Originally posted by Neanderthal Surely you noticed that most of my responses were pretty tongue-in-cheek types of comments. You might be taking it a little too personally. But if you want a honest, serious response then here it is. If you were serious about all of that crap then I very much doubt that you have ever gotten laid. Of course I can't tell how serious you were. But if your approach to attracting women really involves a regular confidence building ritual of dressing up like a ninja and moonwalking and kissing yourself in a mirror; If you really think that a mans ability to accessorise with jewelry matters a lot; If you feel the need to preen in front of a mirror and tell yourself how hot you are (heh, I got the image of a guy looking coquettishly askance at his own reflection, flicking his hand limp-wristedly at himself and saying things like, "Oh, you're thuch a brute you big hunk of man-flesh!"); If you really get so wound up before talking to a woman that you have to stop and take a deep breath; If you were serious about all of that then I would be suprised if you have ever even touched a woman. No offense intended. And you know the truth no matter what I think. But if you want my real opinion then that is it. I thought most of your advice was terrible and sounded like it was some sort of bad joke. Sort of like a comedy skit about a guy who is a complete loser with women but who tries to convince himself he's a ladies man with ridiculous schemes and tricks that never work. So, since we can't hear each others tone of voice, let me just ask you..were you serious?
Nah, you took my humor a little too serisouly bro. This has nothing to do with getting laied what-so-ever and it's just one of the iggnorant commets that comes from most people. Who said you need to be laied in order to be the typical guy to talk to ladies and to feel confident about yourself. It makes me wonder if you think getting laied is a score or it's all to get some of the girl. No offence bro. I'm a ladiesman, but a vergin. It's hard to resist sex (becuase many girls are on standby), but I don't believe that sex is the way to show you care about someone. So many relationships are dystroyed by relationships based on sex rather than anything but love. My goals with women is not about sex, but it's about communicating on the same level and maybe even more. I treat them how they want to be treated and not like a toy to play with.
See, I didn't take anything to heart, as I get these kind of things all the time. Now this actually has nothing to do with "the approach" but it's about feeling good about an approach. When a person is confident, they can do anything they want. Having a strong heart you can say. My tips gave mere examples and don't really reflect on what I do, but to make you laugh and understand what your talking about.
You took the examples too seriousuly and it makes me laugh. The first sentence (maybe more) and whatever is before the "-" is what should be reading. If you are able to understand the tips to having confidence and NOT APPROACHING WOMEN.
You should get a little edcated about who I'm am on these forums. You took it way too seriosuly and ya know. It's based on a little fun, but you should be able to see the points I'm getting at.
Originally posted by Hohbein Originally posted by Rikimaru_X This has nothing to do with talking to the girl, but just your preperation to go outside and if you do get that chance....
What I think annoys most people is the fact that you assume people here need help going outside! Sure, the stigma attached to MMO gamers would suggest they are 200lb geeks with nothing better to do than play games, but I think you'll find the majority actually leave perfectly normal, confident lives and need no help from a perfect stranger.
I don't mean to have a go here, Riki. I'm just saying that some people might take your 'lessons' as cockiness on your part. Offering people help with their self confidence and love lives really does make you look a bit big-headed and full of it.
I don't assume anything. I post it here for the people who might get an idea of it and for those whom already know, they don't need to worry. That is the thing about forums. You can post a link to news, but if you already know what the news is about, why should you click that link?
Oh that quote, It's not about going outside to a "GET A LIFE" kind of thing. You took it out of context. It's like waking up, getting ready for work, go outside... I'm not saying you guys don't go outside. I'm saying as you know, make sure you look good before you go out and do things. Ya know?
Originally posted by Rikimaru_X Ha. Don't jump to conclusions...to the some of you. You can't assume I think women are objects or gifts off of this. This lesson is mainly to make you feel good about yourself and take off the pressure that you may have on your sholders. This has nothing to do with talking to the girl, but just your preperation to go outside and if you do get that chance....
I'm not feeding anybody infomation. You take what you need or read and increase. My post was never a factor on these forums. True reasons for me comming here is just for the community and to share my knowledge when needed.
Yeah, see... I just sort of meant "Is this the image the post presents to you?", or something... Besides, it's not like women don't speak of such things as "Getting the guy", and whatnot. I just never really got that. My brother and his friend(who also lives here), and, frankly, every dude I've talked to in real life, all tend to act like chauvinists, so, yeah... It's a little annoying.
