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Question: A male playing a female.

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  • Sk8andgamesSk8andgames Member Posts: 270

    ok heres my answer to the person who made this thread: do what u want. ignore every1 else, and do what ever u want. people cant force u to play a certain gender, as they can force u to play a certain race.image


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  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718
    Dude, you can play whatever you want. It dosen't mean a thang.

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  • Dru998Dru998 Member CommonPosts: 85

    I think it is disgusting for a male to play a female.  Someone said earlier" would you rather look at a guy or a girl all day long" this does not apply.  When you are playing these games you are RolePlaying.  That being said, when your a guy that plays a female in a game you are essentially pretending to acutally be a female.  Now maybe I just have more testosterone than some of you guys that play females, but when I play a character "IM" playing the character its ME! im a guy!.  If im a male in real life, which I am.  Why on earth would I want to pretend to be a female in any situation or game, Im a dude?  I cannot even fathom the idea of this.  Would this not imply that maybe your are gay(to play a female)?  I do not do this but I have heard of guys hitting on female characters.  If your a male playing a fem would that not send a disgusting chill down your spin (well it would mine!image).  I dont understand it and I probably never will, but there is alot of what I call he/shes out there. 

    Quick question for all you people that play females, what do you feel when a guy approaches you or comes on to you? 

    Also to add to some peoples defense of "Are you actually a NE in real life" or whatever they say.  My answer is no, BUT since im male I can relate to playing a male NE or whatever alot better than a female.  It does not matter what race I play in a game I am still playing male.  All those races still have humanistic(is that a word?) qualities. 

    So to all you guys that play this game just assume that every fem you meet in your encounters is actually a fat bald 45 year old perv/freakimage.  I know some people might be offended by what I said but as always its just my opinion on the matter.  

    So to answer your question NO I do not think its okay for a guy to play a female.  It just creeps people out in general and would make MMO gaming a MUCH more pleasuralble experience for everyone including REAL femalesimage.

    P.S I understand why a real female would want to play a male character, and im ok with thatimage.

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  • StarFreezeStarFreeze Member Posts: 24
    Who cares what you play online? If someone really cares if you are a male or female playing an actual female character, they need to get out more and walk away from the computer. I dont mind males playing as females AS LONG as they dont hit on your male character or flirt. I personally like playing the human female character in WoW. It allows me something to stare at the entire time I play :P Plus all of her /emotes are great. A lot of guys I noticed on WoW, loved to play the NE female character when one of the servers were down, strip them down to thier underwear and dance the minutes away till the server came back online. At some huge downtimes during the open beta / stress tests some of the NE n00b lands would be full of over 50 dancers. Lots of chick fighting too, but thats what you do for fun while you wait. :)

  • InsatiaInsatia Member Posts: 16

    a womans perspective:

    with all silliness aside i think you should play whatever is worth your 14.99 a month. whatever is FUN for YOU.

    i'm a female. my main will be a female. however i'm definitely going to roll a male char as well. i will always have my main be something i relate more to and have more in common with and well.. for me that would be a female.

    as sad as this thread is turning out to be it's nice to have some clues as to which people to *ahem* veer away from..... image


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  • RealmreaverRealmreaver Member Posts: 380



    Originally posted by JohnnyC

    errrr? whats wrong with you? are you some sort of transvestite?
    there are no difference between the female night elves and the male except the perversion of the female..
    take a good look at yourself and what your saying; You want to play a female, you want to be a female, yet you are a male
    either this or your just a pervert n wud prefer to wack off over your chr every time she dances...
    personally i think its sick, the rating on  this game shud be pretty frickin high.. becoz i know i wouldnt want my children asking me why is a almost naked lady dancing on a bar table in darnassus? =P
    either way.. this is some wierd fetish ill never understand (males wanting to play female chrs)
    go figure. lol



    LOL!! what are you amish? only reason I was thinking female is cause the male Night Elves suck. You need to go back to your church and go burn your computer it will make you burn in hell Or burn pokemon or hey you can burn books like that guy who lead germany from WW 2 did. Wouldn't it be cool to be just like him?

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  • BladinBladin Member UncommonPosts: 1,089

    """"people can play what char they want to play. It doesnt have anything to do with u. If no males palyed females it would be prolly 95% males running around. and for one i dont like sausage fests all day long when im playing mmorpg's. Does this make me gay? i think not. Who cares what ppl play its not effecting u. """"

    Yes it does have things to do with us, lookat real life, do you treat your friends that are girls/girlfriends the same way you treat your male friends? NO!! my friends we are rude make mean jokes, make fun of each other.  Talk about gross things.  Yet we are all good friends, we just get along that way.  But if i were to talk like that to a girl, i don't think we'd be friends that long.

