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Gay Marriage and American Ideals

reavoreavo Member Posts: 2,173
Gay Marriage & TR

I predict this thread won't be as popular as the other gay marriage threads, but I wanted to get one started just to show the other side of this issue.  Not the emotional side, or the knee jerk religious side of it.  But the side that someone who might study the tenets of America's foundations might consider.

I know anyone can post here, but I ask if you decide to give your opinion to first read the linked article above ("Gay Marriage & TR" [Theodore Roosevelt]).  It's short and to the point.  And it will help lead the discussion in the right direction.  And I also ask that if you respond you also try to keep in mind the ideas that America was founded on.  And how those ideas were intended to evolve.   When doing so, you might consider how the Supreme Court has interpreted some cases they have chosen to hear concerning church and state.  And to be fair, you might also consider how some state Supreme Courts have recently ruled on this issue as well (i.e. New York and Georgia).

In other words this could be a Constitutional debate as well as a gay marriage debate.  I want it to be something a little more than one of the, "well I'm a southern Baptist, Methodist, (insert Protestant whatever), and my daddy said them gays gonna burn in hell so we need a ban on gay marriage" arguments.  Please, try to keep it intellectually deeper than that.  If you feel the need to head off in that direction, that's what The Pub at MMORPG.com is for.     However, if you feel the need to say something along the lines of this is a Judeo/Christian nation, and can argue that point really well, then PLEASE feel free.  Because I would absolutely love to see what people have to say about that. 

Just keep it civil and respectful PLEASE!!!!   Not everyone thinks like you, and aren't you glad?  


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  • iRekiiReki Member Posts: 106

    hey you were one of the people that was agruing with me right? =D seems like you want an unbiased view of

    the gays/les without the religous fights =D. Well either way i'm agaisnt it but good luck to you!

  • ronan32ronan32 Member Posts: 1,418
    what does gay or lesbian have to do with religion anyway...nothing...... the  Constitution means nothing to me as i am not american...........you cant choose who you love...and your religion cant choose who you marry or either should the state. the land of the free is such a false statement...American people are not free because their governmen tells them what they should do and what they should like.
  • ronan32ronan32 Member Posts: 1,418
    what does gay or lesbian have to do with religion anyway...nothing.
  • iRekiiReki Member Posts: 106


    Originally posted by ronan32
    what does gay or lesbian have to do with religion anyway...nothing...... the  Constitution means nothing to me as i am not american...........you cant choose who you love...and your religion cant choose who you marry or either should the state.


       Not true homosexuallity has a lot to do with religeons and their beliefs. btw why do you have to post so

    many? just put it all on one page...

  • ronan32ronan32 Member Posts: 1,418
    what does it have to do with religion..theres nothing in the bible that says a man cant marry a man.
  • ronan32ronan32 Member Posts: 1,418

    god not you again..your 14 you know nothing about live..how can you even fathom an opinion...just because your mother says its right doesnt mean its right.

  • iRekiiReki Member Posts: 106


    Originally posted by ronan32
    what does it have to do with religion..theres nothing in the bible that says a man cant marry a man.


       I'm not refering just to christianity but to every religeon. And the the hell says i listen to my mom? dunt be

    ageist pls (made up word), now everyone already knows that i'm 14 so what?

  • ronan32ronan32 Member Posts: 1,418
    sorry but you dont even know what your talking about. come back when you have a point.
  • XeximaXexima Member UncommonPosts: 2,698


    Originally posted by reavo
    Gay Marriage & TR

    I predict this thread won't be as popular as the other gay marriage threads, but I wanted to get one started just to show the other side of this issue.  Not the emotional side, or the knee jerk religious side of it.  But the side that someone who might study the tenets of America's foundations might consider.