Anyway, I'm sorry about my post. I was just kind of trying to see why Hohbein didn't like ya, is all.
Originally posted by Kuzzle Originally posted by Rikimaru_X Ha. Don't jump to conclusions...to the some of you. You can't assume I think women are objects or gifts off of this. This lesson is mainly to make you feel good about yourself and take off the pressure that you may have on your sholders. This has nothing to do with talking to the girl, but just your preperation to go outside and if you do get that chance....
I'm not feeding anybody infomation. You take what you need or read and increase. My post was never a factor on these forums. True reasons for me comming here is just for the community and to share my knowledge when needed.
Yeah, see... I just sort of meant "Is this the image the post presents to you?", or something... Besides, it's not like women don't speak of such things as "Getting the guy", and whatnot. I just never really got that. My brother and his friend(who also lives here), and, frankly, every dude I've talked to in real life, all tend to act like chauvinists, so, yeah... It's a little annoying.
Anyway, I'm sorry about my post. I was just kind of trying to see why Hohbein didn't like ya, is all.
It's alright bro. Hohbein starts with everyone. We all deal with it.
Isn't this the same Riki that ninja chopped a supposed rapist? But got called out on it and admitted he lied?
The same Riki that made a post bragging about how he always gets older woman?
The same Riki that has 6k posts?
The same Riki that is now coming here pretending to be 'the man'
You post for attention. Whether good or bad.
I am sure that some folks may take you advice. But also in the same token you can understand how it can be seen as you trolling for attention again and being arrogant in the extreme.
Originally posted by Sithos Isn't this the same Riki that ninja chopped a supposed rapist? But got called out on it and admitted he lied?
The same Riki that made a post bragging about how he always gets older woman?
The same Riki that has 6k posts?
The same Riki that is now coming here pretending to be 'the man'
You post for attention. Whether good or bad.
I am sure that some folks may take you advice. But also in the same token you can understand how it can be seen as you trolling for attention again and being arrogant in the extreme.
Meh who cares about that, Riki's posts are always good fun to read (as are the ensuing replies/arguments/bitching. )
Ohh yeah and I want that podcast, if only to file under 'future blackmail opportunities'
This has nothing to do with getting laied what-so-ever
Ok, but maybe you can understand how I got that impression. Especially with your talk about "the hunt". So what are you hunting for exactly?
Who said you need to be laied in order to be the typical guy to talk to ladies and to feel confident about yourself. It makes me wonder if you think getting laied is a score or it's all to get some of the girl.
Let's just be honest here. Getting laid is the motivation that drives most men when they go out of their way to try to get to know a woman. It might lead to a long term relationship or it might not but sex is the driving force for most men.
No offence bro. I'm a ladiesman, but a vergin.
That sounds like a contradiction of terms to me. But I'll give you high points for honesty. I'm suprised you would admit that you are a virgin. There isn't anything wrong with being a virgin it's just that most men who are won't admit it. I know that I wouldn't admit it when I was still a virgin.
Of course you are anonymous on this message board so it's a little different. The internet didn't even exist yet when I was in college and lying about my virginity. When I had sex for the first time I think the relief of not having to lie about it anymore was better than the sex.
It's hard to resist sex (becuase many girls are on standby), but I don't believe that sex is the way to show you care about someone. So many relationships are dystroyed by relationships based on sex rather than anything but love. My goals with women is not about sex, but it's about communicating on the same level and maybe even more. I treat them how they want to be treated and not like a toy to play with.
If you have so many girls standing in line for you why do you feel you have to resist having sex? If they want to have sex with you I say pick one and go for it.
See, I didn't take anything to heart, as I get these kind of things all the time. Now this actually has nothing to do with "the approach" but it's about feeling good about an approach. When a person is confident, they can do anything they want. Having a strong heart you can say. My tips gave mere examples and don't really reflect on what I do, but to make you laugh and understand what your talking about.
You took the examples too seriousuly and it makes me laugh. The first sentence (maybe more) and whatever is before the "-" is what should be reading. If you are able to understand the tips to having confidence and NOT APPROACHING WOMEN.
You should get a little edcated about who I'm am on these forums. You took it way too seriosuly and ya know. It's based on a little fun, but you should be able to see the points I'm getting at.
To tell you the truth, the more I read of your thoughts the less sense it makes to me. But maybe that's just my failing.
