I don't look for women exclusively in bars. Sometimes I do. Hell, I don't even like drinking.
Tonight I went to a coney island and met a girl. One of her friends got beat up at some other place and I went and got him some tylenol. Unfortunately, at 20 years old- she proclaimed she was already engaged. Give me a break! You're 20!
Last week I met a 24 year old gas station attendant- nice girl. Married. Two year old.
There's a 23 year old waitress that digs me at this other retaurant. But guess what? She has THREE children. One. Two. Three. Jesus chirst! I'll pass.
Back in february I went to this little coffee shop to get a date for valentines day. The counter girl is real pretty and always very talkative to me. I brought her a little heart shaped candy thing and was all sappy and cutesy about it. Oh it was so sweet she said- but I already have a boyfriend. Of course you do I said and walked out.
Ten days ago I met two other married women. 28 and 25 at the same coney I mentioned at the beginning.
There was a girl tonight who was VERY interested in me. She couldn't stop looking at me. What was the catch on this one? She was with her boyfriend. He's got his arm around her and they're occasionally squabbling in hushed tones when she's not busy staring at me. I could sense the malevolence radiating from this guy, not that I couldn't beat him to death with my bare hands if I had to- but I just dont need that kind of trouble.
Oh there is a manager at the mcdonalds I go to on lunch break who's single. Her names Trish and she's strikingly beautfiful. She's 5'7", slender, she has long curly brown hair, blue eyes, and dusky skin and a hint of euro/spanish in her. She's single. I've been getting the scoop from this other girl there... who's also giving me away to Trish... Trish in turn is being sweeter with me when I come through. Next time I see her I'm asking her on a date. This is probably the best chance I've seen in several months.
I got one date out of the girl who works at the 7-11 next door to the mcdonalds. The date went really well and she said we should go out again- but then stopped answering or returning my calls all of a sudden. I think she had one of those guys that every girl has... You know, the one guy they think is perfect. He's usually already with a girl but she "isn't good enough for him." They chase this guy until he devestates her, perhaps crushes her more than once even. I've seen it plenty of times.
So basically I meet and pick up women everywhere I go. Hell I even picked up one of my sick friend's nurses once while visiting him in the hospital, back when I had friends.
But yeah- it is pretty god damned ridiculous out there in America, let me tell you. I've been through lots and lots of women. The more you go through though- the lonelier you get. You get to feel like there's something horribly wrong with every woman out there. You see them all make the same mistakes, hear the same sad, tired stories over and over, see the patterns. You tell yourself it isn't true. It's a generalization. There's exceptions to the rule. But I've seen enough to let my voice of reason drown in despair.
It's gonna be ok though. I'm a persistant little bastard.
Hope you got your things together. Hope you are quite prepared to die. Looks like we're in for nasty weather. ... There's a bad moon on the rise.
There's a 23 year old waitress that digs me at this other retaurant. But guess what? She has THREE children. One. Two. Three. Jesus chirst! I'll pass.
Can you say KNOCKED UP...You know what they say..
Before you bang, wrap your wang
That was a great movie as well....
