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I discovered that I'm bisexual

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  • PraetorianiPraetoriani Member Posts: 1,147

    Oh my. Not another one. Not another homosexual debate.

    Sigh. There goes my free afternoon.  ;-)



  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182


    Originally posted by Aldaron

    Originally posted by Gameloading

    Originally posted by Aldaron

    Originally posted by Gameloading

    Originally posted by Aldaron

    Originally posted by Gameloading

    Originally posted by Aldaron

    Originally posted by Gameloading

    Originally posted by Aldaron

    Originally posted by Gameloading

    Originally posted by Aldaron

    ok, #1. Stay away from drinking. You obviously can't handle your liquor in the right way.
    #2. Don't ever do it - Any of it - again.
    #3. Confess to your parents the act, and ask them to help you overcome it.
    #4. See #1.

    why are you acting like its something that is "wrong" or "bad"?



    Because that's my opinion.


    Really? and how did you came to that opinion? How did you came to the conclussion that its wrong?



    Logic, and observation of nature.

    Really? thats very intresting, did you know that homosexuality and bisexuality is part of nature?



    Of course, how else could I come to my conclusion? By the observation of astronomy?


    If it is something natural, then I don't really understand how you came to the rediculous conslussion that its "wrong".



    Rape, murder, pedophilia, necrophilia - All very extreme cases, but for a point -- All occurring within the realm of nature. All by definition, "Natural".


    The things you listed harm other people, so I can understand that althought its natural, its considered wrong. but a bisexual experience doesn't harm ANYONE.



    Necrophilia doesn't, they're dead. Pedophilia being villified is only a product of the Christianization of western culture.

    And how many people do you think will like it that their corpses are used for Necrophilia after they died? Pedophilia is "wrong" if they actually bother children. it DOES affect children.

    Some Native American tribes such as the Koniagas practiced pedophilia as a cultural norm, as well as the greeks, romans, chinese, japanese, many middle-eastern countries. Some believed that it was good for the mental and physical growth of the (usually) young man.

    Rape, although harming, comes down to the very basic instinct of a humans primal urges - The urge to procreate. Now if looking at this on a complete "natural" scale, the need for procreation far surpasses any mental harm that may come to the unwilling participant.

    That does not take away that rape harms the victim. also, rapist don't want to procreate, they want to have sex (and No, procreate and sex is NOT the same)

    But in the end, most of these crimes comes down to one very simple fact - Egocentrism. One so involved with ones own being that they care not if it harms people directly or indirectly as long as they attain the desires they seek for.

    homosexuality does not harm anyone.



  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182
    *waits till OneMuslim jumps in the thread, telling everybody how wrong the OP is and telling her she should convert to the Islam asap*

  • JorevJorev Member Posts: 1,500


    Originally posted by Gameloading
    *waits till OneMuslim jumps in the thread, telling everybody how wrong the OP is and telling her she should convert to the Islam asap*

    I think stoning her to death would be the response.

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  • XeximaXexima Member UncommonPosts: 2,698


    Originally posted by Jorev

    Originally posted by Gameloading
    *waits till OneMuslim jumps in the thread, telling everybody how wrong the OP is and telling her she should convert to the Islam asap*
    I think stoning her to death would be the response.


    HEAR! HEAR!

    All for stoning Angyl to death say "I!"



    Btw, thats hot angyl.
  • HocheteHochete Member CommonPosts: 1,210

    a) i don't beleive your a girl, because a girl wouldn't be posting such experiences on an MMORPG forum

    b) all women are lesbians at heart, fact.

  • JorevJorev Member Posts: 1,500


    Originally posted by Hohbein

    a) i don't beleive your a girl, because a girl wouldn't be posting such experiences on an MMORPG forum
    b) all women are lesbians at heart, fact.


    People post a lot more personal stuff on myspace.com. It's attention she wants and since most MMOG players are male, seems like a good place to post.