Originally posted by Rikimaru_X This has nothing to do with getting laied what-so-ever Ok, but maybe you can understand how I got that impression. Especially with your talk about "the hunt". So what are you hunting for exactly? I was just throwing a bad joke.
Who said you need to be laied in order to be the typical guy to talk to ladies and to feel confident about yourself. It makes me wonder if you think getting laied is a score or it's all to get some of the girl. Let's just be honest here. Getting laid is the motivation that drives most men when they go out of their way to try to get to know a woman. It might lead to a long term relationship or it might not but sex is the driving force for most men.
Yeah, I know that very well, bro....I knew it, but that is somthing I didn't think about when I made this topic, maybe on my other ones, but not this one though. Damn your so right, but the thing that would be wrong on the laidies part would be judging that all men are like that (sex driving us to get to know a women).
No offence bro. I'm a ladiesman, but a vergin. That sounds like a contradiction of terms to me. But I'll give you high points for honesty. I'm suprised you would admit that you are a virgin. There isn't anything wrong with being a virgin it's just that most men who are won't admit it. I know that I wouldn't admit it when I was still a virgin. Of course you are anonymous on this message board so it's a little different. The internet didn't even exist yet when I was in college and lying about my virginity. When I had sex for the first time I think the relief of not having to lie about it anymore was better than the sex. I understand. Heh, was it really cool not to be a vergin? That's new news to me...except for my cousins. They are all about sex. It's hard to resist sex (becuase many girls are on standby), but I don't believe that sex is the way to show you care about someone. So many relationships are dystroyed by relationships based on sex rather than anything but love. My goals with women is not about sex, but it's about communicating on the same level and maybe even more. I treat them how they want to be treated and not like a toy to play with. If you have so many girls standing in line for you why do you feel you have to resist having sex? If they want to have sex with you I say pick one and go for it. I don't feel that sex will make me feel happy ya know man. Sex is just a feeling. If I meet a girl I would feel the urge, but I don't feel that I need sex to be happy or to make myself feel good. Yeah I know I'm a guy and I get tempted, but...I think holding my own till I find someone that really really close to me is my best bet. Ya feel me? Then when or if I have sex, I won't feel guilty, not about the sex but the concequiences...or that is just my paranoia holding me down. HA! . . . they will always be on standby though...
See, I didn't take anything to heart, as I get these kind of things all the time. Now this actually has nothing to do with "the approach" but it's about feeling good about an approach. When a person is confident, they can do anything they want. Having a strong heart you can say. My tips gave mere examples and don't really reflect on what I do, but to make you laugh and understand what your talking about.
You took the examples too seriousuly and it makes me laugh. The first sentence (maybe more) and whatever is before the "-" is what should be reading. If you are able to understand the tips to having confidence and NOT APPROACHING WOMEN.
You should get a little edcated about who I'm am on these forums. You took it way too seriosuly and ya know. It's based on a little fun, but you should be able to see the points I'm getting at. To tell you the truth, the more I read of your thoughts the less sense it makes to me. But maybe that's just my failing. I think things may have been a little different in your time...or maybe I'm the different person. Talking and studying them, but not screwing them. I did screw up that sentence though becuase I was in a hurry. Sorry about that. When I'm in a hurry, my spelling and grammar goes down, but my kpm increases. I enjoyed this reply man...I like when people speak up intelegently and looks forward to a reply.
Eh, the sex itself wasn't that big a deal and honestly my first time wasn't all that great for me because I was focusing more on not making a fool of myself than I was on enjoying it. It probably didn't help that I knew the woman I was with was experienced. If she had been a virgin as well I probably wouldn't have felt so much pressure. The great thing about it was just getting it out of the way so I didn't have to worry about it anymore. After that first time I was able to relax and enjoy it. And it was nice to not have to lie to my friends anymore.
I don't feel that sex will make me feel happy ya know man. Sex is just a feeling. If I meet a girl I would feel the urge, but I don't feel that I need sex to be happy or to make myself feel good. Yeah I know I'm a guy and I get tempted, but...I think holding my own till I find someone that really really close to me is my best bet. Ya feel me?
I can respect that.
Then when or if I have sex, I won't feel guilty, not about the sex but the concequiences...or that is just my paranoia holding me down. HA!