    I know anyone can post here, but I ask if you decide to give your opinion to first read the linked article above ("Gay Marriage & TR" [Theodore Roosevelt]).  It's short and to the point.  And it will help lead the discussion in the right direction.  And I also ask that if you respond you also try to keep in mind the ideas that America was founded on.  And how those ideas were intended to evolve.   When doing so, you might consider how the Supreme Court has interpreted some cases they have chosen to hear concerning church and state.  And to be fair, you might also consider how some state Supreme Courts have recently ruled on this issue as well (i.e. New York and Georgia).

    In other words this could be a Constitutional debate as well as a gay marriage debate.  I want it to be something a little more than one of the, "well I'm a southern Baptist, Methodist, (insert Protestant whatever), and my daddy said them gays gonna burn in hell so we need a ban on gay marriage" arguments.  Please, try to keep it intellectually deeper than that.  If you feel the need to head off in that direction, that's what The Pub at MMORPG.com is for.     However, if you feel the need to say something along the lines of this is a Judeo/Christian nation, and can argue that point really well, then PLEASE feel free.  Because I would absolutely love to see what people have to say about that. 

    Just keep it civil and respectful PLEASE!!!!   Not everyone thinks like you, and aren't you glad?  




    I don't understand why political leaders have to let their religious beliefs get in the way of their decisions.  I dont see any harm in gays getting married, or people getting into polygimous relationships.  I think that the government should but out of peoples lives.

    If gay marriage actually harms anyone, can you tell me how?  I've never been affected by it, and neither has anyone that i know. 

    I say "Live and Let Live" should be  our government policy.

    It is interesting how the conservitive right used to try to keep the government from taking our rights, and are now trying to destroy them. 

    On a different note, what is it with people like you, Ronan, that have it in for people that are younger? Do you think that they are not capable of intelligent discussion? Ignorance, such as that, pisses me off.

  • RufiusRufius Member Posts: 2,031

    Stop rehashing threads. Make something original.

    Professor Hubert Farnsworth - That question is less stupid but, you asked it in a profoundly stupid way.

  • reavoreavo Member Posts: 2,173


    Originally posted by iReki

    hey you were one of the people that was agruing with me right? =D seems like you want an unbiased view of
    the gays/les without the religous fights =D. Well either way i'm agaisnt it but good luck to you!


    I want a debate that doesn't de-evolve into a "my religion is better than yours" topic. 

    When it comes to civil rights and liberty, I don't see where religious doctrine has a place in the argument at all.  Our government promises religious rights.   You are free to practice those as you see fit in your own space.  But our Constitution does not give you the right to start telling other people that they have to live by your religious doctrines.   When you do that you are infringing on other rights.  That is then not just disrespectful, but illegal.

    We have federal doctrines that we all live by.  You have your religious doctrines that you live by.  Your religious doctrines do not cover me.  I wanted this debate to be about federal doctrines. 
  • reavoreavo Member Posts: 2,173


    Originally posted by Xexima

    Originally posted by reavo
    Gay Marriage & TR

    I predict this thread won't be as popular as the other gay marriage threads, but I wanted to get one started just to show the other side of this issue.  Not the emotional side, or the knee jerk religious side of it.  But the side that someone who might study the tenets of America's foundations might consider.

    I know anyone can post here, but I ask if you decide to give your opinion to first read the linked article above ("Gay Marriage & TR" [Theodore Roosevelt]).  It's short and to the point.  And it will help lead the discussion in the right direction.  And I also ask that if you respond you also try to keep in mind the ideas that America was founded on.  And how those ideas were intended to evolve.   When doing so, you might consider how the Supreme Court has interpreted some cases they have chosen to hear concerning church and state.  And to be fair, you might also consider how some state Supreme Courts have recently ruled on this issue as well (i.e. New York and Georgia).