    If I was a woman I would be a lesbian. Womens bodies are beautiful, men's bodies are gross.

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  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182


    Originally posted by Jorev

    Originally posted by Hohbein

    a) i don't beleive your a girl, because a girl wouldn't be posting such experiences on an MMORPG forum
    b) all women are lesbians at heart, fact.

    People post a lot more personal stuff on myspace.com. It's attention she wants and since most MMOG players are male, seems like a good place to post.

    If I was a woman I would be a lesbian. Womens bodies are beautiful, men's bodies are gross.


    QFT hehe.
  • AelfinnAelfinn Member Posts: 3,857


    Originally posted by Hohbein

    a) i don't beleive your a girl, because a girl wouldn't be posting such experiences on an MMORPG forum
    b) all women are lesbians at heart, fact.



    A.) Why not? Dont think that every woman you meet will act in a fashion that you are used to. Heck, I was always taught to be polite and open the door for one passing through. Just the other day, someone decided it didn't fit with her ideals of free women. She just about slapped me over it.

    B.) I'd love to see the evidence you based that one on.

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  • XeximaXexima Member UncommonPosts: 2,698


    Originally posted by Aelfinn

    Originally posted by Hohbein

    b) all women are lesbians at heart, fact.


    B.) I'd love to see the evidence you based that one on.


    On the fact that all women are truely lesbians, duhhh.

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  • IIRLIIRL Member Posts: 876
    Is the video up yet? Post URL asap.


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  • HocheteHochete Member CommonPosts: 1,210


    Originally posted by IIRL
    Is the video up yet? Post URL asap.


    tbh
  • shaeshae Member Posts: 2,509

    /sigh

    First Angyl, there are 500,000k better forums on the internet to post a question regarding your sexuality, not because this is a gaming site but 95.% of the people here will have absolutely NO clue about this kind of situation or have ever been through it, I would say the same thing to someone looking marriage/divorce advise. Yeah, I realize this is Off-Topic Discussion but you know EXACTLY the reaction YOU are looking for by posting this here.

    Second and only IF this isn't complete BS, you let your guard down? and the next thing you knew...? AND you let it get filmed. OH C'MON !!!!! This is what's called an excuse, unless your a complete idiot and have no means of fending for yourself in any capacity (and I've read your posts, your not stupid) then you knew exactly what was going on and knew damn well when you were being filmed.

    I've been there, I know, drunk and or high, it's your choice to stay or to leave and unless you were rapped and abused, you meant and or allowed whatever happened. AND if you were rapped or abused, get the hell off the boards, go call the police and get help right right right now.

    Is this wrong? Are you f***ing kidding me? This is your life, your body, your sexuality. What anyone here say's doesn't matter, what your parents think does not matter, what your friends think does't matter. What does matter is how you feel about yourself in relation to your sexuality, talk to people that understand that, that know what your feeling and how they can help you get to that point.

    That's what your supposed to do.

    Well at least once your done going through all the PM's in your inbox but of course... that's not what you wanted, right?

  • shamallshamall Member CommonPosts: 516
    No need to feel wierd about what turns you on. (unless its illegal)
    I'm afraid the only way we can give you real advise is to view said film and judge for ourselves.

    This thread is nothing w/o picks!


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  • CowinspaceCowinspace Member Posts: 671


    Originally posted by Angyl

    Ok, so some of you may remember when I posted about the time when I wore a school-girl outfit to a party and got hit on by a lesbian. At that time I thought it was disgusting and ignored her, I was sober. Well, it kind of happened again, different situation... And I was drunk...
    I let my guard down and the next thing I knew... (I won't post this because we have members under the age of 14 on this forum) ...and I think it got filmed, I don't remember exactly what happened...
    Is this wrong? I guess I like guys and girls, I just feel so weird about it. I just don't think I can tell my parents because they are christians and they might get really mad, what the hell am I supposed to do?