Consequences? Bleh, live life and let what happens happen. I assume you were talking about your relationship with the woman and not some concern about STDs or pregnancy?
Well you know, women like to have sex too. If a women wants to have sex with you give her what she wants. I mean what the hell...if it turns the relationship sour that's a shame but life goes on.
I think things may have been a little different in your time.
Probably not just in my time but in my place and among my peer group. I grew up in redneck culture and had redneck friends so there was a lot of macho peer pressure about this sort of thing.
or maybe I'm the different person.
Probably that too. And that's cool. The world would be a boring place if we were all the same.
I'm not gonna take up half a page quoting all that shit, so I'll just reply. Sex isn't a big deal. I was in the same shoes as Nean with my first time having sex. I was tired of having to lie about virginity. Quite frankly, the "lose my virginity" sex wasn't very good. I was nervous as hell, and her sister knocking on the door made it weird. But after you get the hang of things after the first time, it's awesome, fun, and it's not a big deal. I never got the feeling of taking a step down on the morals ladder after I lost the v card. I felt more liberated and self confident if anything. I don't feel I'm a ladies man by any means. I'm actually far from a socialite. I just don't feel you can proclaim yourself a ladies' man if you haven't actually hopped on the good foot and done the bad thing. My 2 cents.
Wow, great comments Neanderthal. Very interesting. I was talking about pregnacy mainly about the consequences thing, but I do see your points and veiws very clearily. You seem old school, are you in your...30's maybe?
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I also see your point Mod. Sex is more of the completion of the ladies man title, but I hit every other catagory. Being wise, caring, understanding, dancing, learning, communication, etc. I hit everything most girls would want in a guy, but sex stops it all, being that they feel confortable letting me have it (even the female vergins), I get...not scared, but I resist. I don't know if I'm taking my father's word way to heart about not having sex...I don't know.
This is somthing that gives me a lot of thought...
Originally posted by Rikimaru_X You seem old school, are you in your...30's maybe?
39 at the moment but very soon I'm going to hit the big four-oh. And that seems almost sureal to me because it doesn't feel like it's been that long since I graduated from high school. But I guess it probably feels that way for all of us geezers.
Originally posted by Neanderthal Originally posted by Rikimaru_X You seem old school, are you in your...30's maybe?
39 at the moment but very soon I'm going to hit the big four-oh. And that seems almost sureal to me because it doesn't feel like it's been that long since I graduated from high school. But I guess it probably feels that way for all of us geezers. OLD MAN! Wasn't high school for you like... in the 1960's?
I didnt take time to read all the posts, but enough to see that he was getting his ass flamed.
If you flame riki for trying to give people in need advice, STFU.
Most of what riki said i can relate to. I have found out these things on my own and it has helped greatly. He posted not for attention, i mean wtf, attention on the INTERNET? He posted to mabye help people seeking advice on communicating with people. Its good advice indeed.
But its dumb to make a long drawn out post on how riki is probally some fag thats never gotten laid. My biggest guess is that your just jealous. Either that or somthing has happened and your just pissed, so you take out your anger on a person trying to give advice, on the internet....
Originally posted by Zerocool032 FFS... I didnt take time to read all the posts, but enough to see that he was getting his ass flamed. If you flame riki for trying to give people in need advice, STFU. Most of what riki said i can relate to. I have found out these things on my own and it has helped greatly. He posted not for attention, i mean wtf, attention on the INTERNET? He posted to mabye help people seeking advice on communicating with people. Its good advice indeed. But its dumb to make a long drawn out post on how riki is probally some fag thats never gotten laid. My biggest guess is that your just jealous. Either that or somthing has happened and your just pissed, so you take out your anger on a person trying to give advice, on the internet....
He kinda came off as a self-absorbed metro to me. Ah the power of words, so many ways to interpret such simple things such as dancing in a ninja suit to MJ and kissing yourself in the mirror. And the whole "You must not know who I am on these boards" comment didn't do much to help his humble attitude that you seem so adamant to defend. We just pointed out that a self-proclaimed ladies' man who has never had sex and has 6000 posts on a gaming forum probably doesn't have a PHD in relationship therapy. And you're probably right, I am jealous of him. Who wouldn't be with all the girls he has waiting to hop on his penis. Oh, and I'm pulling the bullshit card on that one. Girls don't work that way.
