It really isn't any of our business, though. Every guild has a process, and every guild has a type, it's why there's guilds in the first place. The fact that certain games are able to sustain gender-specific guilds is just a sign of a demand for tho…
A thread that *isn't* for complaining? Awesome! Wait, it kind of is. Oh well.
Just get another girl to insert herself in your community, then divulge her real life pictures. The pressure will be off you in seconds. Easy.