    In other words this could be a Constitutional debate as well as a gay marriage debate.  I want it to be something a little more than one of the, "well I'm a southern Baptist, Methodist, (insert Protestant whatever), and my daddy said them gays gonna burn in hell so we need a ban on gay marriage" arguments.  Please, try to keep it intellectually deeper than that.  If you feel the need to head off in that direction, that's what The Pub at MMORPG.com is for.     However, if you feel the need to say something along the lines of this is a Judeo/Christian nation, and can argue that point really well, then PLEASE feel free.  Because I would absolutely love to see what people have to say about that. 

    Just keep it civil and respectful PLEASE!!!!   Not everyone thinks like you, and aren't you glad?  



    I don't understand why political leaders have to let their religious beliefs get in the way of their decisions.  I dont see any harm in gays getting married, or people getting into polygimous relationships.  I think that the government should but out of peoples lives.

    If gay marriage actually harms anyone, can you tell me how?  I've never been affected by it, and neither has anyone that i know. 

    I say "Live and Let Live" should be  our government policy.

    It is interesting how the conservitive right used to try to keep the government from taking our rights, and are now trying to destroy them. 

    On a different note, what is it with people like you, Ronan, that have it in for people that are younger? Do you think that they are not capable of intelligent discussion? Ignorance, such as that, pisses me off.



    Thank you.  Someone actually stayed on topic.    Let me go add you to my favorite members list.  Hehe.

    I did not intend this to be a religious debate.  Not in any way shape or form.

    I said, the closest thing to a religious debate I would think this might get to being is if this is a Judeo/Christian society or not.  If you want to step into that arena, then I could see you doing that on this topic.  But be prepared to defend yourself against an onslaught.  Because I'm loaded. 

    Read the link I posted and respond to that if you're confused.  It's a good article, I promise. 
  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182


    Originally posted by ronan32
    what does it have to do with religion..theres nothing in the bible that says a man cant marry a man.

    You don't know a lot about the bible, Do you?

    The Bible clearly states Homosexuality is a Sin

    want me to quote it for you?

    Leviticus: Lev 18:22 "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it [is] abomination."

    want more?

    Genesis 19: 1-13
    Romans 1: 24-27
    1 Corinthians 6:9

    all state clearly homosexuality is a sin.

    my personal opinion? everybody who thinks homosexuality is wrong and that gay marriages should be forbidden should get himself (or herself) checked. Did homosexuals CHOSE to be gay? No they didn't. why should homosexuals be seen as outcast? why shouldn't homosexuals be allowed to marry? Don't give me crap like "blabla the bible, blabla god doesn't like gays and yadayda", because I don't believe in fairy tales. does it hurt you when gay people marry? NO! it doesn't even affect you in any way.

    and I'm glad I live in a country where gay marriage is allowed.

  • XeximaXexima Member UncommonPosts: 2,698


    Originally posted by Gameloading

    Originally posted by ronan32
    what does it have to do with religion..theres nothing in the bible that says a man cant marry a man.
    You don't know a lot about the bible, Do you?

    The Bible clearly states Homosexuality is a Sin

    want me to quote it for you?

    Leviticus: Lev 18:22 "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it [is] abomination."

    want more?

    Genesis 19: 1-13
    Romans 1: 24-27
    1 Corinthians 6:9

    all state clearly homosexuality is a sin.

    my personal opinion? everybody who thinks homosexuality is wrong and that gay marriages should be forbidden should get himself checked. Did homosexuals CHOSE to be gay? No they didn't. why should homosexuals be seen as outcast? why shouldn't homosexuals be allowed to marry? Don't give me crap like "blabla the bible, blabla god doesn't like gays and yadayda", because I don't believe in fairy tales. does it hurt you when gay people marry? NO! it doesn't even affect you in any way.

    and I'm glad I live in a country where gay marriage is allowed.



    Please, don't make this into a religious debate!  It need not be.

    Other than that, I agree with you 100% .
  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182


    Originally posted by Xexima

    Originally posted by Gameloading

    Originally posted by ronan32
    what does it have to do with religion..theres nothing in the bible that says a man cant marry a man.