Originally posted by modjoe86 Originally posted by Zerocool032 FFS... I didnt take time to read all the posts, but enough to see that he was getting his ass flamed. If you flame riki for trying to give people in need advice, STFU. Most of what riki said i can relate to. I have found out these things on my own and it has helped greatly. He posted not for attention, i mean wtf, attention on the INTERNET? He posted to mabye help people seeking advice on communicating with people. Its good advice indeed. But its dumb to make a long drawn out post on how riki is probally some fag thats never gotten laid. My biggest guess is that your just jealous. Either that or somthing has happened and your just pissed, so you take out your anger on a person trying to give advice, on the internet....
He kinda came off as a self-absorbed metro to me. Ah the power of words, so many ways to interpret such simple things such as dancing in a ninja suit to MJ and kissing yourself in the mirror. And the whole "You must not know who I am on these boards" comment didn't do much to help his humble attitude that you seem so adamant to defend. We just pointed out that a self-proclaimed ladies' man who has never had sex and has 6000 posts on a gaming forum probably doesn't have a PHD in relationship therapy. And you're probably right, I am jealous of him. Who wouldn't be with all the girls he has waiting to hop on his penis. Oh, and I'm pulling the bullshit card on that one. Girls don't work that way.
That was just made to make you laugh....but I do think I use that bullshit card when I don't know it. I can come off as an ass sometimes. I do admit that, but my post count has nothing to do with it, but history on the forums does. You can't judge a person by where they hang out or what sites they view. So why can't a person who is a ladies man hang out on a game site? Where should I be? On myspace? I like it here becuase I like people like you and others. I like presenting things to you guys. I don't need a PHD. A person don't need a title to have the knowledge of anyone whom has a PHD.
You shouldn't be jelious. You know what makes me jelous of you guys? Your computers. I'm running on a Compaq Presario, as you can tell I can't run NO MMORPG smoothly yet none at all. I don't have the pocket change to build me a rig or buy a better rig. I envy all of you... I would take a good computer over girls that would want me...well when they find out that I'm actually a good guy and one that they are looking for...
Mod, I would trade your rig for the girls that first turned me down for being understanding and wise for sex with other guys then want me back, becuase I'm somthing they have been looking for.
Ya know I like this community, that is why I'm here, hanging out. Who has to be a gamer in order to be in a gaming community. Well yeah I'm a gamer but look at the Off-Topic forums. Take a break from all the political things and chill with rikimaru. I'm taking a break from political discussions as I used to be the Alex of them sometime back.
What else can I say?
P.S. = I really don't care about my post count. It's when people bring it up they throw it in their arguments and discussions. My Elite membership has nothing to do with it neither, becuase I'm the king quoter and quotes don't affect it. Like I said, I like this community and it's my top online community.
Originally posted by Rikimaru_X Originally posted by modjoe86 Originally posted by Zerocool032 FFS... I didnt take time to read all the posts, but enough to see that he was getting his ass flamed. If you flame riki for trying to give people in need advice, STFU. Most of what riki said i can relate to. I have found out these things on my own and it has helped greatly. He posted not for attention, i mean wtf, attention on the INTERNET? He posted to mabye help people seeking advice on communicating with people. Its good advice indeed. But its dumb to make a long drawn out post on how riki is probally some fag thats never gotten laid. My biggest guess is that your just jealous. Either that or somthing has happened and your just pissed, so you take out your anger on a person trying to give advice, on the internet....
He kinda came off as a self-absorbed metro to me. Ah the power of words, so many ways to interpret such simple things such as dancing in a ninja suit to MJ and kissing yourself in the mirror. And the whole "You must not know who I am on these boards" comment didn't do much to help his humble attitude that you seem so adamant to defend. We just pointed out that a self-proclaimed ladies' man who has never had sex and has 6000 posts on a gaming forum probably doesn't have a PHD in relationship therapy. And you're probably right, I am jealous of him. Who wouldn't be with all the girls he has waiting to hop on his penis. Oh, and I'm pulling the bullshit card on that one. Girls don't work that way.
That was just made to make you laugh....but I do think I use that bullshit card when I don't know it. I can come off as an ass sometimes. I do admit that, but my post count has nothing to do with it, but history on the forums does. You can't judge a person by where they hang out or what sites they view. So why can't a person who is a ladies man hang out on a game site? Where should I be? On myspace? I like it here becuase I like people like you and others. I like presenting things to you guys. I don't need a PHD. A person don't need a title to have the knowledge of anyone whom has a PHD.