__________________________________________________ In memory of Laura "Taera" Genender. Passed away on Aug/13/08 - Rest In Peace; you will not be forgotten
Lol. This thread still going? I don't look for women exclusively in bars. Sometimes I do. Hell, I don't even like drinking. Tonight I went to a coney island and met a girl. One of her friends got beat up at some other place and I went and got him some tylenol. Unfortunately, at 20 years old- she proclaimed she was already engaged. Give me a break! You're 20! Last week I met a 24 year old gas station attendant- nice girl. Married. Two year old. There's a 23 year old waitress that digs me at this other retaurant. But guess what? She has THREE children. One. Two. Three. Jesus chirst! I'll pass. Back in february I went to this little coffee shop to get a date for valentines day. The counter girl is real pretty and always very talkative to me. I brought her a little heart shaped candy thing and was all sappy and cutesy about it. Oh it was so sweet she said- but I already have a boyfriend. Of course you do I said and walked out. Ten days ago I met two other married women. 28 and 25 at the same coney I mentioned at the beginning. There was a girl tonight who was VERY interested in me. She couldn't stop looking at me. What was the catch on this one? She was with her boyfriend. He's got his arm around her and they're occasionally squabbling in hushed tones when she's not busy staring at me. I could sense the malevolence radiating from this guy, not that I couldn't beat him to death with my bare hands if I had to- but I just dont need that kind of trouble. Oh there is a manager at the mcdonalds I go to on lunch break who's single. Her names Trish and she's strikingly beautfiful. She's 5'7", slender, she has long curly brown hair, blue eyes, and dusky skin and a hint of euro/spanish in her. She's single. I've been getting the scoop from this other girl there... who's also giving me away to Trish... Trish in turn is being sweeter with me when I come through. Next time I see her I'm asking her on a date. This is probably the best chance I've seen in several months. I got one date out of the girl who works at the 7-11 next door to the mcdonalds. The date went really well and she said we should go out again- but then stopped answering or returning my calls all of a sudden. I think she had one of those guys that every girl has... You know, the one guy they think is perfect. He's usually already with a girl but she "isn't good enough for him." They chase this guy until he devestates her, perhaps crushes her more than once even. I've seen it plenty of times. So basically I meet and pick up women everywhere I go. Hell I even picked up one of my sick friend's nurses once while visiting him in the hospital, back when I had friends. But yeah- it is pretty god damned ridiculous out there in America, let me tell you. I've been through lots and lots of women. The more you go through though- the lonelier you get. You get to feel like there's something horribly wrong with every woman out there. You see them all make the same mistakes, hear the same sad, tired stories over and over, see the patterns. You tell yourself it isn't true. It's a generalization. There's exceptions to the rule. But I've seen enough to let my voice of reason drown in despair. It's gonna be ok though. I'm a persistant little bastard.
HA! WOW! Dood.. let me say that if you lived anywhere near NC, we would be friends man..lol.. You experience the same things I always used to tell my friends and what I used to observe in my own experiences. The single chicks with LOTS of kids that are young have very very very very low standards... hehe.. Also, ive had lots of dealings with those chicks who chase one guy for their whole lives.. Even if he is in a relationship, they will forget about everyone they ever knew if "mr.perfect" makes a booty call and ignores her (kinda like how she does everyone else)..
But the main problem you're having is you're looking for dates in the wrong place. Picking up a date at McDonalds turns into a fast food affair, and you'll be doubly disappointed and angrier in the end.
It's a sad affair today that persuing love doesn't come more formally (i.e., introductions and courting), because it offers a chance to vet a date. My first date was at 16, and the guy properly had me over to introduce me to his parents to a sit down dinner at their home. Not only did I get a chance to see his family, I got a chance to talk with his parents in a manner that assured me he wasn't some sociopath (his mom was very sweet, god rest her soul). I knew he was raised well, they knew I was too, and we hit it off well. We're still good friends, without the bitterness so many ex-relationships have today. It's because not only did we know each other, his parents knew I wouldn't hurt him (each family protects their own).
My advice is to stop looking very hard, for you'll seek only misery in the process (desperation sets in, when you should be looking for quality over quantity). Ask yourself is any of those women you would be proud to bring over for dinner with your family? Will she have similar dreams as you, so you can persue your interests and vice versa? If not, move along. Save yourself the misery of grabbing every and anything.
You're still young. Establish yourself in your career some more, and be ready for the responsibility of dating and getting hooked (as financially it's a huge investment). If you're seeking quality, your resume is more important as looks. Women careless on beauty with guys, as they can be confident (not overbearing); financially stable (financially solvent); and established in his career (so needed for a family).