    You don't know a lot about the bible, Do you?

    The Bible clearly states Homosexuality is a Sin

    want me to quote it for you?

    Leviticus: Lev 18:22 "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it [is] abomination."

    want more?

    Genesis 19: 1-13
    Romans 1: 24-27
    1 Corinthians 6:9

    all state clearly homosexuality is a sin.

    my personal opinion? everybody who thinks homosexuality is wrong and that gay marriages should be forbidden should get himself checked. Did homosexuals CHOSE to be gay? No they didn't. why should homosexuals be seen as outcast? why shouldn't homosexuals be allowed to marry? Don't give me crap like "blabla the bible, blabla god doesn't like gays and yadayda", because I don't believe in fairy tales. does it hurt you when gay people marry? NO! it doesn't even affect you in any way.

    and I'm glad I live in a country where gay marriage is allowed.



    Please, don't make this into a religious debate!  It need not be.

    Other than that, I agree with you 100% .


    I apologize, but after the way ronan32 acted towards the other forum member, telling him he knows nothing, I couldn't resist to prove him wrong.
  • upallnightupallnight Member Posts: 1,154
    You're right Reavo.  I wouldn't see this topic doing well, because people can't help but let their emotions get involved in this.  That's why they keep bringing up religion. 

    If they don't want to debate the legality of gay marriage then why not make marriage a religious issue only?  But they don't want to do that either.  And you know it's an emotional/religious issue because just now in Kansas they not only voted to ban gay marriage, but all civil unions as well.  So, if that's not people voting with their emotions then what is?

    And if a case belongs in front of the Supreme Court that one in Kansas does.  For various reasons, such as discrimination and also letting one persons religion influence government policy over anothers. 

    If my religion says that gay marriage is fine (which it does by the way), then who is the state to say that they don't recognize it?  And that's just where the government has ended up putting themselves.  They are now having to pick and choose between religions.


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  • porgieporgie Member Posts: 1,516

    Yep, the article spells it out just as plain as it can be said.  I can't believe that the Republican Party still has themselves fooled into thinking they are the party of small less intrusive government.  The religious right has taken over the Republican party and I have a feeling they are going to drive it into the ground before they can realize what to do about it.  Issues such as this may give them the impression that they are galvinizing American's on their side, but what they don't realize is that a lot of us are getting really sick of the religious right.

    The religious rights views are anti-American.

    If they want to get involved politically, I say we start taxing them.

    " Traditionally, American conservatives believed that government power
    should be limited. Now, however, certain leaders of the "religious
    right" want the federal government to expand its power over our
    personal lives. They want to throttle lively debates about marriage
    going on in states and local communities across America. "



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  • AldaronAldaron Member Posts: 1,048

    Uhm...Not too long ago(like the last century), in most states homosexual acts were a felony. So how can people say this goes against the American ideal.

    What, you think that the forefathers had a problem with the common law imported from england?

    "Fear not death; for the sooner we die, the longer shall we be immortal."

  • OneMuslimOneMuslim Member Posts: 426

    """They (Angel Messengers) said: "O Lout (Lut)! Verily, we are the Messengers from your Lord! They shall not reach you! So travel with your family in a part of the night, and let not any of you look back, but your wife (will remain behind), verily, the punishment which will afflict them, will afflict her. Indeed, morning is their appointed time. Is not the morning near?"

    So when Our Commandment came, We turned (the towns of Sodom) upside down, and rained on them stones of baked clay, piled up;

    Marked from your Lord, and they are not ever far from the Zalimun (evil-doers)."""

    Qur'an Chapter 11 verses 81-83.



    the towns of Sodom, now remember the word Sodemite? Sodemizer? not sure which, those who practice the same thing the people of Sodom did, Homosexuality.

    Find any resamblance in the Bible of these verses? yes you do?

    so it's clear that God hates homosexuality and therefore Homosexuals and Sodemizers.

