dont harm another person, nor interfere with someones right to do the same.
  • Fenrir767Fenrir767 Member Posts: 595
    Seriously I think this is a bad idea why because your segregating yourself. Why can't people just be who they are in a guild I mean seriously that's what its all about the fact that people let their sexuality define them is what causes the heate and segregation. I have some gay friends doesn't bother me I don't really want to see them making out with their boyfriends or go to gay bars really. Everyone can do what they want. Buy by making a guild and saying our sexuality defines us your just asking for trouble why can't people just play a game and be themselves.

    Seriously why would anyone want to make an all black or white guild or christian guild (well christian I can understand because almost every thing I say would offend a hardcore bible thumper and so would what most of my friends say. Still think its stupid.) I can understand mexican or asian guilds usually because its for the language there playing an international game and want to be able to type in spanish so I can see gathering everyone else that wants to do that together but other than the language reason if its something else its stupid. Anyhow that's my opinion I think its good damn stupid and problematic to segregate ourselves.


  • NitrockNitrock Member UncommonPosts: 86


    Originally posted by Lumus243

    @Nitrock
    O rly?
    "Male penguin couples have been documented to mate for life, build nests together, and to use a stone as a surrogate egg in nesting and brooding. In 2004, the Central Park Zoo in the United States replaced one male couple's stone with a fertile egg, which the couple then raised as their own offspring.[10] German and Japanese zoos have also reported homosexuality among their penguins. This phenomenon has also been reported at Kelly Tarlton's Aquarium in Auckland, New Zealand."
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexual

    Now how do you explain that???

    Christians are funny ::::02::


    Whats funny is that you think every person, who believes that Homosextual is wrong, is a christian. (not saying I am not a christian)
  • dinkdink Member Posts: 438


    Originally posted by CaedesAstrum
    lol, im not disagreeing with either of you dink and lumus, i was just pointing out that since yall are arguing your point from a scientific stance that you should probably not use such a weak point is all, personally what a person chooses to do with their life is their choice in my opinion, as long as they dont harm another person, nor interfere with someones right to do the same.

    First, how is it a weak argument to show that homosexuality is natural because it occurs in nature so often?


    Second, you are incorrect to think of sexuality as  a choice.  While studies are not certain whether or not sexuality is nature or nurture; they can so that it isn't a choice.  For instance, if you are like me then you probably couldn't choose to be gay.  You couldn't just wake up and decide that you'd like to date other men because you wouldn't be wired that way.  Though you could attempt to change and choose to be gay, you'd probably still be attracted to females and not attracted to males.

  • dinkdink Member Posts: 438


    Originally posted by Fenrir767

    Seriously why would anyone want to make an all black or white guild or christian guild (well christian I can understand because almost every thing I say would offend a hardcore bible thumper and so would what most of my friends say.



    You answered your own question right there.

    They want their own guild so that they can avoid people who are hateful toward others in regards to sexuality. . .  It might not seem like a big deal to call things "ghey" when they are effeminate or stupid, but I know gay people who do not like it.  Also, they might want to play together because they have topics in common.  I know I wish I was in another room whenever one of my gay friends start talking about fashion or man-sex, and they know that so they avoid the subject, but I realize that they enjoy those topics as much as I like talking about football and cars, subjects my gay friends don't care about at all.

  • Fenrir767Fenrir767 Member Posts: 595
    I get it but why not just make it something like part of the guild charter or something saying that some of us are gay and we got together to talk about things like that and if you don't like it don't join. I just don't understand why the focus is on that we are gay rather than were a guild playing a game together. I'm black and I've just kind of given up on the word Nigga since its become so popularized and its negative connotation is gone. For example the issue that occured in WoW was the fact of the guild name and everything about the guild was about being gay. That's the thing's that I don't understand and even though I kinda understand Christian guilds it still makes me wonder why especially if there playing an fantasy rpg. I just think that self segregation just makes you an even bigger target for scrutiny and ridicule by close minded people.

  • dinkdink Member Posts: 438


    Originally posted by Fenrir767 
    I'm black and I've just kind of given up on the word Nigga since its become so popularized and its negative connotation is gone. .


    This statement proves that you aren't black. . .  or you are incredibly misguided.