Lol. This thread still going? I don't look for women exclusively in bars. Sometimes I do. Hell, I don't even like drinking. Tonight I went to a coney island and met a girl. One of her friends got beat up at some other place and I went and got him some tylenol. Unfortunately, at 20 years old- she proclaimed she was already engaged. Give me a break! You're 20! Last week I met a 24 year old gas station attendant- nice girl. Married. Two year old. There's a 23 year old waitress that digs me at this other retaurant. But guess what? She has THREE children. One. Two. Three. Jesus chirst! I'll pass. Back in february I went to this little coffee shop to get a date for valentines day. The counter girl is real pretty and always very talkative to me. I brought her a little heart shaped candy thing and was all sappy and cutesy about it. Oh it was so sweet she said- but I already have a boyfriend. Of course you do I said and walked out. Ten days ago I met two other married women. 28 and 25 at the same coney I mentioned at the beginning. There was a girl tonight who was VERY interested in me. She couldn't stop looking at me. What was the catch on this one? She was with her boyfriend. He's got his arm around her and they're occasionally squabbling in hushed tones when she's not busy staring at me. I could sense the malevolence radiating from this guy, not that I couldn't beat him to death with my bare hands if I had to- but I just dont need that kind of trouble. Oh there is a manager at the mcdonalds I go to on lunch break who's single. Her names Trish and she's strikingly beautfiful. She's 5'7", slender, she has long curly brown hair, blue eyes, and dusky skin and a hint of euro/spanish in her. She's single. I've been getting the scoop from this other girl there... who's also giving me away to Trish... Trish in turn is being sweeter with me when I come through. Next time I see her I'm asking her on a date. This is probably the best chance I've seen in several months. I got one date out of the girl who works at the 7-11 next door to the mcdonalds. The date went really well and she said we should go out again- but then stopped answering or returning my calls all of a sudden. I think she had one of those guys that every girl has... You know, the one guy they think is perfect. He's usually already with a girl but she "isn't good enough for him." They chase this guy until he devestates her, perhaps crushes her more than once even. I've seen it plenty of times. So basically I meet and pick up women everywhere I go. Hell I even picked up one of my sick friend's nurses once while visiting him in the hospital, back when I had friends. But yeah- it is pretty god damned ridiculous out there in America, let me tell you. I've been through lots and lots of women. The more you go through though- the lonelier you get. You get to feel like there's something horribly wrong with every woman out there. You see them all make the same mistakes, hear the same sad, tired stories over and over, see the patterns. You tell yourself it isn't true. It's a generalization. There's exceptions to the rule. But I've seen enough to let my voice of reason drown in despair. It's gonna be ok though. I'm a persistant little bastard.
My advice is to stop looking very hard, for you'll seek only misery in the process (desperation sets in, when you should be looking for quality over quantity). Ask yourself is any of those women you would be proud to bring over for dinner with your family? Will she have similar dreams as you, so you can persue your interests and vice versa? If not, move along. Save yourself the misery of grabbing every and anything. You're still young. Establish yourself in your career some more, and be ready for the responsibility of dating and getting hooked (as financially it's a huge investment). If you're seeking quality, your resume is more important as looks. Women careless on beauty with guys, as they can be confident (not overbearing); financially stable (financially solvent); and established in his career (so needed for a family).
You're telling him to go and approach dating like a woman would (with a slight reverse of getting established in a career more, of course, to attract chicks with a ridiculously expensive sports car because it's a sign of money).
The trick is, girls love guys that treat them like trash. That's why we hear all of these sob stories, and the "nice guys" that have outlets for our natural aggressions (MMORPGs or whatever) just become the pillow these girls cry on.
I've had three girls I treated pretty poorly and they loved it. I got sick of it so I told them to stop showing up.
Holy thread necromancy Batman! Someone went through my post history and dug this up obviously. Listen guy, if you wanna talk to me cuz you're feelin' blue just PM me.
Hope you got your things together. Hope you are quite prepared to die. Looks like we're in for nasty weather. ... There's a bad moon on the rise.
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Lol. This thread still going?
I don't look for women exclusively in bars. Sometimes I do. Hell, I don't even like drinking.
Tonight I went to a coney island and met a girl. One of her friends got beat up at some other place and I went and got him some tylenol. Unfortunately, at 20 years old- she proclaimed she was already engaged. Give me a break! You're 20!
Last week I met a 24 year old gas station attendant- nice girl. Married. Two year old.
There's a 23 year old waitress that digs me at this other retaurant. But guess what? She has THREE children. One. Two. Three. Jesus chirst! I'll pass.
Back in february I went to this little coffee shop to get a date for valentines day. The counter girl is real pretty and always very talkative to me. I brought her a little heart shaped candy thing and was all sappy and cutesy about it. Oh it was so sweet she said- but I already have a boyfriend. Of course you do I said and walked out.
Ten days ago I met two other married women. 28 and 25 at the same coney I mentioned at the beginning.