    Guys just get along differently, which is why i like knowing who im talking to, i don't like talking to males which are really girls, and females which are guys, guys and girls are different in more ways then body types.

    And saying "i like looking at a girls butt more then a guys butt"

    why are you even looking at their butts?  I mean its like walking down the street you see guys butts all the time, but do you pay any attention to em?  no you dont.  So why are you staring at your characters butt?  Sure i see mine, just like my character in tights in city of heroes, do i look at his butt all the time? no because im too busy playing the game and not trying to get my kicks off of a GAME.

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  • RealmreaverRealmreaver Member Posts: 380



    Originally posted by Etrogan
    I think the males are cool.  Im a guy and I think if you're a guy you should play a guy char and same with a girl to help with that confusion.  With that being said, you will have SOME not ALL, but SOME of those ** excuse me for what Im about to say ** nookie craving SOB's that dont get none at home =o).  image Hahaha...  naw Im just playing but I do think you should play guy char, I dunno a guy playing a girl char is kind of gay ** IMO **.  But its your choice once again in the end.  Oh yah and about the dancing issue, ya the girls do dance better, but i dont see it as a serious thing.  The guys dance pretty funny (Michael Jackson's crotch pulling spinning and the ninja stuff he does with his hands if some of you really want to get a vivid picture image lol!).  Eh do what ya feel man, being a girl char is not my thing image.



    Yeah I was worried some people would raze me about it like that cause I wouldn't hide the fact I am a guy. But haven't you played Tomb Raider? you controled a female then and for me I used to have been a DM for 12 years so I had to play females so that is no big deal. I will try for a male but prob make him older and grey looking.. give him a reason to be so damn nasty lookin =)

    Another is I do RP and seemingly females are the warlike types while males take a more passive role amid their race.

    Thank you for your input.

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  • RealmreaverRealmreaver Member Posts: 380



    Originally posted by OracleP4
    If you're actually a guy and you play a female character in a MMORPG, it's cross dressing, plain and simple.  None of this "oh it's just I like looking at the rear end of a female character more", it's cross dressing! If you do it your a perv, just admit it already.  Or do something normal like... play a character of your own gender.

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    Hell yeah I am a perv! who doesn't like their GF to dress like a nurse, a french maid, or slaveoutfitted princess leia? Who does like to be tied to a bed..er... nm image

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  • GervinGervin Member Posts: 159
    You guys have to keep in mind that this is ONLY A GAME. If you want to find it whether your friend is a male or a female, then just simply ask!  If your afraid they are not telling the truth, then make sure you tell whoever asks you the truth because it's true that "what goes around comes around."  Just think about it; it makes perfect sense.  Why would you want to lie about your sex anyways? There's no point cause females don't get anymore advantage as males do in the game and vice versa. 

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  • Dru998Dru998 Member CommonPosts: 85



    Originally posted by Realmreaver



    But haven't you played Tomb Raider? you controled a female then and for me I used to have been a DM for 12 years so I had to play females so that is no big deal.


    Yes but, You had no other choice and besides you are interacting with real human beings when you play MMO's.  Not scripted polygons.

    Although, to each his own.  Do what you want.  Theres noone that can stop you.  People like me may try to influence you but dont let that stop you from doing what you wantimage.

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  • RealmreaverRealmreaver Member Posts: 380



    Originally posted by Brocke
    My god ppl if you wanto get your jollies on there is something called porn and there is a lot of it on the internet.  I mean i just don't get why ppl use these games as an outlet for their lack of getting any in real life.. image



     

    LOL My statement was ment to be humor and people decided they were bored enough to start a cursade cause some is not comfortable with their own sexuality and need to make sure people they are men. I never had that problem and people think I am gay, please send yyour wifes over to try to make me straight cause I feel the evil gayness creepin in and need some wonderwoman to save me LOL

     

    But really the night elves is a amazonean type race and the women are war like thus as a hunter should I had chosen a female cause I thought the males suck? I'd figured I'd get flamed and  known  biased people would purposely seek out this thread due to their own insecurities. Some can say yes or no and others goes on their holier than thou crusades. /shrug let them.

     

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  • BrambeyBrambey Member Posts: 132

    I didnt read all these posts here, but I'll stick in my 2 cents.

    At least 80% of gamers are male... average age of MMO players being around 23 or so I would guess.

    80% of gamers are men yet you see about equal male/females in game.