You shouldn't be jelious. You know what makes me jelous of you guys? Your computers. I'm running on a Compaq Presario, as you can tell I can't run NO MMORPG smoothly yet none at all. I don't have the pocket change to build me a rig or buy a better rig. I envy all of you... I would take a good computer over girls that would want me...well when they find out that I'm actually a good guy and one that they are looking for...
Mod, I would trade your rig for the girls that first turned me down for being understanding and wise for sex with other guys then want me back, becuase I'm somthing they have been looking for.
Ya know I like this community, that is why I'm here, hanging out. Who has to be a gamer in order to be in a gaming community. Well yeah I'm a gamer but look at the Off-Topic forums. Take a break from all the political things and chill with rikimaru. I'm taking a break from political discussions as I used to be the Alex of them sometime back.
What else can I say?
P.S. = I really don't care about my post count. It's when people bring it up they throw it in their arguments and discussions. My Elite membership has nothing to do with it neither, becuase I'm the king quoter and quotes don't affect it. Like I said, I like this community and it's my top online community.
I wasn't actually jealous of you, it was a bit of sarcasm. Hell, you can have my computer. Athlon xp 2200+ 512 MB SD-DDR shit ram 60 gig drive 4 fried usb ports Geforce 4 mx420. In the future though, if you're giving bits of wisdom, I wouldn't recommend throwing in jokes interspersed randomly throughout the advice. How do socially insecure nerds know which things to listen to? All I know is that I don't think any of that advice is valid except good hygiene. Unless you're trying to pick up club sluts, bling isn't going to impress any ladies. I'd be laughed away by any self-respecting semi-mature woman if I wore a chain and tried to "go in for the kill." How old are these girls that are actually attracted to this style? And if they are legal, what is their IQ, and how loose is their package? Oh, and how many one night stands have they had. I predict the answers to be: 1. <100 2. Very 3. >100 Women who are interested in anything but sex would be turned off by 90% of that stuff methinks.
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Be yourself!!!
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women aren't objects...hookers are. so clean em up and keep em functional. XD
See, I didn't take anything to heart, as I get these kind of things all the time. Now this actually has nothing to do with "the approach" but it's about feeling good about an approach. When a person is confident, they can do anything they want. Having a strong heart you can say. My tips gave mere examples and don't really reflect on what I do, but to make you laugh and understand what your talking about.
You took the examples too seriousuly and it makes me laugh. The first sentence (maybe more) and whatever is before the "-" is what should be reading. If you are able to understand the tips to having confidence and NOT APPROACHING WOMEN.
You should get a little edcated about who I'm am on these forums. You took it way too seriosuly and ya know. It's based on a little fun, but you should be able to see the points I'm getting at.
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I don't mean to have a go here, Riki. I'm just saying that some people might take your 'lessons' as cockiness on your part. Offering people help with their self confidence and love lives really does make you look a bit big-headed and full of it.
I don't assume anything. I post it here for the people who might get an idea of it and for those whom already know, they don't need to worry. That is the thing about forums. You can post a link to news, but if you already know what the news is about, why should you click that link?
Oh that quote, It's not about going outside to a "GET A LIFE" kind of thing. You took it out of context. It's like waking up, getting ready for work, go outside... I'm not saying you guys don't go outside. I'm saying as you know, make sure you look good before you go out and do things. Ya know?
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Yeah, see... I just sort of meant "Is this the image the post presents to you?", or something... Besides, it's not like women don't speak of such things as "Getting the guy", and whatnot. I just never really got that. My brother and his friend(who also lives here), and, frankly, every dude I've talked to in real life, all tend to act like chauvinists, so, yeah... It's a little annoying.
Anyway, I'm sorry about my post. I was just kind of trying to see why Hohbein didn't like ya, is all.
Yeah, see... I just sort of meant "Is this the image the post presents to you?", or something... Besides, it's not like women don't speak of such things as "Getting the guy", and whatnot. I just never really got that. My brother and his friend(who also lives here), and, frankly, every dude I've talked to in real life, all tend to act like chauvinists, so, yeah... It's a little annoying.
Anyway, I'm sorry about my post. I was just kind of trying to see why Hohbein didn't like ya, is all.
It's alright bro. Hohbein starts with everyone. We all deal with it.
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I don't hate Riki, I just enjoy arguing with people.