    Don't tell your folks until you are sure they can take it, bad enough if your getting sh*t from other people you don't need/want your own family on your back.

    And there is certainly nothing wrong with being bi-sexual, just means you have twice the number of options . Seriously though, don't feel pressured to conform (to either hetero or homo) just be yourself. Why? because you can.... (see what i did there )

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  • olddaddyolddaddy Member Posts: 3,356


    Originally posted by shae

    /sigh
    First Angyl, there are 500,000k better forums on the internet to post a question regarding your sexuality, not because this is a gaming site but 95.% of the people here will have absolutely NO clue about this kind of situation or have ever been through it, I would say the same thing to someone looking marriage/divorce advise. Yeah, I realize this is Off-Topic Discussion but you know EXACTLY the reaction YOU are looking for by posting this here.
    .......... 
    Well at least once your done going through all the PM's in your inbox but of course... that's not what you wanted, right?


    I'm with Shae on this one, read this thread three times and still can't believe it would be posted here. Maybe it's generational, but in my time we'd never admit to this kinda stuff on a public forum, especially on a gaming forum known for flamebait. There are alot better ways to seek real advise....


  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182


    Originally posted by olddaddy

    Originally posted by shae

    /sigh
    First Angyl, there are 500,000k better forums on the internet to post a question regarding your sexuality, not because this is a gaming site but 95.% of the people here will have absolutely NO clue about this kind of situation or have ever been through it, I would say the same thing to someone looking marriage/divorce advise. Yeah, I realize this is Off-Topic Discussion but you know EXACTLY the reaction YOU are looking for by posting this here.
    .......... 
    Well at least once your done going through all the PM's in your inbox but of course... that's not what you wanted, right?

    I'm with Shae on this one, read this thread three times and still can't believe it would be posted here. Maybe it's generational, but in my time we'd never admit to this kinda stuff on a public forum, especially on a gaming forum known for flamebait. There are alot better ways to seek real advise....



    The thing is, the off-topic section of this forum has quite a lot of quality posters. in fact, I'm pretty sure a few of the posters here only come to this site BECAUSE of the off topic section.  sure there are flames, I'm sure the OP expected that. but there are quite some quality responses as well.
  • shaeshae Member Posts: 2,509


    Originally posted by Gameloading

    The thing is, the off-topic section of this forum has quite a lot of quality posters. in fact, I'm pretty sure a few of the posters here only come to this site BECAUSE of the off topic section.  sure there are flames, I'm sure the OP expected that. but there are quite some quality responses as well.


    I'm in complete agreement with you GL, I think there's great people for all sorts of topics and your certainly one of them for me GL, I'll read a thread just because you comment in it. I feel that way with lots of people in the off topics discussion board and on this site in general.

    The point I was trying to make is that while is a great site, there's really some much better resources out there for someone who might all of a sudden realize they are attracted to the same sex and to word it as it was, well it smells of someone begging for attention. I'm not saying that was absolutely the intention, just my perception and I'm sure she got it.

    Maybe I'm taking it the wrong way but as a female that fights on this site everyday for a tiny bit of respect as a gamer if only even from a very small handful of people, I kinda almost feel like every single a new female comes to these boards, within 100 or so posts they're commenting about how they're bi or how they sleep around and on and on. I'm usually the last one to take things to seriously but it gets tiresome after awhile, ya'know?

  • BlazinBladesBlazinBlades Member Posts: 1,214


    Originally posted by Angyl

    Ok, so some of you may remember when I posted about the time when I wore a school-girl outfit to a party and got hit on by a lesbian. At that time I thought it was disgusting and ignored her, I was sober. Well, it kind of happened again, different situation... And I was drunk...
    I let my guard down and the next thing I knew... (I won't post this because we have members under the age of 14 on this forum) ...and I think it got filmed, I don't remember exactly what happened...
    Is this wrong? I guess I like guys and girls, I just feel so weird about it. I just don't think I can tell my parents because they are christians and they might get really mad, what the hell am I supposed to do?