    Most of the female toons you come across are men IRL... get over it. Dont hit on female toons... understand that they are probably men and get a life. Go hit on a chick in a bar somewhere, that might actually get you laid. Forget the lame in-game flirting, its just not cool.

    That being said, I have played female characters before in MMOs. I dont roleplay them, though. If anyone asks me if I am really female I answer "Nope."

    It is a lot more pleasing to stare at the firm curves of your female toon than it is to stare at the muscular buttocks of your male toon (unless your more than a little gay).

    So, to wrap it up... all of you that say "Eww what are you a transvestite??? Sexually confused???" get a life... maybe its you thats sexually confused seeing as how your too insecure to play a female character and/or really enjoy checking out your male toon's backside more than you would a delightfully porportioned female's.

  • RayuneRayune Member Posts: 18
    Fagimage 

  • BrambeyBrambey Member Posts: 132


    Originally posted by Rayune
    Fagimage

    Wow your immature. Also I'd like to add that we have probably all played DiabloII... and in DII if you wanted to play a certain class you had to be a certain sex. So I'm sure most of us have played online as female characters. Dont be so uptight..... flirt with women in real life... not in WoW.

  • RealmreaverRealmreaver Member Posts: 380



    Originally posted by Makeme

    A character is not you, nor does it need to reflect your personality. It is entirely up to the role you wish to play at that time. You think actors are the roles they play ? because that is basicaly your arguement ( @ ppl saying gay in general )
    Insecure people tend to be very fast on the trigger to judge when it comes to sexuality. Think about that when you judge the poster as being a transvestite or gay. You need to proove your not eh ? wonder why that is :)
    I dont think Anothony Hopkins is a canibal for playing one in "silence of the lambs"
    btw everyone who played tombraider is gay.. ( irony if you missed it.. )
    /Cheers



    True that I think the same about their insecurities I didn't really wish to bring it up tho I might have. But truth is I have made stories up as a GM and playing heroes and villans and such and all characters male and female IS indeed a part of me. But they are part OF and is NOT me.  But I do write stories and and such and therefor have at least a semi writer's opinion on such things.

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  • RealmreaverRealmreaver Member Posts: 380



    Originally posted by Rayune
    Fagimage 



    So? He's a female ass grabber.... want to make something of it? LOL image

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  • NemonyteNemonyte Member Posts: 49

    I thought the beauty of MMOs is that you can be something you are not. Diff race, diff skills, why not a diff. gender? I played a female human rogue, a male hunter nightelf, and a male warrior tauren. Am I gay? No, but I found it entertaining to play as a female character. I found it fun to RP from a diff perspective. But then I don't play MMOs to get dates. I play for entertainment. If I wanted to pick up a chick I would go to a bar. By the way I fit the demographic listed earlier. 22 male in college
    Anyway, all you who think it's gross, Just agree to disagree. It's not your cup of tea, but no need to flame others for theirs.

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  • BuddhaboyBuddhaboy Member Posts: 9
    HAHAHA, ok you just sounded like you were offended as if you were really a girl...now that's just too funny  image

  • KrullKrull Member Posts: 7

    I didn't bother to read this whole thread because it's always the same...to say this topic is like beating a dead horse is a vast understatement; even the ghost of the horse has been beaten.

    IMO, a person's character in a video game is NOT a representation of that person. The character is like to an action figure that the player has control over. If you are the type to want to roleplay YOUR character, so be it. That's one of the many benefits of having freedom in a game. But DON'T project your playstyle on others who don't share your views. Not everyone plays out their character's role in the game. Some people just want a place to go and some form of activity to take part in, and they have every right to do that, as you have the right to RP.

    It's become popular opinion to call someone gay, sick, perverted, and/or a "crossdresser", but honestly, like it has been said many, many times before: There are more male players than female players. If someone believes it is ok to hit on a female in a video game, knowing that the male population outnumbers females almost 20 to 1, what can be said about THAT person? Hmmm??? Also, what does that person expect? A date? A cyper-marraige proposal? Cyber? Lol.

    They are the perverted ones, not those who simply wish to have a certain type of character in a video game. If someone honestly has a serious problem with males choosing female characters, they need to seek proffesional psychiatric help...or more simply, mind their own buisness.

  • ProfRedProfRed Member UncommonPosts: 3,495

    Umm this is out of hand.  If a guy plays a girl char, and some pathetic moron hits on said girl char knowing 95% of the people playing are male then who is to blame? Like someone said before hit on girls in real life not in games... 

    Its whatever fits the char your trying to make though, if in your eyes all healers should be female and you make a healer then go female.  Being a big brawny man in a priest's dress will be alot worse than immature morons hitting on your female char. 