The same Riki that made a post bragging about how he always gets older woman?
The same Riki that has 6k posts?
The same Riki that is now coming here pretending to be 'the man'
You post for attention. Whether good or bad.
I am sure that some folks may take you advice. But also in the same token you can understand how it can be seen as you trolling for attention again and being arrogant in the extreme.
And what a great golden rule it is.
I go with teh personal hygiene as the Golden Rule.
P.S. we all want photographic evidence of your girlfriend.
Ohh yeah and I want that podcast, if only to file under 'future blackmail opportunities'
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-In memory of Laura "Taera" Genender. Passed away on Aug/13/08-
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RISING DRAGOON ~AION US ONLINE LEGION for Elyos
Heh, was it really cool not to be a vergin?
Eh, the sex itself wasn't that big a deal and honestly my first time wasn't all that great for me because I was focusing more on not making a fool of myself than I was on enjoying it. It probably didn't help that I knew the woman I was with was experienced. If she had been a virgin as well I probably wouldn't have felt so much pressure. The great thing about it was just getting it out of the way so I didn't have to worry about it anymore. After that first time I was able to relax and enjoy it. And it was nice to not have to lie to my friends anymore.
I don't feel that sex will make me feel happy ya know man. Sex is just a feeling. If I meet a girl I would feel the urge, but I don't feel that I need sex to be happy or to make myself feel good. Yeah I know I'm a guy and I get tempted, but...I think holding my own till I find someone that really really close to me is my best bet. Ya feel me?
I can respect that.
Then when or if I have sex, I won't feel guilty, not about the sex but the concequiences...or that is just my paranoia holding me down. HA!
Consequences? Bleh, live life and let what happens happen. I assume you were talking about your relationship with the woman and not some concern about STDs or pregnancy?
Well you know, women like to have sex too. If a women wants to have sex with you give her what she wants. I mean what the hell...if it turns the relationship sour that's a shame but life goes on.
I think things may have been a little different in your time.
Probably not just in my time but in my place and among my peer group. I grew up in redneck culture and had redneck friends so there was a lot of macho peer pressure about this sort of thing.
or maybe I'm the different person.
Probably that too. And that's cool. The world would be a boring place if we were all the same.
Sex isn't a big deal. I was in the same shoes as Nean with my first time having sex. I was tired of having to lie about virginity. Quite frankly, the "lose my virginity" sex wasn't very good. I was nervous as hell, and her sister knocking on the door made it weird. But after you get the hang of things after the first time, it's awesome, fun, and it's not a big deal. I never got the feeling of taking a step down on the morals ladder after I lost the v card. I felt more liberated and self confident if anything.
I don't feel I'm a ladies man by any means. I'm actually far from a socialite. I just don't feel you can proclaim yourself a ladies' man if you haven't actually hopped on the good foot and done the bad thing.
My 2 cents.
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Wow, great comments Neanderthal. Very interesting. I was talking about pregnacy mainly about the consequences thing, but I do see your points and veiws very clearily. You seem old school, are you in your...30's maybe?
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I also see your point Mod. Sex is more of the completion of the ladies man title, but I hit every other catagory. Being wise, caring, understanding, dancing, learning, communication, etc. I hit everything most girls would want in a guy, but sex stops it all, being that they feel confortable letting me have it (even the female vergins), I get...not scared, but I resist. I don't know if I'm taking my father's word way to heart about not having sex...I don't know.
This is somthing that gives me a lot of thought...
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Wait. We're all different. That means we all have that in common.
(P.S. I know it wasn't really related to the topic, just felt like saying it...)
OLD MAN!
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FFS...
I didnt take time to read all the posts, but enough to see that he was getting his ass flamed.
If you flame riki for trying to give people in need advice, STFU.
Most of what riki said i can relate to. I have found out these things on my own and it has helped greatly. He posted not for attention, i mean wtf, attention on the INTERNET? He posted to mabye help people seeking advice on communicating with people. Its good advice indeed.
But its dumb to make a long drawn out post on how riki is probally some fag thats never gotten laid. My biggest guess is that your just jealous. Either that or somthing has happened and your just pissed, so you take out your anger on a person trying to give advice, on the internet....
And the whole "You must not know who I am on these boards" comment didn't do much to help his humble attitude that you seem so adamant to defend.