    How do you all of sudden become gay.

    Damn byotch dat aint no friggn moon fool, dat be a friggn space station byotch.

  • XeximaXexima Member UncommonPosts: 2,698


    Originally posted by BlazinBlades

    Originally posted by Angyl

    Ok, so some of you may remember when I posted about the time when I wore a school-girl outfit to a party and got hit on by a lesbian. At that time I thought it was disgusting and ignored her, I was sober. Well, it kind of happened again, different situation... And I was drunk...
    I let my guard down and the next thing I knew... (I won't post this because we have members under the age of 14 on this forum) ...and I think it got filmed, I don't remember exactly what happened...
    Is this wrong? I guess I like guys and girls, I just feel so weird about it. I just don't think I can tell my parents because they are christians and they might get really mad, what the hell am I supposed to do?

    How do you all of sudden become gay.


    ... She found out that she was bi, not gay.  It isn't as if she just decided one day "I'm going to be bi today."
  • MajorBiggsMajorBiggs Member UncommonPosts: 709
    My parents said they'd still love me if i turned out to be gay...
  • Rikimaru_XRikimaru_X Member UncommonPosts: 11,718
    My best bet for you is to stop drinking and straighten up. If you know that you do such bad things while drunk then you might need to stop before you end up in an even worst problem. If you think that you are really bisexual, I suggest you grab your parents and have a heart to heart talk with them. Usually christian parents (like my own) are really open into such a situation and should be able to talk it over to you about it.

    It may be hard, but you got to tell your parents. By hiding it, time will just make it worse. Make sure that you know exactily if you are bisexual, you might need a good week to think about this as this is really a big issue. I hope you do the right thing.


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  • XeximaXexima Member UncommonPosts: 2,698


    Originally posted by MajorBiggs
    My parents said they'd still love me if i turned out to be gay...

    haha, your parents think you're gay!
  • shaeshae Member Posts: 2,509


    Originally posted by Rikimaru_X
    My best bet for you is to stop drinking and straighten up. If you know that you do such bad things while drunk then you might need to stop before you end up in an even worst problem. If you think that you are really bisexual, I suggest you grab your parents and have a heart to heart talk with them. Usually christian parents (like my own) are really open into such a situation and should be able to talk it over to you about it.

    It may be hard, but you got to tell your parents. By hiding it, time will just make it worse. Make sure that you know exactily if you are bisexual, you might need a good week to think about this as this is really a big issue. I hope you do the right thing.


    I'm kinda curious now... when do we get to see the Riki, hidden camera sex video ??? I just know there's one out there somewhere, if a not a dozen .
  • GameloadingGameloading Member UncommonPosts: 14,182


    Originally posted by shae


    Originally posted by Gameloading



    The thing is, the off-topic section of this forum has quite a lot of quality posters. in fact, I'm pretty sure a few of the posters here only come to this site BECAUSE of the off topic section.  sure there are flames, I'm sure the OP expected that. but there are quite some quality responses as well.


    I'm in complete agreement with you GL, I think there's great people for all sorts of topics and your certainly one of them for me GL, I'll read a thread just because you comment in it. I feel that way with lots of people in the off topics discussion board and on this site in general.

    The point I was trying to make is that while is a great site, there's really some much better resources out there for someone who might all of a sudden realize they are attracted to the same sex and to word it as it was, well it smells of someone begging for attention. I'm not saying that was absolutely the intention, just my perception and I'm sure she got it.

    Maybe I'm taking it the wrong way but as a female that fights on this site everyday for a tiny bit of respect as a gamer if only even from a very small handful of people, I kinda almost feel like every single a new female comes to these boards, within 100 or so posts they're commenting about how they're bi or how they sleep around and on and on. I'm usually the last one to take things to seriously but it gets tiresome after awhile, ya'know?


    haha, Thank you Shae.Its nice to know someone is intrested in my posts
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