There was a girl tonight who was VERY interested in me. She couldn't stop looking at me. What was the catch on this one? She was with her boyfriend. He's got his arm around her and they're occasionally squabbling in hushed tones when she's not busy staring at me. I could sense the malevolence radiating from this guy, not that I couldn't beat him to death with my bare hands if I had to- but I just dont need that kind of trouble.
Oh there is a manager at the mcdonalds I go to on lunch break who's single. Her names Trish and she's strikingly beautfiful. She's 5'7", slender, she has long curly brown hair, blue eyes, and dusky skin and a hint of euro/spanish in her. She's single. I've been getting the scoop from this other girl there... who's also giving me away to Trish... Trish in turn is being sweeter with me when I come through. Next time I see her I'm asking her on a date. This is probably the best chance I've seen in several months.
I got one date out of the girl who works at the 7-11 next door to the mcdonalds. The date went really well and she said we should go out again- but then stopped answering or returning my calls all of a sudden. I think she had one of those guys that every girl has... You know, the one guy they think is perfect. He's usually already with a girl but she "isn't good enough for him." They chase this guy until he devestates her, perhaps crushes her more than once even. I've seen it plenty of times.
So basically I meet and pick up women everywhere I go. Hell I even picked up one of my sick friend's nurses once while visiting him in the hospital, back when I had friends.
But yeah- it is pretty god damned ridiculous out there in America, let me tell you. I've been through lots and lots of women. The more you go through though- the lonelier you get. You get to feel like there's something horribly wrong with every woman out there. You see them all make the same mistakes, hear the same sad, tired stories over and over, see the patterns. You tell yourself it isn't true. It's a generalization. There's exceptions to the rule. But I've seen enough to let my voice of reason drown in despair.
It's gonna be ok though. I'm a persistant little bastard.
Hope you got your things together. Hope you are quite prepared to die. Looks like we're in for nasty weather. ... There's a bad moon on the rise.
Can you say KNOCKED UP...You know what they say..Before you bang, wrap your wang
That was a great movie as well....
__________________________________________________
In memory of Laura "Taera" Genender. Passed away on Aug/13/08 - Rest In Peace; you will not be forgotten
I hear you. I'm a really secure guy myself but I think I'm a minority...
Soap operas never die.
But the main problem you're having is you're looking for dates in the wrong place. Picking up a date at McDonalds turns into a fast food affair, and you'll be doubly disappointed and angrier in the end.
It's a sad affair today that persuing love doesn't come more formally (i.e., introductions and courting), because it offers a chance to vet a date. My first date was at 16, and the guy properly had me over to introduce me to his parents to a sit down dinner at their home. Not only did I get a chance to see his family, I got a chance to talk with his parents in a manner that assured me he wasn't some sociopath (his mom was very sweet, god rest her soul). I knew he was raised well, they knew I was too, and we hit it off well. We're still good friends, without the bitterness so many ex-relationships have today. It's because not only did we know each other, his parents knew I wouldn't hurt him (each family protects their own).
My advice is to stop looking very hard, for you'll seek only misery in the process (desperation sets in, when you should be looking for quality over quantity). Ask yourself is any of those women you would be proud to bring over for dinner with your family? Will she have similar dreams as you, so you can persue your interests and vice versa? If not, move along. Save yourself the misery of grabbing every and anything.
You're still young. Establish yourself in your career some more, and be ready for the responsibility of dating and getting hooked (as financially it's a huge investment). If you're seeking quality, your resume is more important as looks. Women careless on beauty with guys, as they can be confident (not overbearing); financially stable (financially solvent); and established in his career (so needed for a family).
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You're telling him to go and approach dating like a woman would (with a slight reverse of getting established in a career more, of course, to attract chicks with a ridiculously expensive sports car because it's a sign of money).
The trick is, girls love guys that treat them like trash. That's why we hear all of these sob stories, and the "nice guys" that have outlets for our natural aggressions (MMORPGs or whatever) just become the pillow these girls cry on.
I've had three girls I treated pretty poorly and they loved it. I got sick of it so I told them to stop showing up.
Holy thread necromancy Batman! Someone went through my post history and dug this up obviously. Listen guy, if you wanna talk to me cuz you're feelin' blue just PM me.
Hope you got your things together. Hope you are quite prepared to die. Looks like we're in for nasty weather. ... There's a bad moon on the rise.