We just pointed out that a self-proclaimed ladies' man who has never had sex and has 6000 posts on a gaming forum probably doesn't have a PHD in relationship therapy.
And you're probably right, I am jealous of him. Who wouldn't be with all the girls he has waiting to hop on his penis.
Oh, and I'm pulling the bullshit card on that one. Girls don't work that way.
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Call me crazy.
And the whole "You must not know who I am on these boards" comment didn't do much to help his humble attitude that you seem so adamant to defend.
We just pointed out that a self-proclaimed ladies' man who has never had sex and has 6000 posts on a gaming forum probably doesn't have a PHD in relationship therapy.
And you're probably right, I am jealous of him. Who wouldn't be with all the girls he has waiting to hop on his penis.
Oh, and I'm pulling the bullshit card on that one. Girls don't work that way.
That was just made to make you laugh....but I do think I use that bullshit card when I don't know it.
You shouldn't be jelious. You know what makes me jelous of you guys? Your computers. I'm running on a Compaq Presario, as you can tell I can't run NO MMORPG smoothly yet none at all. I don't have the pocket change to build me a rig or buy a better rig. I envy all of you... I would take a good computer over girls that would want me...well when they find out that I'm actually a good guy and one that they are looking for...
Mod, I would trade your rig for the girls that first turned me down for being understanding and wise for sex with other guys then want me back, becuase I'm somthing they have been looking for.
Ya know I like this community, that is why I'm here, hanging out. Who has to be a gamer in order to be in a gaming community. Well yeah I'm a gamer but look at the Off-Topic forums. Take a break from all the political things and chill with rikimaru. I'm taking a break from political discussions as I used to be the Alex of them sometime back.
What else can I say?
P.S. = I really don't care about my post count. It's when people bring it up they throw it in their arguments and discussions. My Elite membership has nothing to do with it neither, becuase I'm the king quoter and quotes don't affect it. Like I said, I like this community and it's my top online community.
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And the whole "You must not know who I am on these boards" comment didn't do much to help his humble attitude that you seem so adamant to defend.
We just pointed out that a self-proclaimed ladies' man who has never had sex and has 6000 posts on a gaming forum probably doesn't have a PHD in relationship therapy.
And you're probably right, I am jealous of him. Who wouldn't be with all the girls he has waiting to hop on his penis.
Oh, and I'm pulling the bullshit card on that one. Girls don't work that way.
That was just made to make you laugh....but I do think I use that bullshit card when I don't know it.
You shouldn't be jelious. You know what makes me jelous of you guys? Your computers. I'm running on a Compaq Presario, as you can tell I can't run NO MMORPG smoothly yet none at all. I don't have the pocket change to build me a rig or buy a better rig. I envy all of you... I would take a good computer over girls that would want me...well when they find out that I'm actually a good guy and one that they are looking for...
Mod, I would trade your rig for the girls that first turned me down for being understanding and wise for sex with other guys then want me back, becuase I'm somthing they have been looking for.
Ya know I like this community, that is why I'm here, hanging out. Who has to be a gamer in order to be in a gaming community. Well yeah I'm a gamer but look at the Off-Topic forums. Take a break from all the political things and chill with rikimaru. I'm taking a break from political discussions as I used to be the Alex of them sometime back.
What else can I say?
P.S. = I really don't care about my post count. It's when people bring it up they throw it in their arguments and discussions. My Elite membership has nothing to do with it neither, becuase I'm the king quoter and quotes don't affect it. Like I said, I like this community and it's my top online community.
I wasn't actually jealous of you, it was a bit of sarcasm. Hell, you can have my computer.
Athlon xp 2200+
512 MB SD-DDR shit ram
60 gig drive
4 fried usb ports
Geforce 4 mx420.
In the future though, if you're giving bits of wisdom, I wouldn't recommend throwing in jokes interspersed randomly throughout the advice. How do socially insecure nerds know which things to listen to?
All I know is that I don't think any of that advice is valid except good hygiene.
Unless you're trying to pick up club sluts, bling isn't going to impress any ladies. I'd be laughed away by any self-respecting semi-mature woman if I wore a chain and tried to "go in for the kill." How old are these girls that are actually attracted to this style? And if they are legal, what is their IQ, and how loose is their package? Oh, and how many one night stands have they had. I predict the answers to be:
1. <100
2. Very
3. >100
Women who are interested in anything but sex would be turned off by 90% of that stuff methinks.
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