Well man that rig is better than mine. Hygiene is always important, the rest is optional. Somthing to see if it makes you ya know confident. Like I said it varies. Bling is jewelry I think a man should wear at least a nice watch ya know? I'm not talking decked out like some rapper. Well I never actually told you my style or a style for that matter, but mine is nice and neat. Everyone has a goal and steps to take that goal. What I'm trying to say is. A guy or girl can cover up and tell lies to get towards what they want. Weather sex is the case or not, people can lie to get what they want. That is why a true percentage can't necessarly be detrmined.
A person can't hear what another person's mind can think or say...unless they speak.
Originally posted by Rikimaru_X Well. I thought I will give you guys a little advice on being a little confident for when approaching women. I have a much bigger topic in store later. Confidence can be gained in many different ways but let me tell you the basics:
1. Hygiene - When you feel "fresh" you will feel good. You won't need to back away when you stink or take distance from a girl as a factor. If your over 15, wear some cologne. I really don't prefer things like AXE, only when I'm in the gym or sometimes at work. You know all the other basics.
2. Music - Listening to some music you like will mellow you out a bit and calm the nerves. I suggest some slow music, R&B, Jazz (a little) or Soul. Some things like R. Kelly (ALL), Maroon 5 (Sunday Morning), Maxwell (Fortunate). I don't think banging your head to some hard rock or spittn flows with rap will help you much.
3. Bling - Well this is for some people. You know maybe if you wear a chain, bracelet, or ring you will feel a little luck on your side. I myself wear a sivler chain, ring, and bracelet (bracelet only on day off's). I also wear a gold and silver watch (but the watch is fake...looks good though). Sometimes a little bling will get eyes looking your way. Don't be naked, wear a little somthing, somtihing. Don't have to be real actually. Just a little fashion and fashion is not what your wearing, but how you wear it.
4. No Internet - No myspace, No neopets, No dating services, No Instant Messaging. Find girls around your area, not though the net.
5. Deep Breath - Take a deep breath & exhale before your approach. Calms the nerves, soul and body. It gets you prepaired and keeps you words on lock and not stuttering.
6. Increase Social Skills - Rasing your social skills is as easy as having a conversation with a stranger. Just go with the flow and remain interesting. It's like playing Oblivion.
7. Rasing your Moral - Do things to raise your moral before the hunt begins. I like to wear my ninja head gear and foot gear and dance to MJ. Mooooonwallllkk. Doing things you like to do raises your moral and makes you happy.
8. Smile - Smiling and showing experessions well alwasy increase confidence.
9. Working Out - Loving your body is loving yourself which increases your confidence. Work out and stay in shape. Feeling good about your body increases your confidence dramatically. Lift some dumbbells to tone up, do some sit-ups and push-ups a day.
10. Mirror Mirror - Take a look in the mirror. Flex, pose, smile, kiss, taunt, look at yourself in the mirror. When you can look at yourself and say "hell I'm a sexy looking guy" or "damn I'm hot". It increases your confidence and decreases the worry of thinking that you need to check up on yourself before approaching a lady.
That is about all I got for now about Confidence. If I think up some more stuff I'll update it. Tell me what you think guys. Also I was thinking about making a "Words of Wisdom" podcast and me just give you tips while your on the go and stuff. Would you guys like that?
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rest is optional. Somthing to see if it makes you ya know confident.
Like I said it varies. Bling is jewelry I think a man should wear at
least a nice watch ya know? I'm not talking decked out like some
rapper. Well I never actually told you my style or a style for that
matter, but mine is nice and neat. Everyone has a goal and steps to
take that goal. What I'm trying to say is. A guy or girl can cover up
and tell lies to get towards what they want. Weather sex is the case or
not, people can lie to get what they want. That is why a true
percentage can't necessarly be detrmined.
A person can't hear what another person's mind can think or say...unless they speak.
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