i just found DDO too hard on my own, and you have to spend ages watching the LFG window for sum1 doing the quest you want... that could of just been cause it was beta and not many ppl on
i played rf, i thought it was good until near the end, and when the servers went down for 3 days i realised how bad it was compared to other mmorpgs. i prefere Guildwars, even though u have to load each part of the giant map up