    Sodemizing or Sodomizing is having sex through the Anus, whether it's a male or a female, it's the same thing.

    and God placed a severe punishment for those who does this, in life and after death.

    in life, diseases and whatsoever.

    and after death, in hell.

    to be honest, i don't care whether people quit being gay or not, but i care when at least my message reaches you, and then you give it a thought, if you didn't, don't cry to God when you see the gates of hell infront of you.

    umm, that's it, good luck.

  • reavoreavo Member Posts: 2,173


    Originally posted by OneMuslim

    """They (Angel Messengers) said: "O Lout (Lut)! Verily, we are the Messengers from your Lord! They shall not reach you! So travel with your family in a part of the night, and let not any of you look back, but your wife (will remain behind), verily, the punishment which will afflict them, will afflict her. Indeed, morning is their appointed time. Is not the morning near?"
    So when Our Commandment came, We turned (the towns of Sodom) upside down, and rained on them stones of baked clay, piled up;
    Marked from your Lord, and they are not ever far from the Zalimun (evil-doers)."""
    Qur'an Chapter 11 verses 81-83.



    the towns of Sodom, now remember the word Sodemite? Sodemizer? not sure which, those who practice the same thing the people of Sodom did, Homosexuality.
    Find any resamblance in the Bible of these verses? yes you do?
    so it's clear that God hates homosexuality and therefore Homosexuals and Sodemizers.
    Sodemizing or Sodomizing is having sex through the Anus, whether it's a male or a female, it's the same thing.
    and God placed a severe punishment for those who does this, in life and after death.
    in life, diseases and whatsoever.
    and after death, in hell.
    to be honest, i don't care whether people quit being gay or not, but i care when at least my message reaches you, and then you give it a thought, if you didn't, don't cry to God when you see the gates of hell infront of you.
    umm, that's it, good luck.
    I appreciate you wanting to participate OneMuslim, but this is not a religious debate.  This is a debate on the American Constitution and what American ideals mean when it comes to such issues as civil unions in America.  We're not a theocracy here.  Nor do we practice Islamic Law.  We have a doctrine we follow outside of religious texts called the Constitution of the United States.  It's the law of our land.  It's what we fight and die for.
  • reavoreavo Member Posts: 2,173


    Originally posted by Aldaron

    Uhm...Not too long ago(like the last century), in most states homosexual acts were a felony. So how can people say this goes against the American ideal.
    What, you think that the forefathers had a problem with the common law imported from england?


    Yup, and those laws were found to be unconstitutional. 

    The ideas that are in the Constitution take time to mature.  Our society has had to grow to fit the ideas that the founding fathers had.  They couldn't just do away with slavery overnight, yet now it is gone. 

    I think that the ideas that are in the Constitution take a lot of thought and intellect.  In order to live by them you have to consider a free society and what that means.  It means accepting the fact that people are different and have their own pursuit of happiness, unlike yours.  And they are given that pursuit as a right spelled out by our laws.

    Do you disagree with the article that I linked up to in my original post?
  • naldricnaldric Member UncommonPosts: 909


    Originally posted by OneMuslim

    to be honest, i don't care whether people quit being gay



    Tomorrow i m gonna quit being straight, must say bye bye to my wife, must tell her " hey girl, sorry but, i decided i m gay now" lol

    and those topic highjacks must stop...

    Back on topic, I m not a US citizen so i dont think i should really post in it, but i m gonna give my opinion anyway... i really think all the governements that start mixing religion and politics are doomed, and i really think that anybody should be able to marry anybody they want, and if the governement gave special benefits to those married ppl, then it must take all the tax benefits out of itl... marriage is not sacred anymore (if it ever was) ppl marry, divorce, remarry and redivorce, they just marry to get those benefits... tell me, is that faith or capitalism?

  • AldaronAldaron Member Posts: 1,048



    Originally posted by reavo
    Yup, and those laws were found to be unconstitutional.