    In any case, you aren't making any sense.  You say you understand why a gay-friendly guild would try to recruit gay-friendly people, and then you say you don't understand right afterward.  What can someone say to that? 

  • Fenrir767Fenrir767 Member Posts: 595
    No there's a difference between the word Nigga and Niger (which I find very offensive) and even though Nigga is split from the word is conotations and what it means has been changed by rap artist for the past few years just as calling something "gay" for many people has come to mean stupid and lame and most people have forgot that the original meaning of gay is happy.

    Maybe I didn't phrase what i meant properly for example I don't understand why guilds would go around and actively advertise hey were a gay guild on game website's etc. I think its something that belongs in the guild charter on your guild website stating what occurs in guild chat etc and if it would offend you don't join. I can understand things like that its making clear what happens in your guild but not making it be the primary focus of your guild. I don't understand why guilds would go around and make names like "White Power" the all white guild or "Christ's Sheppards" or "The Rainbow Legion" which is making your guild primarily about those things. Which is what I can't understand. It's like asking people that are uncomfortable with those subjects to target you. Now the post on the God and Heroes forums is far different than what is discusses in this topic and I understand the first post he's trying to find open minded people to start a guild he can enjoy and it makes sense but when reading the thread here it seems more focused on what I posted above. Anyhow that's it for me on this subject.
  • VesaviusVesavius Member RarePosts: 7,908

    I loathe 'positive' discrimination of any type.

    I wouldnt employ a man just because he is black, and I wouldnt form a guild with a man just because he is gay, or otherwise. As far as I can see it being gay is a sexual orientation and not a definition of a personality type... What kind of recruitment basis is who ya wanna sleep with for a gaming guild???

    Whether gay is natural or not is irrelevant and beyond proof at this point either way, so why do people continue to argue it? Noone here has any kind of inside knowledge, and frankly having read a few books that you probably chose in the first place because you agree with their agenda just dosent count. It's just dumb, and really has no place in a gaming forum.

    In rl, I have 'ethnic'. gay, and *shock* even female friends who I socialise all the time, and why would a game online be different?

  • suskesuske Member Posts: 714

    why does it burn when i pee?

    sorry, just thought i'd lighten the mood with a little humor. for all i know i've been in guilds/clans with many

    cross-cultural people, never harmed my gaming to the least. as a matter of fact, might of enhanced it some,

    as every p.a. i was in helped me much.

                       why does this thread even exist except to troll? in games most people like to forget the

    real world and come together with people from all corners of the earth to have fun. THAT is what a

    mmorpg IS.

  • dinkdink Member Posts: 438


    Originally posted by vesavius
    Whether gay is natural or not is irrelevant and beyond proof at this point either way, so why do people continue to argue it? Noone here has any kind of inside knowledge, and frankly having read a few books that you probably chose in the first place because you agree with their agenda just dosent count. It's just dumb, and really has no place in a gaming forum.
    In rl, I have 'ethnic'. gay, and *shock* even female friends who I socialise all the time, and why would a game online be different?


    1.  You are incorrect.  There are scientific studies that show that sexuality is a result of either genetics (nature) or early childhood (nurture).  In either case, it is unchangeable, present throughout history in all cultures, some of which embraced bisexuality as the norm rather than heterosexuality, and it is a common behavior amongst all mammals in nature.  There are peer-reviewed scientific articles by people who have spent their lives studying human behavior that support that homoseuxality is natural. 

    2.  In regards to your question quoted in the second paragraph above, they do so as many have stated in order to avoid discrimination and sexual epithets, and also because they might want to meet other gay people while they play.  While I certainly don't flirt with anyone male or female when playing MMOs, I know people who have a lot of fun doing this and I even know a couple who met through an online game who are now married.  Maybe they would like to have this as a possibility.

  • waikewaike Member Posts: 112
    THROW UP TIME
  • NitrockNitrock Member UncommonPosts: 86


    Originally posted by waike
    THROW UP TIME

    lol, i know, i feel the same way.
  • lookingforlvlookingforlv Member Posts: 14
    I just joined their guild and I am looking for a swingin good time. Please email me. Looking for some cute hot guys in Cali.
    mmmm, I can almost taste you

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