    Another reason women are chosen alot I think is that the people making these games are guys, and they make some good looking models for females, but 95% of male models for MMO's either look retarded or gay.  Male humans in WoW? Give me a break they look ridiculous in anything but heavy armor with a helmet on.  If I wanted to be the guy on the 20 cent can of baked beans at the local grocery store i'd move to texas and chop wood.

  • opieopie Member Posts: 137

    Wow, im really impressed this "topic" has 5 pages.

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  • Otto_ManicOtto_Manic Member Posts: 202

    I think that no one here is really grasping the concept of "wrongness" that most of the people freaking out on this forum are /rant-ing about. Most of us can agree that the image of a hottie NE chick really being a guy dressed in lingerie with a tub of vaseline and ready to cyber with his guildies is a rather disturbing one. Like it or not, that's what many are envisioning when we think of this sort of thing and they find it quite repelling. So, we've got people on one side freaking out about how nauseating and vile they perceive this to be. On the other we have people calling those who really don't relish the thought of this sorta thing closet cases, usually in their most condescending and holier-than-though manners. Funny, because one side is responding to primal instincts while the other is responding to socially conditioned "political correct-ness". Whatever....

    I do not believe that the real issue here is whether or not that theoretical vaseline-smeared man is really there or if it's just a question of aesthetics/what-have-you.

    The real concern here is deception. The majority of people don't really care for being misled- at all- and understandably so. The fact of the matter is that many people develop real bonds with others in these type of environments- be they friendships, emnities, girlfriend/boyfriend relationships. Exceptions are those who have not played MMO's and solo'ers. I, personally, have several friends that I have made over the years that I keep in touch with and we are pretty close and share a lot with each other. Now, if I were to suddenly find out that one of them had lied to me about something, be it gender, age, nationality- anything, I would be pretty pissed- about some more than others.

    To get to the point, there is nothing wrong with wanting to play a female character (being a male) or wanting to play a male character (as a female) is not at all inapropriate and merely a matter of preferrence. However, claiming to be something that you are not is not very cool, regardless of the social setting. So play your character but be yourself- and most of all, have FUN. image

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  • VegaaVegaa Member Posts: 34

    You are in a real live mmo world with real live male and females playing behind their screens.::::06::

    Its this simple, either you are A) a hetrosexual man with balls who plays as a male character so he doesnt waste one second of his life attracting the attention of the FEMALES. Or B) A confused possibly? Bisexual? homosexual? male who plays as a female to attract the attention of other MALES! This reduces the RL female attention to 0. How is this not gay? You are only attracting male attention? Males are looking at you with lust. If you like male attention and are male would that not make you gay or bi?::::12::

    After seeing many heshes, I had to make a female char just to experience what it would be like. I made a female night elve. The second I logged in, I oogled an awed at her body parts for about 1 minute before becoming bored. It got old real fast. I then realized that there were other primarily RL males playing characters all around me that would find me sexually attractive because I was playing a female! I let out a big yell and puked ::::07::, then quit because I like female attention not male.

    The biggest excuse heshes use is "what would you rather look at, a male ass all day or a female ass all day". I can say that when I play my male characters, I dont look at there asses and even if i did I would think nothing of it because I am not gay. Kinda like watching porn, theres a girl and a guy, but I am not turned on by the guy, I am using the guy to live through, just like I am with my male character. The only thing that matters to me is that RL females would be attracted to my male character. ::::31::

    Can you imagine a game where all the males played males and all the females played female chars, what a concept! That would be a paradise!::::04:: Sadly when you give people freedom of chioce, they choose to be he-shes and ruin the entire mmorpg world.::::21:: Because of what these heshes have done, you sadly have to assume that all female chars are male in RL::::21::. Even if you ask what the RL sex is, you still can not believe 100%.

    I like hitting on women in RL, why especially wouldnt I like hitting on women in MMO life? Its a game yes, but for as long as there are girls playing them, I will be trying to win there attention.::::39::


    Im sorry but this is what I do in game. I honestly cant stand you guys who play girls, if I know for sure that you are a guy in RL, I will not team with you, help or give you buffs of any kind. You ruin the mmo games IMO so you get nothing from me. I wish WOW had a gender policy like Ragnarok limiting the sex you play to the sex you registered as. Then it might actually be a true representation of a real fantasy world.::::01::

  • gfboixxgfboixx Member Posts: 108
    truthfully, it doesnt matter.  as long as ur a guy, u have a girl character, but dont want to BE a girl, its kool.  heck u can even use it to ur advantage... by doin it u can scam lotta ppl (recommended not to do dis...gonna have alotta horny guys after u!)

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