JoyToKey r teh bombz yo!! It helps grands on jump quests! I use a PS2 controller inconjunction with Super Joy Box 3 Pro, my wife uses a regular USB controller and she enjoys the game a lot more than she used to.
I'll admit, the community isn't all that great, but you have to think about the age groups you're dealing with (avg. age group IMO); between 12-22 but the majority is between 13-17 (once again, IMO). So you're going to get a lot of rude players on …