Just to let you parents know, if you hit your children then good luck ever having open conversations with your children. Your child is not going to come to you when He is in trouble or needs advice about a problem because he will be afraid of you....
This simply is not true in regards to a parent child relationship where the child has been properly spanked. In fact it is the opposite as proper discipline and correction builds deep bonds and trust and any so-called "expert" who says otherwise is merely stating opinion or speaking of abuse.
Sounds more like you are talking about instances of abuse and "slapping around" which is never justified or acceptable. Abuse is a destroyer and deeply harms those in it's path. So if you don't know firsthand please stop spreading myths.
These experts who study for years and actually perform studies and get masters and doctorates...yeah these guys are full of shit.
Also, i'm supposed to be abused before I can speak up about this? Thats not how it works. The whole spanking in a parent child relationship is all about fear. The child will fear their parents because they don't want to be spanked. So they will not come to you if they have a problem because they will be afraid (fear) of their parents. Fear is the opposite of love.
______________________________ "When Saddam flew that plane into those buildings, I knew it was time to kick some Iranian ass!" -cheer leading, flag waving American
These experts who study for years and actually perform studies and get masters and doctorates...yeah these guys are full of shit.
Yes...They are.
Also, i'm supposed to be abused before I can speak up about this? Thats not how it works. The whole spanking in a parent child relationship is all about fear. The child will fear their parents because they don't want to be spanked. So they will not come to you if they have a problem because they will be afraid (fear) of their parents. Fear is the opposite of love.
Didn't I already disprove this?
"Fear not death; for the sooner we die, the longer shall we be immortal."
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Originally posted by AlexAmore:
This simply is not true in regards to a parent child relationship where the child has been properly spanked. In fact it is the opposite as proper discipline and correction builds deep bonds and trust and any so-called "expert" who says otherwise is merely stating opinion or speaking of abuse.
Sounds more like you are talking about instances of abuse and "slapping around" which is never justified or acceptable. Abuse is a destroyer and deeply harms those in it's path. So if you don't know firsthand please stop spreading myths.
These experts who study for years and actually perform studies and get masters and doctorates...yeah these guys are full of shit.
Also, i'm supposed to be abused before I can speak up about this? Thats not how it works. The whole spanking in a parent child relationship is all about fear. The child will fear their parents because they don't want to be spanked. So they will not come to you if they have a problem because they will be afraid (fear) of their parents. Fear is the opposite of love.
______________________________
"When Saddam flew that plane into those buildings, I knew it was time to kick some Iranian ass!"
-cheer leading, flag waving American
"Fear not death; for the sooner we die, the longer shall we be immortal."