    Ironic considering how the supreme court shot them down was in itself unconstitutional...

    The ideas that are in the Constitution take time to mature.  Our society has had to grow to fit the ideas that the founding fathers had.  They couldn't just do away with slavery overnight, yet now it is gone. 

    If we want to be completely truthful here. Slavery was in fact, constitutional. Was it moral? no. But it was constitutional at the time, as was written out by the forefathers.

    I think that the ideas that are in the Constitution take a lot of thought and intellect.  In order to live by them you have to consider a free society and what that means.  It means accepting the fact that people are different and have their own pursuit of happiness, unlike yours.  And they are given that pursuit as a right spelled out by our laws.

    What right? The "pursuit of happiness"? Firstly, that was in the Declaration of Independence, not the constitution. How that makes it a law, is beyond me.

    Do you disagree with the article that I linked up to in my original post?

    I don't know, I haven't had time to read it.


    "Fear not death; for the sooner we die, the longer shall we be immortal."

  • OneMuslimOneMuslim Member Posts: 426

    For your sake reavo, i found this article for you.

    http://roughdraft.typepad.com/dotmoms/2005/06/why_this_mama_b.html

  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182


    Originally posted by OneMuslim

    """They (Angel Messengers) said: "O Lout (Lut)! Verily, we are the Messengers from your Lord! They shall not reach you! So travel with your family in a part of the night, and let not any of you look back, but your wife (will remain behind), verily, the punishment which will afflict them, will afflict her. Indeed, morning is their appointed time. Is not the morning near?"

    So when Our Commandment came, We turned (the towns of Sodom) upside down, and rained on them stones of baked clay, piled up;

    Marked from your Lord, and they are not ever far from the Zalimun (evil-doers)."""

    Qur'an Chapter 11 verses 81-83.



    the towns of Sodom, now remember the word Sodemite? Sodemizer? not sure which, those who practice the same thing the people of Sodom did, Homosexuality.

    Find any resamblance in the Bible of these verses? yes you do?

    so it's clear that God hates homosexuality and therefore Homosexuals and Sodemizers.

    Sodemizing or Sodomizing is having sex through the Anus, whether it's a male or a female, it's the same thing.

    and God placed a severe punishment for those who does this, in life and after death.

    in life, diseases and whatsoever.

    and after death, in hell.

    to be honest, i don't care whether people quit being gay or not, but i care when at least my message reaches you, and then you give it a thought, if you didn't, don't cry to God when you see the gates of hell infront of you.

    umm, that's it, good luck.


    (okay, I know this is not supposed to be a religious debate, but I will just respond on this one. altough I have to admit discussing homosexuality without religion is a bit silly, considering religion is such a big part of it)

    you say its clear that god hates homosexuality. lets get one thing right. The bible (or the koran, whatever your religion is) is created by MAN. its NOT a book send us by god from the heavens. its written by HUMAN BEINGS. there has NEVER, EVER been proof found that a god, or even ANYTHING discribed in the bible or the koran exists.

    to quote a famous person:

    "Many have made a trade of delusions and false miracles, deceiving the stupid multitude."
    "Blinding ignorance does mislead us. O! Wretche mortals, open your eyes!"


    -Leonardo Da Vinci

    homosexuality also completely clashes with both religions. according to the bible, God created earth and mankind and everything we see here has been created by god.  that means that GOD created homosexuality as well. let me once again state a person does not CHOSE to become homosexual. he is born with it. also, your last statement is absolutely rediculous: "i don't care whether people quit being gay or not"

    You Can't just QUIT being gay, it is not something you decide on a hot summer day "hm, I think I'll go do some homosexual acts, I'm bored".

    here, one of the comments in the link you provided:

    "
    I believe homosexuality is a choice, a wrong choice."

    this person is just as clueless as you are. Homosexuality is NOT a choice. its something you were born with. just like hetero's.
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